Izvi zvinotevera ndizvo zvinoita kuti mwana anokwanisa kutumirwa kuchikoro mumakore matanhatu. Saka, unogona kutumira kuchikoro kana:
- Mwana anoverenga zvakanaka, anonyora uye anotenda zvakanaka.
- Mwana wacho haawanzorwara (gore risati rapera ka5-6), haana zvirwere zvisingaperi uye ane simba rakasimba rekudzivirira muviri. Mukuwedzera, mwana wacho haafaniri kunge akanonoka kukura kwepfungwa, kukura kwe autism uye kusagadzikana. Iyo haifaniriwo kuva nehanya nekushaya dambudziko (munyaya iyi, isu tiri kutaurirana pamusoro pezvinetso nekutarisa, kwete kushaya hanya) nezvimwe zvinetso zvakafanana.
- Mwana wacho anokwanisa kuzvimiririra kuisa shamwari, anonyatsogadziriswa nehukama, iye atova neruzivo rwekushanyira chikoro chisingati chikoro (ichi chinogona kunge chiri chikoro chekuvandudza, chikoro).
- Mwana wacho anokwanisa kutumidza zita rezita, zita, kunyorwa kwevabereki vaviri, anoziva kero yake zvakakwana, inotungamirirwa munyika inomupoteredza, inoziva nhamba dzedhare (zvose kumba uye vabereki). Anoziva basa revabereki uye anonzwisisa kutungamirirwa kwechikoro, pamwe chete nemitemo yekudzidziswa mune ino.
- Mwana wacho haatauri, asi anotaura zvinonzwisisika uye anotaura zvakajeka manzwiro ose, ane ruzivo rwakakwana rwezera rake.
- Kuzviremekedza kwemwana kunoenderana nezera rake, kuneta kwakadzika uye kuzvidya mwoyo, kuzvimiririra kwakanyatsogadziridzwa, kushamwaridzana kwepfungwa.
- Kana chikoro chiri kure. Nzira yakagamuchirwa ndeyemaminitsi makumi maviri nemakumi matatu emugwagwa, kwete, kana zvisina kudaro mwana achaneta asati atanga zvidzidzo.
Mukuwedzera kune izvi zvose, chinhu chinokosha mudzidzisi, uyo achaitisa zvidzidzo mukirasi yekutanga, anofanira kunge akaverenga, kunzwisisa zviri zvakanaka.
Chero chete nekubatanidzwa kwezvinhu zvakataurwa pamusoro apa tinogona kutaura pamusoro pekuti chikwata chemakore matanhatu chinokodzera zvachose!
Usati wapiwa zvinyorwa zvechikoro zvinofanira kuva chimwe chinhu chaunofanira kufunga. Zvakakosha kuongorora zvakashata uye kusasarura zvinogona kuitwa nemwana. Kana mwana wacho akakurumbira, izvi hazvisi chiratidzo chekukura kuitira kuenda kuchikoro. Zvakakosha kuzvibvunza mibvunzo yakadai: mwana anogona pane imwe nyaya achichengetedza maminitsi makumi mana (chidzidzo chinopera kwenguva yakareba sei)? Mwana wacho anoziva tsamba yakanyatsonaka here, mashematics anoziva kana kuti anoita zvakadini? Mwana wacho anoziva kunyora mumabhii makuru, kana kuti anonyora nemapelenzi netsamba here? Mumazuva akadaro pane musiyano mukuru - kana mwana asingazivi kunyora mumabhii makuru, asi anonyora chete muzvinyorwa zvakadhindwa, zvino zvinogona kuti kamwana kako kako kamiriyoni kasati agadzirira kuona zvinhu zvinotarisirwa kune vanomwe vane makore manomwe. Mushure mezvose, pazera remakore manomwe, humbo hwakanaka hwemotokari yebrasitiki yePali "ripens" tsanangudzo. Asi, mwana wacho pachake anoda kuenda kuchikoro kwemakore matanhatu here?
