Munguva ichangopfuura hama yepedyo yakataura nyaya isingafadzi. Makore matatu apfuura akaunza shamwari yake kushanda. Akanga asingazivi kuti aite sei, kunyange akashanda pamakombiyuta. Uye mwedzi gare gare, hama yacho yakaziva upenzi hwaakanga aita. Musikana wacho akatanga kumira boka rose rekumurwisa. Makakatanwa atanga. Haana kumbove nemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro mune mamwe mabasa, uye haangozivi chaanoita. Izvo zvishure kumashure kwemashure, hapana simba uye mitsipa yekushanda mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, asi haadi kusiya basa iri kana. Rimwe dambudziko: iye munhu ane mutsa uye anovimba. Zvichida ndicho chikonzero iye asingakwanisi kuzviriritira. Kubvumirana, iyi mamiriro acho chaiwo (kunyanya muboka revakadzi). Ndezvipi zvingaita nehukama muboka uye mararamiro evanhu vose, kuitira kuti mune ramangwana hapachina matambudziko? Zvinotarisa kuti kugadzirisa zvinetso zvinetso zvebasa riri senzi rose.
Muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva, mumwe wevasikana anotarisana nematambudziko akawanda, mabasa uye zvinetso zvinotambudza. Zvisinei, mararamiro ekuchengeteka atinowana pamwe chete. hupenyu hwehupenyu, hunotibvumira kukunda zvipingamupinyi zvose. Tichitarisana nezvisingataurikiki, tinofunga, mamiriro ezvinhu, tinokumbira rubatsiro: tinokurukura nevakuru, tinogovana neshamwari, tirai muforamu. Mune zviitiko zvakanyanya, tinoziva kukundwa kwedu mune imwe nyaya uye kukanganwa pamusoro payo, nokuti kakawanda izvi hazvisi izvo zvinokosha. Asi mukugadzirisa kuunganidzwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kunyanya munharaunda yakakosha yevanhu, kukwanisa kwedu kurwisana nekupfuurira mberi, pasinei nezvose, pane imwe nzvimbo inopera. Anotsiviwa nekutya, manzwiro okusakosha uye kusavimba nevamwe. Manzwiro, kufanana negungwa riri mumhepo ine simba, akagadzirira kutimedza isu pakutanga kuedza kubva muhusiku huno uye tarisa kuti chii chiri kuitika chakavharwa.
Chimwe chinhu chakafanana chakaitika kuna mukoma wangu. Nyaya yake inorohwa nokusuwa uye kuchema kubatsirwa. Zvisinei, pane zvishoma zvishoma pamusoro pechikonzero chekuti zvingave zvakakwanisika kudzorera mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye kupa mazano anobatsira. Uye zvakakosha here, mazano anobatsira? Pashure pezvose, mamiriro ezvinhu muhofisi, sezvakatsanangurwa ne heroine yedu, yakafanana neukama humwechete: anomuda, uye haadi iye. Nemigumisiro yese inotevera: kuvhiringidzika kwechinangwa, kutambudzika kwekufungira, chido chekudzorera kururamisira.
Kana hukama hwenyu hwekushanda (pamwe nemutungamiri, pamwe chete nevamwe) hwakatanga kufanana neurongwa hwenyaya yerudo, uye mafungiro anowedzera pamusoro pekunzwisisa kwebasa rebasa, nzvimbo yako pachayo mukambani uye zviremera, zvino ndiyo nguva chaiyo yekuzviona. Ngatitange nediki: unofanidza kudzikama uye kudzikama kwako. Chero chipi zvacho chezviitiko zvinotevera zvinoshanda, zvichienderana nemafungiro ako. Kana matambudziko aya akajairika kwauri, iwe unogona kukurudzira zvinotevera (kunyanya, saka upe mazano psychologists):
- Nyora chikumbiro chakanyorerwa kune vakaipa.
- Dhiroza mufananidzo wakaisvonaka wemumwe nomumwe wavo, unogona kushandisa sechinangwa paunenge uchitamba darts.
- Chengetedza collage (cuttings kubva pamagazini zvakakodzera) pane zvinyorwa zvinorwadza iwe.
- Nyora duramazwi remashoko anonyanya kukuvadza.
- Funga nezvekushongedza kwekugumburwa kwako uye uone chikamu chemazuva ano.
