Kunyange zvazvo zvichibvira kukakavadzana nezvehukama huri kure. Sezvakaratidzwa zvinoratidzira, hukama huri kure pane huripo huripo. Vakawanda havatendi kuti rudo rwakadaro runovapo zvachose, vazhinji vanopokana kuti hakuna hukama uye hahukwanisi kuva. Munhu anogona kwenguva yakareba ari kure nechinhu chaanoda rudo, sokunge kuti haana kugovana neaanoda here? Muhupenyu, chero mamiriro ezvinhu anogona. Mumazuva edu akaoma, kazhinji, varume vanopedza nguva yakareba kure nemhuri, vachiedza kuwana mari. Hongu, rudo uye ukama huripo, asi mhuri yacho ichiripo here? Mushure mezvose, iyi ndiyo yekubatanidza dzidzo yevana, izvo zvisingabviri kunze kwekugara kuripo kwemurume nemudzimai. Mwana anofanira kuona kuti vabereki vose vari pedyo-chete mumamiriro ezvinhu aya mhuri inogona kudanwa kuzere. Zvakaitika zvinoratidza kuti mhuri dzakadai, mune imwe mubereki mumwe chete asiripo kwenguva yakareba, ichakurumidza kupera kana kuti gare gare.
Vamwe vakaroorana vanoziva vachienda kune ukama ari kure, zvino ndiyo tsika yekushevedza imba yevakaroorana. Maererano nekufunga kwavo - kugara kwenguva refu kunouraya manzwiro, uye hupenyu nekunyarara vanodya holide yehupenyu. Saizvozvowo, kukosha uye kuremekedzana kune umwe neumwe zvakarasika. Kune vakaroorana vakawanda, pamwe nevekugara munyikaview, rudzi urwu hwehukama hahunzwisisiki, saka hahugamuchiri. Rudo runorarama muhukama hwakadaro, kunyange kune vakawanda vakaroorana hakunzwisisiki.Uye zvakasiyana-siyana zve rudo ari kure kure upenyu hutitungamirira mienzaniso mizhinji. Iko chete nzira yekuyananisa nayo pfungwa yokuti mudiwa wako ari kurara zvakasiyana uye iwe haugoni kuzvirumbidza, uchimufukidza nebhanhire rakasviba, paanovata pasi kuti averenge pepanhau uye anorara zvakasimba, akavharidzirwa semucheche. Zvichida iwe unongoda kuitora uye unonzwisisa kuti haisi kuuraya. Munhu wawaona zuva rega roga rawakachengetedza haazovipo kwechinguva. Asi muzvinhu zvose iwe unoda kutarisa zvinowanikwa! Nokudaro, uchava nenguva yakawanda yekusununguka, yaunogona kushandisa nekubatsirwa kwechitarisiko chako kana kupa mhedheni yekusununguka kune hama kana shamwari.
Ichokwadi chokuti iwe haugoni kuona mumwe nomumwe hazvirevi kuti iwe haungatauri. Munguva yedu, nguva ye teknolojia yepamusoro, kune nzira dzakawanda dzekuti urambe uchikurukura. Kuve wakatsauka iwe, sepakutanga, unogona kugovana zviitiko zvako uye zviitiko zvitsva muupenyu hwako.
Zvakasiyana, mubvunzo wakashama muhukama, ndiyo nyaya yekuvimba. Mune mhaka iyo nzvimbo iri pakati pako yakatarwa kwete kwemwedzi chete, asi kunyange nemakore, kune ngozi yekupandukira, kwete nokuti rudo rwakapfuura, asi nokuti hukama hwepedyo huri hupenyu hwepanyama. Ichi ndicho kukanganisa kukuru muukama uri kure.
Saka, kana hukama hwepedyo huri kure, zvinoita kuti vaviri vari vaviri vasarudze. Iyo yakaparadzana kwenguva refu, iyo inofadza zvikuru musangano, iyo inoshanduka kuva hovha chaiyo yeviri neine dutu remanzwiro kubva pamanzwiro akawedzerwa. Uye mutengo wekutengesana mumwe kune umwe wakakwirira kwazvo. Uye zvichida kuparadzana, uku ndiko kuedza kwesimba. Mushure mokunge musipo kwenguva refu, zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuti muyanane zvakare. Saka tinogadzira rudo rwedu uye mufaro.