Mazano pamusoro pekubatana neboka ritsva
Munhu anouya kune hutsva hutsva haafaniri kungozvifananidza nemabasa ehurumende, asiwo kuti azive nevatungamiri nevamwe vake. Uye kuti iwe uchagamuchirwa sei
vashandi pamwe navo, basa renyu rinoenderana, uye hamunenge muchishuva kushanda mumatambudziko uye mhirizhonga.
Pakutanga, iwe unofanirwa kuzvibata usingatauri, kwete kuratidza maonero ako pamusoro pehutungamiri, vashandi pamwe navo kana pamusoro pezvimwe zvebasa racho. Kana iwe uchida kupa mhinduro yakajeka, taura kuti iwe uchiri mutangadzi, uye usingazivi zvese zvisinganzwisisiki, iwe unoda nguva yekuenda kubasa uye kusvika pakuziva zvakanyanya. Edza kudzivisa makuhwa, nenzira dzose, enda pane kukurukurirana, kana iwe uchawana kubwinya kweveveve. Vanhu ivavo vari kuedza kuwana zvose zvese zvehupenyu hwenyu, echipindura nemashoko e-monosyllabic. Nditende, zvose zvaunotaura pamusoro pako, unodzidza tende rako rose idzva, uye kunyange mune zvose zvese zvichange zvichinyora.
Kana boka racho rakakamurwa kuva mumisasa miviri, haufaniri kutora nzvimbo, nokuti iwe unobva wawana boka revadzivisi. Iwe unofanirwa kuzvibata zvishoma sezvinobvira uye zvine mwero. Ongorora rudzi rwekubatana ruri mberi kwako, uye chii chinogamuchirwa ikoko.
Ngwarira kune zvipfeko. Zvichida, iwe watoziva, kana pane zvipfeko zvekusununguka muhofisi kana kuti yakagadziriswa yepamutemo yakagamuchirwa. Uye pano zvataurwa zvinoshamisa: kana iwe uchida kushanda, unofanirwa kupfeka zvakaenzana. Kunyange kana zvipfeko zvebhizimisi zvakasimba hazvisati zvakasakara pahofisi, izvi hazvirevi kuti iwe unogona kuuya kuhofisi ine mbambo dzakatsvuka, miromo uye mini. Muvhiki yekutanga, iwe unofanirwa kupfekedza chimwe chinhu chekare - bundu remivara yakanyarara, jira repenseri, sutu yematatu. Kana uchinge uchinetseka zvishoma, iwe unogona kusiyanisa nguo yako yekushongedza, asi iwe unoda kuramba zvepabonde uye zvinokurudzira, ipapo vashandi vekukadzi vachakuona semuvengi, uye varume vachaona chinhu chepabonde.
Paunenge uchinatsanangurira neboka idzva, edza kuti usanonoka kubasa, uya 10 kana maminitsi gumi nemashanu asati utanga zuva rebasa, uye enda kumusha, zvishoma kunonoka, asi kwete pamberi pevose.
Iva neshamwari, uzarurike uye unogumbura. Kazhinji uye kunyemwerera kunzvimbo. Kune vashandi pamwe chete, tapota shandisa zita racho, uye edza kuyeuka mazita evanhu vachazoziviswa kwauri.
Ngwarira kubasa kushanda uye zvinoitika sei? Kana uri muimba yekuputa, uye iwe zvakare utsi, saka usamira pamativi uye edza kutanga mutauriro. Kana mukombe weii, zvino tora chinotapira newe uye upe kurapa.
Kana iwe ukakokwa kunodya, usarega. Iyi mukana wekuziva vashandi pedyo, uye kana wakokwa, zvinoreva kuti wakagamuchirwa zvakanaka. Tsvaga kana iri tsika mune izvi pamwe chete kuchengetedza misha yekutanga, uye kuronga holide.
Munoona, hapana chakaoma pano. Kana hutsva pamwe chete husingadi kutamba, kwete kukakavadzana, zvino kuchinja kwako muchechi itsva kuchava nyore uye kusuruvara. Uye chii chaunofanira kuita kana boka rose rakashandurwa newe?
Kana iwe wakava chinhu chinotyisa
Kufambisa chinhu chisina kururama, chinangwa uye chakaipa mafungiro evatungamiri, vakuru kana vanoshanda navo kune mushandi wekambani. Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekugumburwa, kune godo nekusarura, kukwikwidzana kwebasa rebasa. Asi usatya. Kana iwe wava "zhertovy" mobbing, teerera mazano evanoongorora:
- Ongorora kuti chikonzero chinogona kuva chei. Zvichida boka racho rinonzwa nzara yezvivaraidzo, "rakashata," uye haisi nguva dzose mauri.
- Chokutanga pane zvose, uve unyanzvi mune bhizinesi rako uye ita mabasa ako zvakanaka, uye uitire vamwe vako zvakanaka uye zvakanaka.
- Cherechedza zviri kuitika muboka. Iwe haufaniri kuvharwa mukati mako. Tsvaga vanhu avo vakanyatsotarisana newe uye ramba uchitaura navo.
- Dzivisa kunyengedza, kukwikwidza, kurwisana pachena, nokuti izvi zvinongokuvadza vanhu.
- Kana iyo firm ine dhipatimendi yekushanda nevashandi, unofanira kuenda ikoko kunobatsira.
Kutenda mazano aya, iwe uchadzidza kuti ungakurumidza sei kubatana neboka idzva uye kubata zvose zviri nyore. Kufambisa uye mamwe matambudziko kubasa - ichi chinhu chenguva pfupi, uye kana iwe uchikoshesa basa rako, usaora mwoyo, uye ita kuedza kusimbisa hukama hwakanaka. Uye iwe unogona kukurumidza kubatana neboka.