Chishuvo chekunyengedzera
Kusagutsikana nebasa ravo remazuva ano uye chido chokuwana chimwe chinogona kuva nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda. Chinyanya kukosha chisarudzo chisina kururama chekutanga. Mwana wechidiki ane makore 16 kusvika ku17 anofungisisa upenyu zvakaoma kunzwisisa zvaanoda kuita mumakore makumi mana kusvika makumi mashanu anotevera. Zvakanaka, kana pane chimwe chinhu chakajeka-nzeve yakanaka yemimhanzi, rudo rusingadikanwi rwemhuka dzaunoda kudhonza mumba, kubata nekutarisira, kana kuti maoko egoridhe, nekuda kwekunge kusina chinhu chakaputsa mudzimba mumba. Kana pasina tarenda iri pachena, vakomana nevanasikana vanoita sarudzo, vachitungamirirwa nevakafanana: "Seryozhka akaenda ikoko, uye ini ndichaenda!"; "Mareji ose anobata zvakanaka"; "Amai vangu vane zvigadzirwa zvepamunharaunda iyi yunivhesiti."
Vabereki, vachiratidza kutarisa mberi nekusimbisa kuti mwana wacho akagamuchira "unhu" hunokosha, chaizvoizvo, anoita vana kusagadzikana. "Vanhu vazhinji vezera rekare vanogutsikana: unoda kusarudza basa rinozokubatsira kuwana nzvimbo muupenyu. Iyi nhaka "scoop". Mhedziso inoratidza kusununguka kwezvinhu zvinoita zvakasiyana-siyana: ona bhizimusi rako pachako, uye ipapo iwe uchabudirira. Iyi ndiyo nzira inobatsira zvikuru: sarudza simba rako uye uwedzere maitiro ako pachako.
Mukutsvaga kuchabatsira , somuenzaniso, kurovedzwa kwehutano hwevanhu - ikozvino vatovepo. Iwe unogona kutaurirana nemudzidzi wepfungwa paImployment Center, verenga ivhu "Kusarudzwa kwebasa" yekodhidhiki yevana yekudhinda imba "Avanta" ... Chinhu chikuru ndechokushandisa nguva nekushingaira pakutsvaga, pane kutungamirirwa nevabereki kana zvido zvevabereki zvakawanikwa kubva kuHollywood mafirimu, se "gweta murume akachena muzutu inodhura. " Vadzidzi vakawanda vanoshamisika kuti vangakurumidza sei kuwana dzidzo yepamusoro yechipiri?
Nhamo, zviitiko zvinowanzowanzoitika zvakananga maererano ne "soviet" mamiriro ezvinhu, saka pane kuwedzera kudarika kwemareya, vatengesi, uye economists munyika. Somuenzaniso, maererano neHurumende yeZvondo, nhasi vanhu vanopfuura hafu yemamiriyoni vanogamuchira huwandu hwe "economist" (mudzidzi wose anokwana mamiriyoni mazana manomwe nemazana manomwe). Uye izvi zvisinei nokuti ihwohwo "nyanzvi yezvemari" yakadai haisati yanyorwa muzvikumbiro zvevanoshandira - zvisinei, mutungamiriri weCIS nyika kuunganidza kambani World Staff Vitaly Mikhailov haana kumbofanira kubata nechikumbiro chakadaro. Somugumisiro, vatsva vanobudiswa mune zvehupfumi nevashambadzi vanoshanda sevanyori kana vatengi vanopa. Uye kwemakore 28 - 30 vanoziva kuti tinofanira kuita chimwe chinhu, nokuti mangwanani-ngwanani hatidi kungoenda kubasa, asi isu hatidi kuita zvakashata. "Uchitarisana nematambudziko epakutanga, uchizvibvunza mubvunzo uyu:
"Ndiri anani mumakore angu makumi matatu , uye ndatarisirei?" "-kufunga kuti hupenyu hwakachena uye husina mufaro, vanhu vanowanzosarudza kuchinja mamiriro ezvinhu kuburikidza nekuchinja nharaunda yebasa. Asi kune ngozi yekuita chisarudzo chisina kunaka. Chisarudzo chakaipa kuita pamusoro pesimba rekutizira, apo imwe nyika isingaoneki separadhiso. Zviri nani kuti usakurumidza uye kuti unzwisise sei iwe pachako. Unganzwisisa sei kuti iyi ibhizimusi rako? Nguva inokosha ndeyokuti hupenyu hunova hunofadza, chimwe chinhu chinotaridzika mukati, kushingaira kuri kubuda, tarisiro inovhurwa ... Hazvifananidzi kushandura mabasa nokuti vanofanirwa kubhadhara zviri nani pane imwe, iwe uchakurumidza kana kuti gare gare kumhanyira mune imwechete yekupedzisira. " Nenzira, munguva pfupi yapfuura vakadzi vaviri vakauya ku "LJ" sangano rehurukuro, vachigadzirisa chisarudzo chisina kunaka, zvichibva pane zvinokanganisa uye vavariro dzenhema: amai nemwanasikana, vose vakapedza zvidzidzo zvepamusoro zvepamusoro mune imwe yemayunivhesiti ega ega. Mudzimai anodzidza ipapo muInternational Economic Department, amai kuburikidza nedzidzo semufilologist, asi kwemakore mazhinji aive mudzimai weimba. Vose vari kufara netarisiro yekuva vatapi venhau vaine ruzivo, asi vachitonga nezvinhu zvavakapa mupepeti-mukuru-mukuru, havana ruzivo rwakanyanya pane izvi. Dzidzo, iyo yavakarongedza kune zviuru zvishanu zvema hryvnia, yaiva yakasvibiswa zvachose yakawanda yenguva nemari.
