Munguva yedu, pane zvave zvichionekwa zvinoitika apo vashanyi vakuru kune zvikwata zvekufambidzana varume vakaroorana.
Mubvunzo unonzwisisika unobvunzurudza: chii chinogona kuwanikwa nemurume akaroora pane imwe nzvimbo yekudanana? Chokutanga uye chakakosha, izvi, zvechokwadi, zvinosanganiswa nevarume vane ruzivo uye chido chekushandisa simba ravo "vakadzi" ". Ndiko kuti, kuedza zvese, zvakavanzika kubva kumudzimai wake kuti akunde uye kukunda chero musikana. Kazhinji kazhinji, nezera, kunyange vaduku kupfuura iwe. Dzimwe nguva, murume uyu, kungozviita, nenzira yakadaro anozvitsigira nokuda kwekushayikwa kwekadzikadzi muhupenyu hwechokwadi kana, nguva yenguva yakareba, anotarisa kuona kana akashaya unyanzvi hwokunyengera. Kazhinji kacho, ruzivo rwakadaro uye kukurukurirana hazvifi pamusangano unotevera zvachose. Murume wacho anomira munguva, achiva nechokwadi chokuti akazadzisa chinangwa chake uye ari kutanga kutsvaga "mushandi" mutsva wezano rake rokunyengera. Kunyanya vasikana vakapinda mumabatanidzwa ake anonyengedzera, kunyanya akaisa mubhuku rake rainzi "I", murume. Uye chii, pane iwe hausi mutambo wemakombiyuta. Ane maitiro ake pachake pano, chinokunda-chinokunda zano uye maitiro ake chaiwo. Kune mamiriro ezvinhu ayo murume anozvipira kune nyaya idzi, kunyange mudzimai wake. Kugovana naye kubudirira kwake uye nokudaro kuwana mutengo mumaziso ake. Iko, hongu, maitiro apo murume akaroora achingoti aite zvido zvepabonde kana kunyange zvepabonde imwechete. Kumumanikidza kuita izvi, kazhinji zvikonzero zviviri. Icho chinokosha chekutanga chakakonzerwa nekuti iye anoshungurudzwa kurarama uye iye, zvakananga, ari kutsvaga zest inokosha kubva muupenyu hwake. Chikonzero chechipiri, pedyo nesu vakadzi - hachisi chinhu chinopfuura kungoda kuziva. Kana zviri zvekupedzisira, chido chechikomana hachisi pasi pechido chevakadzi. Uyu unhu hunosimbisa uye hunokurudzira, hunoita kuti murume wacho, amusundire kune zvisinganzwisisiki uye dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvinoshamisa, pamusoro pegore rakapfuura, iye pachake haaikwanise kufunga. Saka, ngatidzokerei kune flirtation yake yakazara nezvinhu zvepabonde zvepabonde. Iye, kuburikidza neruzivo rwake, akanzwa nezvemashoko matsva aya, kubva kune shamwari dzake kana vashandi vake. Uye, zvakananga, ndakasarudza kupindira mazviri ini, ndichibatanidza ruoko rwangu kune kombiyuta. Nokuda kweizvi, iwe wakatendeka, wakasarudza musikana mumwe chete uye nyaya yacho yakaenda pachayo. Asi iyi mamiriro ezvinhu, zvakare haatauri kuvapo kwechokwadi chokuti izvi zvose zvinopera nemusangano muhupenyu chaihwo, uye zvepabonde yavo chaiyo ichakura kuva yechokwadi. Asi, kutsvaga musikana kana mukadzi kuti ave mudzimaikadzi chaiye, izvi zvinototanga kukonzera. Pano murume ari kutoenda kune rimwe danho rakananga uye rakarurama, nechokwadi chaicho uye nei chinangwa chaanoshanyira nzvimbo ino. Uye pakupedzisira, ngatitii kukurukurirana kwakanyanya uye kusingabatsiri paIndaneti. Varume kazhinji havagoni kuwana munhu anoteerera kana kuwana kusanzwisisana kubva kumudzimai wavo, achitsvaga kuzviwana uye shamwari dzepedyo dzichagara dzakamuteerera, kunzwisisa kana kumubatsira nemazano ehupenyu. Chimwe chikonzero chakanaka chekuwana shamwari nekunyoresa kungave kuti akangoti aneta nezvose zvakapoteredza, nenzira yevamwe shamwari. Kana iye, achingoti, haazeze kutaura pamusoro pomunhu anorwadza, zvakanyatsonaka nemurume iye asati amboona muupenyu hwake. Nenzira, iyo yekupedzisira inowanzofambira mberi mukuona kwepfungwa dzedu, uye hazvinei kuti iwe uri mukadzi kana murume. Saka takawana zvikonzero zvakajeka zvekuti murume akaroorwa ari kutsvaga pane webhusaiti apo vanhu vanogona kuzivana.
