Zvese zviri kuitika kwamuri iko zvino rine zita razvo - chido kana "rudo rukuru". Iyi manzwiro haauyisi mufaro, asi anongokutakura uye anokonzera kushungurudzika kwepfungwa uye kurwadziwa.
Pfungwa dzako dzinoziva kuti ichi chido hachina kupfuurira, uye hauzombofari nemurume uyu. Asi, kukurira uku kunzwa kwekuuraya mukati mako, iwe haugoni.
Nzira yekubvisa sei chido icho chinoita varanda vako vose? Nzira yekukunda sei kuvimba uku uye kuwana mufaro?
Chisikwa chisinganzwisisiki chaMwari mukadzi. Kwete vanhu chete, asi, dzimwe nguva mapfungwa evanhu haakwanisi kunzwisisa manzwisisiro emabasa edu, zvinokonzera kudhakwa kwezvinodhaka uye kuvimba kune varume.
Vakadzi vanowanzotambura nerudo, kune dzimwe nguva varume. Kushushikana chirwere chinoparadza muviri wako wose, uchipa chechipiri chemufaro. Zvinosuruvarisa, kushuva kazhinji kunokanganisa rudo.
Murume akambova nerudo rudo uye kushushikana anowanzoodzwa mwoyo mukudanana uye nevakadzi. Mumukadzi wese anotevera anosangana naye, uye ndiani acharatidza tsitsi kune iye, zvinogona kugamuchira muvengi uye chinotambudza munguva yemberi.
Madzimai, zvinhu zvakasiyana. Kana iwe uchikwanisa kubvisa kushuva kwemumwe murume, nekufamba kwenguva, akawana mishonga mitsva.
Zvinosuruvarisa, kushuva uye rudo zvinotarisana nemunhu anogona kukanganisa uye kufara. Anogara ari pfupi kune avo vanopesana nemanzwiro uye marwadzo ayo ekare, kureva, hukama hwakamuunza.
Ndinoshamisika nei kune "rudo rukuru"? Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzakasvika pakugumisa kuti vanhu vane ruzhinji rwekuzviremekedza vanowanzowira murudo rwekuvimba. Kusava nerudo kubva kune vamwe kunotungamirira kune chokwadi chokuti munhu anova kuvimba nerudo rwake chinhu. Vanhu ava, havana rudo rwakakwana, kunyanya ivo pachavo. Vari kuedza kuzadza urombo husina chinhu, vachitsvaka kutarisa kweumwe munhu. Zvinonzwisisika, manzwiro avanoona haasi rudo. Icho pane kufarira uye kupesana.
Chimwe chikonzero chekubuda kwezvinonyangadza ndechekusaziva kuti chinhu chekunamatira ndicho chakanakidzana naye wehupenyu hwemangwana. Chido chekudiwa chinowedzera kukurudzirwa nekutenda kuti munhu akanaka pane zvose.
Nzira yekubvisa kutsamwa?
Kazhinji kacho, kubatsira munhu kubvisa rudo rwekusvuta, unyanzvi hwekupindira hunokosha. Mushure mezvose, zvikonzero izvo chido chechinhu chekunamatira chinomuka, chinotangira kubva paudiki.
Kuti uchinzwisise zvikonzero, kudzidzira mazvikokota kunogona kubatsira.
Autotraining ndiyo nzira inoshandiswa muhutano hwepfungwa. Kutenda iyi nzira, munhu anodzidza autosuggestion. Inobatsira kunyaradza matsipa ako, kubvisa kushungurudzika.
Kuti ubatsire kubvisa kutsamwa uye kuda kudhakwa, dzidza kuzvida iwe pachako. Teerera iwe pachako. Kana ikasazoshanda, zvino mangwanani ose zvifukidze pachako neichi - "Ndinoda ini"! Yeuka kuti iwe uri woga. Mushure mezvose, unoda kufara, nei uchizvipira iwe pachako kutambura uye kutambura.
Verenga mabhuku, teerera mimhanzi, zviite iwe pachako kushanda, sangana neshamwari. Nzira yakanaka yekuzvikanganwa iwe ndeyokutenga tikiti kune imwe nzvimbo kana nzvimbo yawave uchirota kubva paudiki.