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Kuzvibvunza kuti nokukurumidza sei kuwana dzidzo yepamusoro yepamusoro, dzimwe nguva kushanduka kwebasa hakutevedzeri nheyo "kubva kune zvakasiyana", asi nokuti munhu akawana zvakanyanya mubhizinesi rake, anonzwa kuti pane chimwe chinhu chakasiyana zvachose - uye anoramba achitendeuka, achirarama hupenyu hwemhizha mbiri pane imwe. Semuenzaniso, mutambi wenhau Elena Drapeko ("A Dawns Here Are Quiet", "Lonely Dormitory Inopa," "Window kuParis") muna 1996 yakapinda mune zvematongerwo enyika, uye kwemakore 10 yakaramba ichisarudza vamiriri veHurumende Duma. Alexandra Yakovleva ("Wizards", "Crew") ane nzvimbo isingatarisirwi yeSeki Mutevedzeri Mukuru weDirectory ye High-Speed ​​Communications yeRussia Railways.
Asi izvi zvakabudirira sarudzo "zvaive zvakanaka, asi zvichange zviri nani" hazvina kukodzera kukurukura - iwe unogona kungorumbidza uye godo chete. Pamusoro pezviitiko zviitiko zvisingafadzi. Iwe uri kurwara, bhizimisi rawakapa makore, rakasimudza, unoda chimwe chinhu chakasiyana. Kana kuti zvimwe zvinotyisidzira kubviswa kubva pakuderedzwa kwevashandi, uye zvakajeka kuti haugoni kuwana nzvimbo yakabhadhara zvakanaka mune zvekare kare. Tinofanira kunzwisisa, kutanga, kuti mweya chii, uye chechipiri, ndeipi mikana yekubudirira mune bhizimisi idzva.
Nzira yekuita sei?
1. Yeuka, mumamiriro api awakanga uri pakakwirira, wakagutsikana negavo. Funga pamusoro pekuti matarenda ako akabatanidzwa panguva iyoyo, zvichida mumatambudziko. Nyora zvikamu zvako zvakanaka pamashizha, zviverengere zvakare. Kufunga nezvechiitiko chakanaka, tanga neruremekedzo rukuru uye ruremekedzo rwekuzvibata iwe, rumbidza izvo zvausina kufunga nezvazvo.
2. Taura nevanhu vanokuziva zvakanaka. Vabvunze kuti vakuudzei zvamunofarira, hupi hune huno hwavanonyanya kukoshesa. Uye zvino-iyo, iyo inofunga, ndiyo yako pfungwa isina simba. Zvakanakisisa zvese, kana chirevo chimwe nechimwe chavanoratidza mamiriro ezvinhu. Usapopotedzana, teerera chete. Iwe zvechokwadi unodzidza zvinhu zvakawanda zvitsva zvisingaenderani nepfungwa yako pachako, uye izvi zvakanaka. Iye zvino chimbofunga pamusoro pokuti unhu hupi hwakasimba huri kudiwa. Semuenzaniso, kukwanisa kuisa zvinhu zvose pane mashefu (mari yemari kana mutongi) kana kutendeseka kwechokwadi (kushanda nevanhu, kubva kuchikoro chechikoro kusvika mune zvematongerwo enyika).
