Zvichida zvaive zvakasikwa mumasikirwo - kuenzanisa mikana yevarume nevakadzi uye kubatana kwavo kwakabatana muviri. Kana zvichida ndicho chibereko chekutonga kwakagadzirirwa munzanga nemadzitateguru. Chero chii chaive, uye mukadzi haasi kunze kwekufunga se "mutsi", uyo munhu-musoro "munzira yakarurama inotungamirira. Zvechokwadi, ndizvo chaizvo zviito izvo zvaanomirira kubva kwaari.
Maitiro omumwe murume muukama akazadzwa nehutano hwakaoma hwezviito zvakagadzirirwa kutendesa kunyaradzwa kwekugara mune hukama hweumwe neumwe wevatori vechikamu. Vakuru vanokurudzira kwaari mubasa romumwe wake ndeyechido kwete kungoita sekuti kubudirira kune vamwe, asiwo kuva chinhu chikuru chaicho chaicho. Ndiyo mukadzi anotarisa kuti chii chichava mufambiro weshamwari yake pakati pavo. Uye kunyanya zvichienderana nezvayo, nguva yakareba sei hukama hwavo huchagara sehuse.
Nguva dzinochinja, vanhu vanochinja zvakare.
Uye zvino kuenzana kwevakadzi, sehupenyu hwefilosofi hutungamiri, hwakanyatsogadzirisa pfungwa dzehuzhinji. Asi izvi hazvina kuchinja maitiro ehutano hwehutano muhukama. Murume anongoda kuzivikanwa, kutsigirwa, kutarisirwa uye kutarisirwa. Uye mukadzi wacho haana kusimba zvakasimba sekushanda nebasa rinoda basa. Mune dzimwe nzira, mufambiro wevarume muhukama ndiyo nzira itsva yekubatana kwekupesana, hongu, yakashanduka: akazova akaderera kubva pane kudya kwekudya yakagadzirwa uye akadzidza kushambidza shati dzake kana kuti kuchenesa mubhedha. Asi urongwa huzhinji hwezviito zvekugara kwenguva refu hwakaramba hwakafanana: murume ari pedyo nemukadzi ari kutsvaga caresses, ushamwari, runyararo, anovimbisa kuti iye chokwadi achawana zvose uye kutenda kusingachinji mukugona kwake. Uye anoda kupa - sepakutanga - zvose zvaakakwanisa kuita kubudikidza naye uye nokuda kwake (kunyanya, murume wacho ane chokwadi nazvo).
Ichokwadi chimiro chevarume.
Izvi zvisingadziviriri, zvisingagumi, nguva dzose uye kuvonga kwakadzama, izvo mukadzi ari kuda chaizvo kuona uye izvo murume ane ukama naye anonyatsovanza. Uyu manzwiro akakwirira mumoyo make haana kuderera mumazana emakore. Sezvo pakanga pasina kuzarura mukutaura kwake. Zvichida, iyi ndeimwe yezvinyorwa izvi zvisingatauriki zvehukama pakati pepabonde: murume kumudzimai wake nguva dzose anoonga zvakakwana kuti aratidze kuvonga kwake chete hakugone. Asi zviri nyore kugovana manzwiro aya nevabereki vako kana shamwari dzako.
Ndezvipi zvimwe zvinotungamira mufambiro wemurume akanaka muukama?
Chokutanga pane zvose, chido chekunyaradzwa. Murume pakutanga ndiye ane udyire uye udyire kupfuura mukadzi. Nokudaro, kuvimba nomumwe munhu, anomuudza zvakanyanya pamusoro pake uye nemanzwiro ake kuti haana nguva yekuteerera pfungwa dzake. Zvinonzwisisika, semunhu chero upi zvake, ane hanya zvikuru pamusoro pake pachake, murume anovimba nehutano hwepfungwa mukati mehukama. Saizvozvowo, zvichienderana nehuhu huno uye maitiro ayo.
