Rudo inguva inoshamisa, apo pfungwa dzose dzinongotaura kune mumwe chete. Ndinoda kupedza nguva yakawanda pamwe chete, uye kuitira kuti nguva ino irege kuparara, ndinoda kugara kwete muchimbundira uye kutarisa firimu yerudo, asiwo kufara.
Pakuvamba kwehukama, vadikani havafungi hupenyu pasina mumwe nemumwe, saka vanogara vachiine mharidzo yekukurukurirana, vanogara vachinyora mharidzo kune mumwe nemumwe, vachitaura nekusingaperi pamusoro pefoni. Kwete kuti vaone mumwe nomumwe, kunyange nguva shomanana yevari inonzi inotambudzwa. Vamwe havadi kusiya chikamu chemudiwa wavo kana mudikani kwechipiri, vanofarira kuita zvose pamwe chete. Asi zvinofanira kunge zvakadaro here?
Vakawanda vedu tinopedza nguva yakawanda kuda rudo, uye izvi zvinogona kukonzera matambudziko mazhinji. Vakawanda vanobayira zvidzidzo zvavo kana basa, kuitira kuti vaone vadiwa vavo, kuti vashandise nguva yakawanda sei naye. Asi chinzvimbo ichi chinokuvadza, kutanga kwezvose. Hazvisiko kuregera chikoro kana kuenda kuchikoro, kubvunza basa rekare kana kuti usapinda pane zvose nekuda kwekuti uri murudo uye funga nezveunoda iwe nguva dzose.
Zvichida yakanakisisa sarudzo yehukama ihwohwo, kwete huwandu. Kana vaviri vari murudo vachipedza zuva rose pamwe chete, uye zuva rakatevera mukurangarira kwavo, nguva dzinofadza dzezuva rakapera dzichayeukwa. Muchidimbu, zvinofanira kunge zvakadaro. Saka, nguva inoshandiswa pamwe chete mukukurumidza, ichaisa pauri kuda zvikuru. Nokudaro, usaramba uchiedza kupukunyuka kwemaminitsi mashoma kuti uone, zvichava zvakakosha kuti usangane nenguva yako yega uye upedze zuva rose pamwe chete, panzvimbo pokubvuta nguva pfupi.
Pane pfungwa yokuti kana ukashandisa nguva yakawanda pamwe chete, unogona kurasikirwa iwe pachako.Kunyanya kushamwaridzana nekambani yemumwe munhu, kunyange yakada zvikuru, kunogona kukurudzira iwe woga woga mukukurukurirana nevamwe vanhu. Nenzira imwecheteyo, kushingaira kuita zvose pamwe chete, iwe haugoni kutakura kusurukirwa uye kuita zvimwe zvinhu iwe pachako, iwe unoda kuona munhu anodiwa pedyo, kuitira kuti akubatsire iwe. Nokudaro, iwe uchangobva kuvimba zvikuru pahafu yako yechipiri. Hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti ukama hwakadaro hwakaipa uye husina tsvimbo, zuva rimwechete apo mudiwa wako acharamba kukubatsira pane chimwe chinhu kana asingakwanisi kubhadhara zvakakodzera, sezvazvakanga zvakaita kare, iwe uchahadzika rudo rwake kwauri.
Mune shoko, kukurukurirana kazhinji kunogona kukukuvadza iwe. Uye izvi zvose zvingapukunyuka sei?
Zvichida, yekutanga, - hazvifaniri kukanganwa pamusoro pehama neshamwari, kana iwe une rudo rweukama. Usafuratira kubva kwavari uye kuvanza kune vadikanwa, zvakanyudzwa mukati maro. Kana zvisina kudaro, shamwari dzako dzichagumburwa newe uye kana mukakavadzana nemunhu waunoda, haungatauri kushungurudza kwako kune ani zvake uye hakuna munhu achakwanisa kutsigira iwe. Kana izvi zvikaitika, iwe unowedzera kuzvinatsa mumudzimai wako, uye shure kwezvose, iye, zvakare, rimwe zuva richava iwe chete waunoona uye waunoda kutaura naye.
Chinhu chechipiri chaunofanira kuita ndechokusarudza iwe pachako kana iwe uchida ukama chaihwo umo iwe mose munomuka semunhu. Iwe unoda kusarudza nemibvunzo yako yaunoda pamusoro pezvinhu zvauchaita pamwechete uye izvo zvaunofanira kugovana.
Usaisa muchinjikwa pane zvaunofarira, zvidzidzo, shanda. Ramba uchiita nenzira imwe chete yekuita bhizinesi rako pachako uye upe rusununguko kumudiwa wako. Kana iwe wakanyatsobatana kune mumwe nemumwe, ipapo ichaisa zvose zviri paketani. Asi yeuka, munhu mumwe nomumwe anofanira kunge ane nguva yake pachedu uye kunyange mudiwa wako, ane kodzero yekuitungamirira kwete se swami.