Pane imwe pfungwa inokosha iyo vabereki vari kunyatsoteerera: mwana wakagadzirirwa uye akagadzirira chikoro zvinhu zviviri zvakasiyana zvachose.
Kugadzirira kunogadzirirwa unyanzvi uye unyanzvi hwemwana, izvo zvaakagamuchira munguva yekudzidziswa: kukwanisa kunyora, kuverenga uye kuverenga.
Kuvandudza unyanzvi hwemwana pane zvimwe zvingaita zvemucheche, kukwanisa kuzvikurudzira, kuzvibatsira, kugadzirisa matambudziko akasiyana-siyana. Basa rekushandiswa kune rimwe boka remauto, mabasa ekuramba achizvipira uye mabasa akazvimiririra pamabasa akaoma, mabasa ekugadzirisa zvinodiwa kune vekunze. Nokudaro, huwandu hwekufambira mberi kwehuwandu, kusanganisira hutano hwekuvandudza mupfungwa uye dzidzo yemwana, hahufananidzi.
Mukuwedzera pakudzidza uye kutsungirira, kune zvimwe zvikonzero zvinorayirwawo kuti zviteerere - ndiyo hutano hwemwana uye mutoro wake wemuviri. Mumwe mwana anodzidza mukirasi yekutanga anofanira kunge ane simba remuviri anofanira kunge ane simba rakasimba rekuzvidzivirira, iro, rinotarisana nenhamba yakawanda yevana, akakwanisa kuwana simba kwete kungovhura zuva rechikoro, asiwo kurwisa zvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana zvinogara zviripo mubato guru.
Pane imwe nzira iyo "kuchikoro kupisa" kunotsanangurwa. Maererano nenzira iyi, kugadzirira kwomwana kuchikoro kunofungidzirwa muzvikamu.
Kana iwe usingafungi simba remwana uye kugadzirira kwake kuchikoro, ipapo unogona kushanyira mwana wepfungwa dzepfungwa uyo achaedza kukosha kwomwana. Kana nyanzvi inofunga, sewe iwe, kuti mwana akagadzirira chikoro, saka iwe wakachengeteka kupa mwana wemakore matanhatu kuchikoro. Kana mudzidzi wepfungwa achifunga kuti zvakakosha kumirira rimwe gore, zviri nani kuteerera mazano emunhu wepfungwa uye omirira kusvikira mutambo wemakore manomwe wemakore unouya.
Zvaunoda kuziva uye kuita munguva yegore rapfuura chikoro chisati chaitika
Pamberi pechikoro gore rakapera, zvakakosha kusimudzira hutano hwemwana, kuwedzera huwandu hwahwo hwose nekufambira mberi. Kana zvichibvira, tsvaga nguva uye simba kumudzidzisa mwana zvidzidzo zvekuverenga, kunyora uye kuverenga. Izvi zvinoda imwe mari yakawanda (kutenga mabhuku anodikanwa, mazwi), kunyanya kana vabereki nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero vasingakwanisi kudzidzisa mwana zvakasununguka, saka ivo vachafanira kubhadhara chikamu chevana umo mwana anodzidza izvi zvidzidzo. Izvi zvinyorwa zvichange zvisingabhadhara mwana wemitoro iyo ichaonekwa kuchikoro.
Maererano nehuwandu, 10% chete vevana vane makore matanhatu vakagadzirira kudzidza muchikoro. Vamwe vana vose vari nani pane imwe nguva yekuenda kuchikoro, zvakanyanya zvinoenderana nekubudirira kugadziriswa kuchikoro: kuzvikudza kwemwana, kunzwa kwekubudirira kwomunhu wacho, achizvipa "neropafadzo" kana "kurasikirwa". Nokudaro, chisarudzo hachifaniri kukanganisa pfungwa pamusoro pekubudirira kwevana veshamwari, kufunga pamusoro pehondo. Shingairira kuongorora zvinhu zvose uye kupa mwana kubudirire kubudirira kuchikoro.