Zvadaro, gadzikana. Pano hapana chinhu chakashandurwa - sekuMiddle Ages kana panguva yeva cavemen vanhu vainzwa kudikanwa kwemurume mumba make, apo vavengi vake uye kuratidza kusina kunaka kwezvinhu zvakasikwa hazvingagoni kuparadza rugare uye kuchengeteka-uye anozvida nhasi. Saka, zvakakoshesa kusangana nemunhu nekumwemwerera uye kudya kwekutsva kana yekushambadzirwa. Nhengo ipi neipi yehupombwe hwakasimba ndeye munhu wekutanga uye yekupedzisira. Uye kana izvi zvakaratidzwa zvakarangarirwa kwaari seinofadza, saka zvinhu zvose zvakanga zvisingafadzi pakati pavo, iye achadzikisa uye nekuchengeteka akakanganwa.
Zvechokwadi, munhu haafaniri kukanganwa pamusoro peshoko guru rinogadzirisa mafungiro emurume kumudzimai - uyu ndiye.
Kunyanya chaizvo, kukwanisa kwake kuratidza kuvimbika kwake, kuvimbika uye rudo kumudiwa wake. Pamusana pezvinhu izvi zviri nyore, mukadzi chero upi zvake wemunhu chero upi zvaanogona kutendeuka kubva mukukunda ane utsinye uye ane utsinye mucheche yakarongedzerwa, inodziya uye ine rudo. Ichokwadi, kana izvi zviratidzo zvichingova zvinyengeri uye murume wacho akazviziva nezvazvo, kutsiva kwake kuchava utsinye. Varume vanonyanya kururamisa kupfuura vakadzi. Uye kukanganwirwa kwakaoma zvikuru kwavari. Vamwe vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanofananidza hukama hwakadaro hwemhando dzehutano nehukuru hwemhando yepabonde yakasimba. Sezvo vanopfurikidza vemhuri, vanodzivirira uye vanokunda, varume vanoregererwa kukwanisa kukanganwa chimwe chinhu chakakosha. Nokudaro, kunyange akanganwira vadikanwa, haazombomutsamwiri zvakare nekukanganisa kwake kwenguva refu, iyo inomurwadzisa muupenyu hwake hwose. Kunyange kana mukadzi asiya uye rumwe rudo ruchiuya kunzvimbo yake, hazvigoneki kuti achakwanisa kukanganwa zvishuwo zvakare kune murume.
Iko kune pfungwa yokuti murume ari muukama pakutanga anotsvaka kufara mumuviri uye chete ipapo - hukama hwepfungwa. Uye kazhinji ndizvo. Kwete pasina chikonzero vanhu vakachenjera vakatsigira kuti hukama hupi hunovakwa pamatanho matatu. Chokutanga, kune kufarira nemuviri, ipapo-kunzwira tsitsi kwemweya uye, pakupedzisira, kubatana kwekubatanidza kwepanyama nemafungiro. Kune vanhu, izvi zvinyorwa zvekukura kwehukama zvakakosha zvikuru. Pashure pezvose, ivo, kusiyana nevaya vanofarira mazwi anofadza evakadzi, tanga kutanga nemeso avo uye chete ipapo nenzeve dzavo. Izvo, zvechokwadi, hazvibvisi zvachose chokwadi chakakurumbira pamusoro pekukwanisa kukunda kusungirirwa kwemurume kuburikidza nekunakidzwa kwegastronomic.
Zvechokwadi, vangani varume, saka vazhinji nzira dzekuita kwavo muhukama. Mumwe munhu anofarira kugara achikurudzira mumanzwiro uye munzira dzose dzinogona kukonzera kushungurudzwa uye zvimwe zvinoshungurudza mupfungwa. Mumwe wacho, pane kudaro, anoshuva kunyarara uye kugadzikana uye akagadzirira kunyange kuzviita semapofu uye matsi kwavari, asingazivi kujeka kwezvavanoda. Vamwewo vanoramba vakavimbika kune chokwadi chimwe uye chisingazununguki uye vanotya kwazvo kuzviwana vanyengedzwa, saka vanomhanyira kubva kune vadikanwa kuenda kune vasina kudiwa, vasingambofungiri kudzoka kubva muchokwadi. Asi chinhu chimwe chete pamusoro pevarume vose venyika inogona kutaurwa zvechokwadi. Mumwe nomumwe wavo anosarudza zano rehutano muhukama kuburikidza nezvinhu zvitatu. Yokutanga ndiyo chinangwa chaanoshandisa pakusangana kwakakwana nemukadzi. Chechipiri ndiyo manzwiro aanonzwa kumudzimai wake. Chechitatu chikamu chezvakanaka, izvo zvaanoona kubva kune waanoda.