Rwiyo rwemazuva ano rwehupenyu runosiya ruzivo rwavo pamuviri wedu uye kunyanya mupfungwa. Kusagadzikana kusingaperi. Kusina nguva yezororo rakakwana. Matambudziko mumhuri uye kubasa. Izvo zvakaoma kukunda matambudziko aya. Kunyange kutaurirana nemusikana hazvibatsiri mumamiriro ezvinhu aya. Pano iwe unoda rubatsiro rweyanyanzvi. Zita - chiremba wezvepfungwa.
Hatitombofungi kuti kukurukurirana kwakawanda sei mupfungwa wepfungwa kunogona kuita kuti upenyu huve nyore kwatiri. Hapana nharo dzemwoyo-ne-mwoyo dzisingagoni kutibatsira zvakanyanya sekushanda nemumwe nyanzvi. Muchikwata chechiremba wezvepfungwa, pfuma yakawanda. Akawana mamiriro akasiyana-siyana uye akagadzira nzira yakanakisisa yekubatsira varwere mune imwe neimwe nyaya. Mukuwedzera, chiremba wepfungwa akanaka anofarira zviitiko zvevamwe vake uye anotora zvakanakisisa.
Usakurumidza kupindura muvakidzani wako nemoyo wako. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe ukwanisa kuwana mumwe munhu kuti aone mujasi rako, zvichava nyore kwauri. Asi kwechinguva. Mamiriro ezvinhu anorwadza achadzoka zvakare. Mukugadzirisa kudzoka kwepfungwa, makadhimine matanho anodiwa. Yeuka kuti kushungurudzika hakusi pfungwa isina kugadziriswa, asi iyo yakaipa yemuviri. Uye pasina rubatsiro rwechiremba wepfungwa kuti uwane kuzora zvakakwana hazvikwanisi kuverengwa.
Kumadokero, kushanyira kune chiremba wezvepfungwa kunowanzoonekwawo, sezvinesu - kushanyira kune vabati vehodzi. Vanhu veEurope neAmerica vanobudirira "kumucheto". Uye kana chiremba wepfungwa asina kubatsira, havazobhadhari mari yakawanda nokuda kwebasa ravo. Saka, zvakakosha kudzidza kubva pane zvakaitika kwavari.
Munyika yedu, vanhu vakawanda vanowedzera kuvhutano hwepfungwa kuti vabatsirwe. Mabasa avo haasi akadhura. Uye kwete nzira yepamhizha ingangokuvadza chete. Saka zvakakosha zvikuru kusarudza mupfungwa wepfungwa. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa, iyi ndiyo rudzi rwemasipator. Kana apinda muchivimbo kune murwere, anogona kukanganisa pfungwa yake, kutora zvisarudzo nemabasa.
Saka ungasarudza sei nyanzvi yezvepfungwa uye usati uwire mubhaititi kumutengesi?
Nyanzvi yepfungwa inosarudzwa nenzira imwechete iyo chiremba anosarudzwa. Chero chero regalia yaanova nayo, pamusangano wekutanga iwe unomutsvaga pane imwe nhanho. Uye kana iwe usingadi chimwe chinhu, pamwe unofanirwa kutarisa imwe nyanzvi. Mukufunga kwepfungwa, sepasipo, iwe unofanirwa kuva nekutendana kwekuvimba pakati pako uye mupfungwa wepfungwa. Mushure mezvose, iwe uchafanirwa kuvimba naye neaunonyanya kushamwaridzana uye anorwadza.
Kana iwe ukakunda kusarura uye ukasarudza kutendeukira kumuongorori, usave wakasviba zvikuru kubvunza shamwari neshamwari. Zvichida mumwe munhu atova neruzivo rwakanaka nerubatsiro rwechiremba wepfungwa uye anogona kukurudzira chiremba chaiwo. Izvi zvinokuchengetedza nguva yakawanda uye nemitsipa.
Kana iwe ukawana unyanzvi iwe pachako, usanonoka kuziva nezvekufanirwa kwake mune zvakadzama. Chokutanga pane zvose, anofanira kunge ane diploma. Bvunza kuti rudzi rwemhando yehutungamiri uye hupi hwehutano hwaanayo. Hazvigoneki kuti mwana wepfungwa dzepfungwa achabatsira mukadzi akwegura nounyanzvi.