Mukugadzirisa zvinetso zvekukakavara, kurovedza muviri kunofanira kuitwa nguva dzose, nekushivirira, mumusha wakanyarara. Zvinokurudzira kutaura zvaunonzwa. Uye, zvechokwadi, unogona kuita chero chaunoda: pepa rinoputika nemifananidzo mudiki shreds, isa mararamiro matsvuku pamakero asingagutsikane nemashoko akaipa mukero yako, kupa chero chirango chinotyisa. Kudzidzira muviri kunonzwisisika kusvikira mutauriri wepakati nehuwandu hwaro hwekunetseka kwepfungwa husati hwagadziriswa, uye zvirongwa zvekutsiva hazvizogadziriswi. Zvakanaka, iwe unogona kubvisa mibvunzo iyo pasina munhu anoziva mhinduro yekuti: "Sei ndiri munhu akatendeseka?", Kana kuti "Anogona sei kunzi shamwari yakanakisisa mushure meizvi?" Kana kuti "Mutevedzeri iye pachake haanzwisisi kuti iye zero asina mushambwa ? ".
Paunenge wakagadzirira mupfungwa, unogona kutanga maitiro anoshandiswa nevepfungwa dzepfungwa kuti "enda kudarika denderedzwa." Zvarinoreva zviri nyore: paunenge uchichera mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana newaini inopisa, haugoni kuziva kuti chii chiri kubikwa - porridge kana soup. Mushure mezvose, iwe uri umwe wezvinhu zvinokosha zvechirongwa ichi. Kana uchangobva kudzidza kudziona zviri kuitika kubva kunze, unogona kuona pakarepo matambudziko akawanda asina kuwirirana zvakananga newe. Zvichida, kambani iri kutarisana nedambudziko, hapana hunobudiriro hunobudirira, hutungamiri hahudzori mamiriro ezvinhu uye pane zvimwe zvishoma. Izvi zvichakubatsira iwe kugadzirisa miganhu pakati pezvido zvako uye zvinodiwa nevamwe. Nokudaro, iwe unogona kushanda nehuwandu hwemashoko akanangana uye unozvigadzirira kuita zvisarudzo zvinokosha iwe pachako.
Kuti uite basa iri, unofanira kudzidza uye kuzvipa mibvunzo inogutsa, kureva, iyo inogona kupindurwa. Semuenzaniso, mukukurukurirana nevamwe vanhu kana kuwanikwa zvichienderana nekuongorora kwezviitiko nezviito zvevanobata. Yeuka zvidzidzo zvebhuku riri muchikoro: paunenge uchiongorora basa rekunyora, wakanga uri wekunze kwekucherechedza, sekunge iwe nyanzvi uyo, maererano neshoko rakarondedzerwa, anoenderera mberi achifunga nezvezvinangwa zvevarwi. Uye, zvichida, iwe wakazvifungidzira iwe mubasa reiyi kana iyo hero uye wakaedza munyika yake yepakati nokuda kwake. Sei akazviita nenzira iyi? Ndeupi ruzivo rwaakange aine panguva iyoyo? Ndeapi mabasa aakagadzirisa? Akaedza kuitei? Chii chakaita kuti asaita zvakasiyana?
Kugadzirisa zvinetso zvemakakatanwa kubasa, edza kuita chimwe chinhu chakafanana: taurira kuti zvinhu zvose zvinoitika sei paunomira "mushure mokutenderera." Tarisa pane mamiriro acho ose, tichifunga kubatana kwemasimba akasiyana. Yeuka kuti vanhu kunze kwebasa vane zvimwe zvinodiwa, uye vangave vasina kunyanya kufunga nezvehondo newe. Iwe uchakurumidza kunzwisisa, kwaunonyatsenge uine ruzivo rwakakwana pamusoro pekambani yakazara, nezvevanhu mumwe nomumwe, uye kuti mafungiro ako anopindira newe. Uye nei muhofisi yako iri kushanda nharo dzakagadziriswa nenzira isina kukodzera? Mukufamba kwenyaya yacho, zvakakosha kujekesa chimwe chinhu mukukurukurirana nevashandi, pamwe nemutungamiri. Zvingava zvakanaka kuchengeta zvinyorwa, nokuti nemashoko anounza ruzivo, pfungwa dzako pamusoro pezvikonzero zvinenge zvichiitika zvichachinja.
Munguva pfupi kana kuti gare iwe uchauya kumubvunzo unokosha wekuti sei wakasarudza basa iri, uye iwe uchakunda nharaunda isina simba "Handidi kuenda, asi hazvigoni kushanda pamwe chete". Chero iwe unowana nzira dzakakodzera dzokugadzirisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu, kana iwe uchaisa pfungwa pakuwana basa idzva. Kubudirira mukugadzirisa kukakavara kubasa!