Haisi chakavanzika chinopenya, rudo rukuru harusi kurarama hupenyu hwose, asi makore 2-3 bedzi, saka nguva yekudzikama inotanga muhukama. Chinhu chose chinonyaradza pasi, chinopera, chinoshanduka kuva chimiro chakasiyana, zvichida kunyange chechokwadi uye chenyoro. Zvisinei, havasi vose vanoifarira. Vamwe varume vachiri kuda chimwe chinhu chitsva, kufadza, vachiri nechido chekuchinja chimwe chinhu muupenyu. Zvino kazhinji kune amaikadzi, vatsva uye vasina kujairika. Kana mumwe muenzaniso. Pashure pemakore 15-17 ekuroora, apo vana vakatove vakakura uye vachida kuita zvishoma ivo, murume anoona kuti iye haasi iye akafanana. Anotanga kunetseka nokuti dumbu kana bvudzi riri kubuda kunze, anoda kuzviratidza kuti iye achiri kukosha chimwe chinhu, kuti zvose zviri mberi kwake. Hakuna kunze pano mukadzi.
Kazhinji, nekuda kweizvi, vakaroorana vanova vasingazivi, kunyange vachigara muimba imwe chete. Kunze kwezvikonzero mumhuri, kune zvikonzero uye unhu. Somuenzaniso, kuzvidya. Murume ane huwandu hwehukama hwepabonde anoedza kuvandudza kuzviremekedza. Kazhinji, zvose zvinotaura nezvemashoko. Vakawanda vanotenda kuti murume chaiye haafaniri kunge ane mudzimai chete, asiwo tenzikadzi.
Nzira yekupukunyuka sei? Chokutanga, unoda kudzikama. Kuva mumamiriro ezvinhu akakanganisika, unogona kubvarura huni, uchipa mhosva murume wako wezvivi zvose zvinotadza. Zvadaro, apo kutukwa kwapera, zvichange zvakaoma kuyananisa. Chechipiri, zvakanakisisa kusaisa munhu asati asarudzwa, sezvo iye, ari pamucheto wekuchiva, anogona kutora ndokubva. Vanodanana mumwe nomumwe vanobva vatanga kushamiswa, munguva pfupi iye achanzwisisa zvaunoreva kwaari, achada kudzoka, asi, zvinotyisa, zvose zvichave zvakarasika. Uye, pakupedzisira, usaita chisarudzo pamusoro pekutengeserana. Vakawanda vevarume vacho havasi vakachenjera sevakadzi. Shandura murume wako haazokuregerera iwe.
Sezvinozivikanwa mumazviitiko zvakawanda, kupandukira kunogona kuchengetedza mhuri. Chii chaungaita kana munhu asingagoni kuwana imwe nzira, kuzviratidza pachake. Zvichiri nani, kana panzvimbo yevanyengeri uye zvinonyadzisa, iwe unofunga, hausi iwe une mhosva here? Mushure mezvose, dzimwe nguva mumharapara, vakadzi vanomira vachizvicherechedza, vanomira kuteerera varume vavo, uye kunyange shoko ranyoro haruwanzobudiswa kubva kwavari. Asi murume wake anoda zvose! Kuchinja, anowanzotsvaka kutsvaga, asi nekunyatsonzwisisa nekudziya. Kutuka kuchaita kuti mukadzi akangwara azvione, zvakakodzera kumuratidza kuti ari pamba zviri nani kupfuura kune rumwe rutivi.
Yeuka: murume anoda mweya semhepo! Kazhinji kuchinja mufananidzo, mukati mukati meimba. Kufamba, enda kunoshanyira, kumapato. Chero mamiriro ezvinhu, usati waita sarudzo, zvakakosha kukuyeuka kuti kupandukira kunongova chiratidzo chekuti kune chimwe chinhu chakashata mumhuri yako, uye kana iwe ukanyatsonzwisisa chiratidzo ichi, haugoni kuchengeta chete, asiwo unovandudza ukama hwako . Kunyengedzera kunogona kuva zvose kuguma uye kutanga kwehupenyu hutsva, uye zviri kwauri kuti uone kana iwe uchida kuponesa mhuri.