Nzira yekuziva sei murume paInternet? Zvinotaridzika kuti uyu mubvunzo wakaoma kwazvo, kune mhinduro yakajeka, hongu, kuenda kunzvimbo yekufambidzana uye ikoko kuti uzvisarudzire iwe pachako kana varume gumi nevaviri uye uende kunze. Kwete, hazvisi nyore pane iyi internet.
Kutanga, iwe unoda kuzadza mubvunzo wechirongwa, iwe unogona kuona mapurogiramu evakadzi vagara varipo pawebsite uye vadzidze kubva kwavari kuti vagadzire sei mhinduro yako. Nokuda kwemugumisiro wakanaka, zvakakosha kunyora muchidimbu uye zvinonakidza, varume havadi kuverenga kutaura kwebstruse uye kwenguva refu. Zvadaro, unofanirwa kutora mapikicha kuti uvaratidze muhupano hwako, usaisa embellish iwo kupfuura kutarisa mukugadzirisa zvirongwa, zviri nani kuti munhu anonzwisisa kuti ari kutarisana naye. Asi kunyange mufananidzo wakaipisisa hauna kukosha, varume vanoramba vachida nemeso avo, kunyange vachitaura kuti vanoda mweya.
Mushure mokunge maisa deta yenyu, varume vakawanda vanotanga kukuona, ivo vachanyora. Usakurumidza kuenda kune wokutanga uyo anokukoka iwe pazuva, taura zvakanaka, pamwe nevhiki pamwe chete naye pawebsite. Tora zvakanyanya pamufananidzo wake, kana murume asina kuratidza mufananidzo wake, zviri pachena kuti akaroorwa. Chiso chake chine zvizhinji zvokutaura pamusoro pehupenyu hwake. Mukati memakambani mubvunze mibvunzo inonyengera, yakaputirwa chete, kuitira kuti asanzwisise kuti uri kuverenga iyo. Kana zvakakunakira iwe, kumusundira kuti akukoka iwe musi.
Zuva rokutanga rinofanirwa kuti riitike munzvimbo yakazara, hauzive kuti munhu akadini chaizvo. Kune dzakawanda zvikuru ma maniacs pane nzvimbo dzekufambidzana paInternet. Pfungwa yekutanga yemunhu nguva dzose yakarurama, teererai intuition yako. Nyatsocherechedza maitiro aanoita, manzwiro aanotaura, maonero ake. Vamwe varume vanozvibvumira kuti vauye musi wekutanga, vasina kupfeka, mune nguo dzakasviba, uye kunyange pasina mari. Havagoni kukukoka iwe kune cafe, ugare pamusoro pekombe yekofi.
Saka, kana iwe ukasanudza murume pane mashefu, unogona kutora mhedziso inotevera pamusoro pemusangano wokutanga.
Kana, murume wacho haana kuchena, saka haaremekedzi iye oga, asiwo iwe pakutanga.
Murume anoshandisa mutauro wake unonyadzisa, pakarepo funga kuti iwe unoda murume.
Murume haana kukukoka iwe ku cafe, achitaura nezvekuti haana mari, iwe unogona kutaura nekururama kwe 100% - angave ari mupemhi, kana ane makaro, kana zvachose asina kunaka.
Iwe wakasvika kune cafe, iwe unowana nhoroondo, murume anoita maziso makuru uye anoti akanganwa chikwama chake kumba, uye anopa kukubhadhara iwe, uye anofunga kuti achakudzosera iwe mari, iyi i100% gigolos uye murevi wenhema.
Mumwe murume anokurumidza kukukoka kuti usangane naye kumba kwake, kana kukwira motokari. Izvi zvinotsamwisa zvakajeka zvehukama hwepabonde. Ukama hwakasimba nomunhu akadaro hahuzoshandi.
Murume wacho anotanga kushungurudza mudzimai wake wokutanga uye manheru ose anongotaura nezvake chete. Kanganwa pamusoro peizvi kamwechete, achiri kumuda uye iwe hauzofari. Ichava nguva yeupenyu yekuyeuka yekare.
Mumwe murume anoudza manheru ose kuti mwanasikana akanaka sei, kana mwanakomana akanaka sei, sei vanopedza vhiki yevhiki yakanaka pamwe chete. Pano iwewo kwete nzvimbo, pairi idyll, ivana vavo.
Murume wacho manheru ose anongotaura pamusoro pake pachake, nezvebasa, pamusoro pezvaanoda. Funga kuti iwe unogona kurarama nemurume akadaro hupenyu hwako hwose, kana uri wekunzwa chete uye mumvuri wake.
Asi hazvisi zvose zvakashata sepane hutatu hutsananguro rwemurume. Havasi vanhu vose vakaita saizvozvo. Kana akashinga, akauya zuva rokutanga nemaruva (ane chamomile asina kuroora muchechi yecellophane), akakumhanyira kune cafe kana muresitorendi, ndokuenda kumba kwake pamotokari yake kana taxi. Wakakurukurirana zvemagariro uye akakubvunza pamusoro pehupenyu hwako, saka unogona kuva murume wako.
Mune ramangwana, pawakawana mutungamiri wako munhau iyi inonzi Indaneti, rega mararamiro ako uye usapinda kunze uko kupfuura kare kose, kunyange nekuda kwechido chisina basa. Chengetedza mufaro iwe unayo.