Pakukurukurirana, iwe unofanira kungwarira nechivimbiso chemigumisiro yakakurumidza. Muchikamu chepfungwa, humwe husimbidziro hahusi hwakakodzera. Uyewo iwe unofanirwa kucheneswa nechishuvo chemuongorori "kuti akuzive zviri nani". Kushamwaridzana nemunhu mumwechete chiratidzo chekusava nechimwe chinhu chakasikwa. Zvechokwadi, iwe haugone kuronga mwoyo wako, asi ipapo iwe unofanirwa kutarisa mumwe mupfungwa wepfungwa. Nenzira, mazhinji mafirimu akafuridzirwa panyaya iyi.
Zviratidzo zvinokuvadza zvinosanganisirawo chido chekumanikidzira uzivi pauri. Uyewo kuedza kukukurudzira kuti ushande mune boka (kunze kwekuti iri mubvunzo wokurapa hukama hwevanhu). Muongorori wepfungwa asina kururama mukutsvaka purogiramu inobatsira zvikuru kubvuma vatengi vakawanda munguva shoma.
Nyanzvi yepfungwa inyanzvi haifaniri kushanda nemaonero echitendero uye zviratidzo. Kana akakumbira kutenda, asingazivi nezvemaonero ako kune zvechitendero, saka zvichida iwe unopesana nedzimwe sangano.
Nyanzvi yepfungwa haisi chiremba. Semurairo, ane dzidzo yepamusoro muvanhu. Haafaniri kushandisa mishonga. Usavhiringidza mupfungwa wepfungwa nemunhu wepfungwa uye mupfungwa yepfungwa. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa ichakubatsira iwe, kana iwe uine hanya nekugara uine hanya, urombo huripo, uchitambudzwa zvivako. Kana iwe usina ukama mumhuri kana kubasa. Kana uchida rubatsiro mwana wako.
Mumwe chiremba wepfungwa uye mumwe mupfungwa wepfungwa ane dzidzo yepamusoro yezvokurapa. Vanonyatsoziva nzira dzepanyama dzebasa repfungwa uye kushandisa mishonga mukurapa. Iko kukanganisa kufunga kuti masayendisiti anobata vanhu vane pfungwa dzisina kunaka. Vachabatsira munhu ane chirwere chisingaperi chekuora mwoyo, kutambura nekunyanya kunetseka, mamiriro ekudzivirira, kurwisana nemasikirasi akasiyana-siyana. Muongorori wepfungwa ane ruzivo rwakadzika rwepfungwa uye zvepfungwa. Anoshanda nematambudziko akaoma zvikuru. Mubasa rake rinogona kushandisa chiedza hypnosis uye mitambo yemitambo. Murapi uyu anobatsira kurwisana nematambudziko anorema zvikuru ane chokuita nechisimba, kurasikirwa nemunhu waunoda, akapukunyuka dambudziko kana njodzi. Saka, sarudza rubatsiro rwakananga rwaunoda.
Iwe unogona kuziva nhamba huru yepfungwa dzepfungwa, inoshanda nezwi, asi uve nyanzvi yezvepfungwa. Kana nyanzvi pachake asina kuzvigadzirisa matambudziko ake, akanga aneta nevanhu, akarega kunzwira tsitsi uye kunzwisisa dambudziko revamwe vanhu, ipapo rubatsiro rwake rwaizova rusina kufanira.
Uyewo zvakakosha kubhadhara kutarisa kwebasa rechiremba wepfungwa. Iyo nyanzvi inofanirwa kuenda kune muchengeti, uye kwete kutyisidzira, kumurondedzera izvo mutengi anoda kunzwa. Ichi ndicho chinonyanya kukosha. Kana munhu akaudzwa zvakawanda kupfuura zvaanenge achida kuziva, "achazvivharira iye muhombodo yake" kana kutya. Kana iwe uchitaura zvishomanana - iye achasiya hofisi nekunzwa kuti mupfungwa wepfungwa haana kukwana zvakakwana. Uye kuvimba mune bhizinesi iri chinhu chakakosha zvikuru. Zvichida, ndiko kuvimba kuti ndiyo mushonga mukuru wekupora kwako mupfungwa.
Psychology ibasa rejoko. Uye kutarisira kuti mushure mekunge mumwe anoshanyira kune nyanzvi dzose matambudziko achagadziriswa negavo, musazviita. Iwe unofanirwa kushanda muviri. Mushure mezvose, chiremba wepfungwa, kusiyana nechiremba, haatauri mushonga, shure kwaizvozvo iwe uchanonoka kunzwa zviri nani. Unofanirwa kugadzirira kuti kubatana kwakadaro ibasa rakaoma uye rinoshanda.