3. Tumirazve kumakambani akasiyana uye uwane mabvunzurudzo akawanda sezvinogona. Unyanzvi HR (mutungamiri weHR), kunyange muhurukuro yakajairika, anogona kuongorora matarenda ako uye ruzivo rwebasa uye kupa mazano akanaka. Zviri nani kuti uwane eichar unoziva uye kumubvunza kuti akupe nguva yekukurukura. Kutungamirirwa nehuhu hwako huripo, anogona kukwanisa kugumisa: nzvimbo yekutengesa haina kukodzera iwe, asi iwe unogona kuzviedza mukuverenga ...
4. Funga nezvenzira yehutano unyanzvi hwaunayo uye mune zvipi, kunze kwewako, unogona kuishandisa. Somuenzaniso, iwe unyanzvi hweTI, asi mune imwe boka rako wakabatanidzwa pakugadzira mapurojekiti. Saka, iwe hausi mutevedzeri wehurongwa, asiwo unyanzvi hwepurojekiti. Kana iwe uri nyanzvi mukuru wekambani, iwe une unyanzvi hwemutungamiriri, uye zvichida unyanzvi hweUI, sezvo fesheni dzakawanda dzichichengetedza pakombiyuta yekuverenga.
Kuwedzera ruzivo (kutarisa mabasa matsva kubatanidza yekare) kunobatsira kupfuura pasina mubvunzo. Mutungamiri uyo akawana dhipatimendi rekuverenga, kana mutori wenhau akajeka uyo akapfuurira kudzidzira mutori wenhau, anongowedzera uye anowedzera nzvimbo dzinogona kuita basa, hapana, pasina kurasikirwa. Asi kana iwe ukasarudza kuchinja pakarepo chigadziro, unofanirwa kunyatsoongorora zvose zvinobudirira nehana. Alla Konyaeva, mutungamiriri wepfungwa yepfungwa yekambani yekuunganidza Ancor SW, anogutsikana: kufunga nezvekuchinja basa iri kana iwe usina kuita chimwe chinhu pane chekare. Kana iwe uri kirasi muongorori, unofanira kutanga tanyatsoongorora zvaunofunga. "Mumwe gweta wechikadzi anouya kwandiri ndokuti:" Ndinonzwa kuti vanhu vanofarira ini, ndiri kufunga nezvekuchinja rudzi rwemabasa. Zvichida, kuti udzidze zvepfungwa? "Saka, ndave ndichiverenga mabhuku emafashoni pamusoro peku" tsvaka ini. " Unofanirwa kuzviwana iwe, hausi mubvunzo. Asi ndiani akati zvakakosha kuchinja basa? Muteereri wangu ndiye gweta rakanakisisa uye ruzivo rwakadzika mundima iyi. Pakazosvika makore makumi matatu iye atova nechinetso chisingaverengeki chekushandura, mufananidzo wepasi wakabuda, umo, unoti, zvose zvakanyorwa pamapepa, munhu anofanira kunge achiziva kuti angafungisisa sei kuti ichokwadi. Nyanzvi yepfungwa iyo yaanoda kuva nayo ine mufananidzo wakasiyana kwazvo wepasi! Anoziva kuti kune mazano mashanu ekusiyana kwechinetso chero chipi zvacho, mumunhu chero upi zvake ane humwe hutano hwakasiyana, uye hapana mumwe "wakarurama" maonero ekuona, hapana imwe "huru" unhu hwevanhu! Saka, unyanzvi hwekushandura imwechete.
Vaviri: mukadzi uyu ane vavariro huru. Zvakakosha kuti anonzwisisa: paanopinda mune imwe sangano remumwe munhu, anoenda kusvika pasi. Uye haisi chokwadi chokuti kunyange mushure memakore 10 iye achakwanisa kutora nzvimbo yaakambova nayo paaiva gweta. Izvi zvakakosha zvikuru: bvisai euphoria uye nyatsoongorora matarisiro ako. Uye, pakupedzisira, vatatu. Ndine chokwadi chokuti pamwoyo wekukanda kwakadaro, vakadzi vanowanzova nechinangwa chisina chokuita nehutano. Nezvo - chido chokuzivikanwa, chido chokukunda kukudzwa kweimwe boka rekutarisa, somuenzaniso, shamwari dzinosvika pakakwirira, kana, kazhinji, varume. Kana mumwe wako achiramba achikuudza kuti utapi wenhau ibasa revanhu vasingakwanisi kutaura, asi kuverenga uye kugadziriswa chinhu chinokosha uye chakakosha, munhu anofanira kunzwisisa: kunyange akadzidza kumunyori wenhau, kunyange akakwanisa kubudirira, iwe achiri kukwanisa kuremekedzwa kwemurume wake. Nokuti, kufungidzira basa rako, rinokuderedza iwe, iwe pachako, kwete unyanzvi hwehutano. Iwe haunoda mazano echa echar, asi rubatsiro rwechiremba wepfungwa.