Imwe nyaya muhukama hwakatanga ndiyo nzira yekushandisa nguva pamwe chete.
Pasinei nokuti iwe uri murume nemudzimai kana ufeve, uyo achangotanga kufambidzana, imwe nzira kana imwe kune mubvunzo wekubatana pamwe chete uye kunyanya kukosha, kuitungamirira nekubatsira. Kungofanana nehukama, muzororo rekubatana, chinhu chikuru ndicho chimiro, kwete chizhinji. Pane nguva yakawanda yokupedza mune imwe nzvimbo, uye mumwe munhu maawa mashomanana, asi izvi hazvifaniri kuchinja unhu hwevamwe.
Chokutanga pane zvose, unofanira kusarudza mazuva iwayo maunenge uine vakasununguka sezvinobvira, kushandisa nguva pazororo rekubatanidza uye varaidzo uye sarudza zvauchave uri kuita.
Iye zvino vakawanda uye vakawanda vanowanzoenda kumafirimu. Zororo rakadaro richakubatsira iwe uye unofara, uye unofara, uchitarisa kubata chikamu chemufirimu. Iyo inogona kuva rwiyo rworudo, rufaro runonyadzisa, uye firimu inofadza yefirimu, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti mufananidzo wakasarudzwa unofanidza zvinodiwa zvevadikani, zvino zvichava nguva dzinofadza.
Izvi zvingava zvakanaka kamwechete pavhiki, zvichienderana nemikana yezvemari yemudikani, kushanyira kafefisi kana yekutengesa.Inzvimbo inodikanwa, waini kana champagne, kudya kunonaka kunounza hukama hwako uye kunokubvumira kuti uzorore, kutaura moyo nemoyo.
Hapana chinhu chakakosha chinofamba mumhepo mutsva, ingava paki, nzvimbo yakareba kana mumugwagwa mune rimwe guta reusiku. Zuva rakadaro rorudo nenzira yaro. Mafambiro akadaro anogona kuve akasiyana-siyana nekuputika kwebhasikoro, mabhasikoro. Vanhu vazhinji vanofarira kushanyira mapaki uye kutasva pane zvakasiyana-siyana. Izvo zvinofadza zvikuru uye hazvikanganwiki. Iwe unenge uchida kurangarira pamusoro pezvivaraidzo zvakadaro uye, pasina mubvunzo, unoda kuzvidzokorora, kwete kamwe chete.
Muzhizha, nzvimbo yako yezororo inogona kuva yezuva. Hapana chinhu chakanaka pane kurara pasi pamwe chete kune jecha rinotonhora uye kupinda muhomwe yakanakira. Kana pasina nzvimbo dzekushambira muguta rako, unogona kuenda kudziva.Zvino, dziva racho haritori nzvimbo yekuzorora kunze, asi ichakubvumira kushandisa nguva pamwe chete.
Kufamba kutengesa kwechimwe chikonzero kunogara kuchionekwa semabasa emukadzi chete. Asi sei usingatori pamwe naye uye rudo rwake, kana iye asingatendi? Uye, hazvidi kutenga chimwe chinhu iwe pachako, ita chishamiso chaunoda uye sarudza chimwe chinhu kwaari. Chero hazvibatsiri kutamba kwenguva yakareba yekutenga, murume, kana asingaratidzi kuti aneta, saka anofungisisa, uye kwenguva yakareba nguva yakadaro ichava nguva refu yekuzorora.
Usakanganwa pamusoro pevamwe neshamwari. Zvakakosha kuti varume vataure nemumwe munhu kunze kwenyu. Kumbira uye shamwari dzako pamwe chete iwe unogona kuenda kune zvakasikwa, fry shish kebabs, taura zvakawanda.
Kana iwe uchitoziva nevabereki vake uye unoziva mukomana wavo neavo, hazvingava zvakaipa kuvashanyira, enda kana kuvashanyira. Iwe unogona kuronga mhuri shomanana yekudya, uko iwe unogona kuzivikanisa zviri nani, zvichida nehuya baba-tezvara uye amai vomwene nemukarahwa. Mukuwedzera, kana mumwe wako ane hanzvadzi duku, iwe unogona kuvabata kuti vadzoke pane zvakasikwa kana mupaki. Ichazosiyanisa varaidzo yako uye kusimbisa ukama nehukama hwemangwana, uye zvinobvira, ichabatsira kufungidzira kuti iwe uchafamba sei mune ramangwana nevana vako.
Ndinoda kukuyeuchidza zvakare kuti chinhu chikuru hachisi chokudarika. Usati wakasungirirwa pamusoro penyaya yerudo uri woga, nokuti kana zvinhu zvose zvichifamba zvakanaka, iwe uchange uchiri pamwe chete hupenyu hwako hwose uye uine nguva yekukanganirana. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, usakanganwa pamusoro pezvivaraidzo uye kuvaraidzwa pamwe chete, izvo zvinozobatsira kusiyanisa ukama hwako uye iwe haungashushikana.