Nzira yekuona sei chaizvoizvo munhu anotarisira kubva paIndaneti shamwari yake? kana murume asingabatanidzi newe pamusoro pezvaanoita chaizvoizvo pazvivako, uye mibvunzo yako haipinduri zvachose, uchiita kuti vafambe nenzeve dzako. Akave akajeka kubva kwauri. Kutambudzika kwake kwekutya kwakatanga kunzwa, zvakananga, uye iwe. Uye pane chikumbiro chako kuti usashanyira nzvimbo idzi dzeIndaneti zvakare, iye anopindura nechinotyisa. Uye kazhinji, anoenda ikoko chete, muchivande, kubva kwauri. Izvi ndizvo zviratidzo zvinotyisa zvokuti zvinokosha kuisa hupenyu hwehupenyu huri mafuta. Kunyatsotaura naye, uye zviri nani kutarisana nebhizimisi rakadaro risina unobtrusive sekushanyira nzvimbo yakataurwa pamusoro apa. Nditendei, pano iye achafunga. Kunyangwe zvakakosha kukuyeuka kuti kana murume wako akaedza kukuchinja iwe nenzira iyi, hazvisi zvachose kuti achazviita nokukurumidza kana gare gare pasina rubatsiro rwekutsvaga nzvimbo. Saka, kutanga kune zvose, funga ukama hwako uye uone kuti chii chakakanganisika newe uye chinokonzera iwe wakatendeka pane chimwe chiito. Zvimwe zvinoreva kuti bhuku rako, rinonzi "Mhuri", rave ratoverengwa naiye kwenguva refu. Kana uchida kuchengetedza mhuri yako idyll, rudo rwemurume wako uye kufarira iwe pachako, tanga kuita. Chokutanga pane zvose, cherechedza kuchinja kwechitarisiko chako, uye shure kwekuvandudza nyika yako yepakati. Edza, tsvaga iwe unhu humwe hunofadza hunofadza. Izviratidze iwe nenzira yaasina kukuona iwe zvakadaro. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti usambove wakasviba kuti uite kuti uzvifarire iwe kubva kumurume wako. Uyezve, kwete iyo kusatendeka, asi musikana chero upi zvake pane chikwata chekufambidzana, iwe hauzorevi hake.
Uye semhedziso, ndinoda kuwedzera, kupa hafu yako yechipiri nguva yakareba, kutaura naye, edza kugadzirisa zvinetso zvake, uye usatye kumupa zano rako zvakare. Rega achipedze nguva yake yekusununguka kwete nekombiyuta, asi newe. Nokuda kweizvi, rongai vakawanda sezvingaita zvinonzi mazororo e "mweya nemuviri." Uyezve, azere nekukurukurirana muhupenyu chaihwo, haazombotendeuki kushanyira nzvimbo yekufambidzana. Mushure mezvose, kakawanda kupfuura kwete, anogara panzvimbo dzakadaro, chaizvoizvo nekuda kwekusurukirwa uye kusagadzikana. Zvakanaka, kana nekuda kwekuda kuziva, saka usamumanikidza, rega agutse zvido zvake, chinhu chikuru chiri pamwe naye nguva dzose.