Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, mudzimai, kune imwe nzvimbo, inonzwisisika, chete mumabasa emudzimai weimba. Inobva pakutsanana, kunyaradzwa uye kurongeka mumba. Uye hapagoni kuva nemubvunzo pamusoro pazvo zvachose. Kuti iwe unogona kukwereta muchengeti wemba, kunyange zvazvo iri mari. Iwe unongoda chinhu chimwe chete - kudya kwakanaka uye kunofadza kunofanira kugara kwakagadzirira, sezvazvinokwanisa panguva ipi zvayo kuoneka kumba. Uye kukanganisa kwebasa iri kwakazara nechimwe chinonyangadza. Asi mudzimai aisazoitei, kubva kumurume wekero yake, iye achanzwa, pasina chinopfuura kutuka uye kuzvidzwa. Kazhinji kacho, murume akapfuma akagara zvakasimba munzvimbo yake inobhadhara, anotanga kuudza mukadzi kuti atonge. Anoramba achinyadzisa mudzimai nechokuti anozvichengetedza, asi achimusiya mari. Iye zuva rega rega, anoshandisa, kuruboshwe uye kurudyi mari yemhuri, uye pamberi pako uye zvaunoda iye haangotarisi. Uyu murume anoisa pamberi pemudzimai wake zvakajeka uye zvakajeka veto, iyo iyo ndiyo inorambidzwa kuita chero kusarudzwa kusingatarisirwi. Iwe, kare kare, zvose zvakatokanganwa, apo zvinyararire uye pasina ruzivo rwemashoko, vakataura mwoyo nemoyo, vachigovana matambudziko avo, manzwiro uye mufaro. Uye kazhinji mudzimai wako akatanga kukucherechedza iwe pachena uye kuti ataurirane newe chete mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro apo ane mafungiro kana chimwe chinhu kubva pauri chakakosha kwauri. Asi hurukuro iyi haisati yakangofanana neyekare, muzwi remudzimai, ikozvino kusava nehanya uye kutonhora kunotonga. Akave akanyarara uye akazara zvachose. Mushure mokunge murume asvika pamakumbo ake - uye mudzimai wacho aisadikanwa, zvakawanda zvakachinja uye, zvinoshamisa, kwete zvachose iwe.
Zvikonzero zvemuitiro uyu wemurume, zvinogona kuva, somuenzaniso, iye, akawana mbuya. Mhedzisiro yakadaro yezviitiko inonyanya kuitika kune iyi mamiriro. Mushure mezvose, kana munhu ane mari, ndiye iye anogona kugadziriswa kune vamwe vakadzi uye hazvibatsiri kana akasununguka kana chikoro chakanaka. Pano, hazvina kubviswa kunze kwekuti iye aigona kungova murudo nemumwe mukadzi. Saka akazova, akadziya uye asina hanya newe.
Chikonzero chechipiri chinogona kunge chiri kukanganisa kwakajeka kwemukatikati yenyika yake. Akamira zvakasimba pamakumbo ake, iye, rimwe zuva, asingafungi nezvekufunga nezvei kana iwe panguva iyo iwe unaye nekuda kwemamiriro ake emari. Ibenzi, asi hutano hwemurume, zvichida hahuna kuuya. Uye aya mafungiro, kubva zuva rimwe nerimwe, anomutsa pfungwa yake uye saizvozvo, ivo vakaroorana kubva kune mumwe. Pano, hongu, basa rinokosha rakaitwa nekukwira kwake kwakakurumidza nekukurumidzira. Uye, semhedziso, anongotya kurasikirwa nechinhu chose, pamwe nemakaro nemari, makaro, izvi hazvisi zvekune imwe nyika, kana isu.
Chikonzero chechitatu chiri muchokwadi chokuti akakutarisa maziso akasiyana uye izvi zvakamusundira kure. Anorarama nenzira yakajeka uye purogiramu yakaverengwa yezuva rimwe nerimwe. Kushungurudzika uye kushushikana kwakava shamwari dzake dzakatendeka. Iye, kufanana newe, unoda rubatsiro rwepfungwa uye rwepfungwa, izvo, maererano naizvozvo, hazvibvi kwauri. Mukadzi wacho anoona mumurume wake chete munhu akapararira uyo asingakwanisi kuita tsika kuti abatsire. Nemhaka yeizvi, aive nemafungiro akaipa kune iwe. Pano, hongu, mhosho yose inoenda, kubva kumukadzi wake chete. Mushure mezvose, anofanira kunge ari murume wake, seshamwari, uye chiremba wepfungwa, kana asingadi kubhadhara kusagutsikana kwakakwana.
Chimwe chikonzero ndechokuti anongoramba achiita basa rake nebasa rake. Zvose zvaanofunga zvinoshandiswa nezvikwereti, zvikamu, zvibvumirano uye dzimwe nzira dzose dzekushanda. Uye iwe usati uine simba kwaari uye, zvakadaro, nguva. Zvechokwadi, akachinja mafungiro ake, akava nekutya uye akatsamwa. Pamberi pezvo, zvinhu zvose zvaive zvakasiyana-siyana zvisati zvaitika matambudziko uye zvinetso zvaaiva nazvo. Murume wako, kungofanana, munguva yakapfuura, akatungamirira mararamiro akasiyana zvakasiyana. Iko kushanduka kunoshamisa mumamiriro emhuri uye kwakanyongedza ukama hwako.
Edza nzira dzakasiyana dzekudzorera zvinhu zvose kunzvimbo dzavo, nokuti mamiriro ezvinhu "murume akasimuka kumakumbo ake - uye mudzimai akanga asingadi" haisi kufadza. Tanga newe pachako, tora kutarisa kwako, shandura chimiro chako, uchiita kuti zvive zvakakodzera kusimbisa mufananidzo wemurume wako. Verenga mabhuku akasiyana-siyana uye mabhuku akasiyana-siyana panyaya dzepfungwa dzevarume uye mushure meizvozvo, taura nemurume wako. Ratidza kwaari kuti iwe uri munhu asingatyi uye nekuzvikudza achiedza kukwira pabasa remabasa ako. Kana izvi zvisingaitike, edza kuzvishandura, kune imwe yakabudirira uye yakavimbiswa. Kana pasina imwe yenzira isingashandisi, nzira yakanakisisa yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ichava kuenda kwako kumurume wako. Yeuka kuti pane dzimwe nguva pane dzimwe nguva apo hazvikoshi zvachose, kuisa pfungwa dzako kuti uzvipe iwe pachako uye iwe unhu hwakanaka.