Nguva yauya, uye iwe wakaziva kuti, murume akanaka kwazvo uyo anogona kukufadza iwe, hauzombogoni kuwana. Anokunzwisisa zvakakwana. Iye anogara aripo apo iwe uchida kuchema nekuda kwekuti mafungiro akaipa uye "nyika yose yakakoromoka". Ane mutsa, wakanakisisa, anonyatsonzwisisa, ane hanya zvikuru. Mubvunzo uri mumusoro mangu ndewokuti nei ndisina kuona murume wandakarota naye?
Ichokwadi here uye kuti ingashandura sei hukama kubva kune ushamwari hune rudo ?
Kuti uwane kubudirira, unofanira kuratidza nekuratidza kuti iwe uri murudo uye unova nemanzwiro anokonzera shamwari yako - murume.
Kutanga, ngatitangei nechokwadi chokuti mune zvakawanda zvakakunakira kune vamwe vakadzi: Munoziva zvose zvinobudirira uye zvido zvemurume wamunofarira. Iwe unoziva zvaanoda, zvaanoda. Nokudaro, kana iwe ukashandisa mashoko ose akawanikwa nenzira yakarurama uye unosanganisira yako yose chishandiso, zvino ita kuti ushamwari huve rudo, hazvingave zvakaoma kwauri.
Chinangwa chako: rudo rwake. Zviito zvako: edza kuva nehanya newe uye kubvunza
mibvunzo pamusoro pehupenyu hwake hwekare, kunyanya pamusoro pehukama hwake hwekare. Zvinogona kuitika kuti mibvunzo yakadaro ichaita godo nekutsamwa mumweya wako. Asi, chengetedza manzwiro munhare, iyo nzira inokosha kana iwe uchida kuzadzikisa chokwadi: "Ungashandura sei ukama kubva kune ushamwari huri murudo?" Kana, zvisinei, mafungiro asina kunaka anomuka, zvino yeuka kuti avo vekare vasikana vakanga vari munguva yakapfuura, uye pamwe naye pedo nezvino-iwe.
Kana iwe uine chokwadi chekuti mudiki wacho anonzwa akagadzirira kugadzira ukama hwakakomba (kwete kwete newe), saka iwe unogona kubvunza nekuchengeteka mibvunzo.
Chii chinofanira kufarira iwe pakutanga? Chii chakamukwezva kumusikana wekare, chaaida maari, zviito zvipi zvaakaita nekuda kwerudo kwaari. Uye, usatya, uchiyeuka nguva dzinofadza, iye achatanga kuronga ichi chimiro chakanakisisa uye zvinonakidza manzwiro pamusoro pako. Iwe chete iwe wakasiyana, iwe uri mukadzi akanaka, asi umpe gungwa rekunzwa uye kunzwa kusingazivi. Uye kubva mhinduro dzakagamuchirwa iwe unonzwisisa kuti ungatora sei kiyi yemwoyo wake.
Iwe nguva dzose wakamuona somunhu ari pedyo, asi, nekuuya kwe rudo mumoyo mako, zvakasununguka, mukadzi achamuka mukati mako. Iwe unoda kumuona kakawanda, kana iwe uchikusangana iwe uchaita zvepabonde. Zvose izvi zvakanaka, asi pano chinhu chikuru hachisi chokudarika, nokuti hutsika huno hutsva hunogona kumutya uye kumusundira kure. Asi iwe unofarira kune imwezve.
Shandura hukama hwehukama kubva kune ushamwari kune rudo runogoneka, hazvina kuoma. Asi usati watanga hurumende iyi, pindura mubvunzo uyu: "Iwe uchazadzika rini uyu murume - manzwiro ako ekudanana murudo haazoperi semhute yemangwanani?". Mushure mezvose, kudzorera ushamwari hwakarasika hwakaoma zvikuru kupfuura kuwana rudo nekudzokorora.
Kana, paunopindura mubvunzo uyu, unonyatsoziva kuti chisarudzo chacho chaitwa nenzira yakarurama uye hauzombozvidembi kuti wakasunga chiitiko chako neshamwari, pachava nenguva dzakanaka mumubatanidzwa wako.
Zvinonzwisisika, rudo runoratidzwa nekuvapo kwekuchiva, kuda kweumwe neumwe. Asi, nekufamba kwenguva, nguva iyi yekupenga ichapfuura. Uye chii chawasiya? Uye ushamwari hwako hwekupedzisira huchakubata iwe. Yeuka kuti sei iwe wakamufunga iye shamwari? Nokuti, iwe unonzwa zviri pedyo chaizvo. Iwe wakagara uchiwana zvinyorwa zvinoenderana nemabasa. Ikoko kwaiva nekuvimba muhukama hwako. Iwe nguva dzose wave uchifarira kushandisa nguva yako yekusununguka pamwe chete. Kanopfuura kamwechete, shamwari yako, ikozvino iwe mudiwa wako, yakasvika pakununura apo yaidiwa.
Zvose zviri pamusoro apa haisi chivimbo cheukama hurefu, husingaperi uye hunofadza?