Chinhu chikuru ndechokuongorora zviri pachena mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Itaiwo mamwe mafungiro. Kana iwe ukati kwauri: "Basa rangu rinorwadza kwandiri," edza kuva nemamwe mafungiro. Semuenzaniso: "Hausi mubasa, asi mukuti ndine matambudziko mumhuri." Kana kuti: "Haisi mubasa, asi mukuti mukuru wangu anosarudzira vakadzi, uye ini handisisiri musikana kuti ndimanikidzwe." Uye zvakadaro. Panofanira kuva nemafungiro mazhinji akasiyana pane chero mamiriro ezvinhu. Kunyange iwe unobika sei borscht. Zvadaro hupenyu huchava huchifadza zvikuru, uye zviso zvisingatarisirwi zvitsva zvichaonekwa mubasa rakaora.
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Sezvo uchisarudza pane sarudzo yaunoda kuedza ruoko rwako, iwe unofanirwa kusarudza nzira yekudzidzisa mutsva mutsva: dzidzo dzenguva yakazara kana dzekunyora muyunivhesiti, mafundo, seminamato. Maererano neAlla Konyayeva, pakati pekusarudzwa kweyunivhesiti uye kubudirira kwebasa mumakore makumi maviri ekupedzisira, kubatana kwakaputsika: vatengesi vanobudirira vanowanikwa kubva kune vatapi venhau, philologists uye vezvepfungwa, vatungamiri vezvemari - vanobva kufizikiki uye masvomhu: "Dzidzo yemasvomhu inzira yekufunga, kudzidzira masvomhu emakemikari, uye kuverenga Kosi yemwedzi mitatu inongova chirevo chezvinhu izvi zvinokosha. " Chimwe chete kunze kwekutonga ndechokuti zvikoro zvinoda ruzivo "rwakare" rusingakwanisi kuverengwa mumwedzi mishomanana: vashanduri, vanachiremba, magweta, magwepistori. Nenzira, pamusoro pemari yepamutemo, vashandirwi vane maonero akasimba: "avo varairi" ndivo vakanyanyogadzirisa ndevaya vakapedza kudzidza kubva ku Yaroslav the Wise National Law Academy muKharkov kana chiremera chemitemo yemayunivhesiti enyika muKiev neLviv. Dzimwe nyanzvi hazviiti kuti zvinhu zvakadaro zvakanyanyisa zvinoda.
Izvo zvakakwirira kusvika kune yunivhesiti, zvakanyanya kuoma kudzidza mairi, ndiko kuti, kukwirira kwehutano hwezvedzidzo, zviri nyore kuti ibudirire - iyi ichokwadi chenyika yose, uye munyika yedu inoshanda zvakare.
Sezvo uchisarudza pamwe nehuwandu uye yunivhesiti, unofanira kutsvaga nzira dzekuwana basa mune imwe nzvimbo itsva, kunyange kana pasina mari shoma kana pasina mari zvachose. Kungoita chete kunogona kusimbisa kukodzera kwesarudzo yako. Uye zivo inowanikwa muyunivhesiti inofanira kurapwa kwete sechokwadi munguva yekupedzisira, asi sechirongwa chekufunga chakagadzirirwa mundima iyi yebasa. Ona kurovedzwa semutambo unofadza, zvino ruzivo runokurumidza kuwedzerwa uye nyore nyore kushandura kuva unyanzvi chaihwo.
Kana tiri kutaura pamusoro pezvigadzirwa zvemabhizimisi, zvino ndiyo inowanzosarudzwa ndeye MBA (bhizinesi rechikoro), mutemo wezvidzidzo wakauya kwatiri kubva kumavirira. Vadzidzi veMBA ndivo vanhu vane dzidzo yepamusoro uye ruzivo rwekutarisira. Zvikoro zviviri zvebhizimisi zvakanakisisa muUkraine ndezviMIMKiev uye Kyiv-Mohyla Business School. Vose vane mbiri yakareba uye vadzidzisi vakasimba. Ruzivo runonyanya kukosha runogona kuwanikwa kubva mumabhuku - zvose mabhuku ekirasi uye zvinyorwa zvemazuva ano. Kana zvisina kudaro, kunyange nyanzvi yepamusoro mumakore mashomanana acharasikirwa nekodzero yake yepamhizha uye achadzingwa kunze kwemusika. Asi ruzivo rwekuzvidzivirira uye kuzvidzidzira-kusataura nezvekuzivikanwa uye kuonga kwezviremera - zvinogona kureva zvose zvetsika uye zvekushandisa mari yekuwana chikoro chechipiri.