Vose vasikana vanorota nezvechinda. Ichi ndicho chirevo. Asi vakadzi vazhinji vanongonzwisisa izvi kutaura uye vanonzwa nzara ye "hafu yeumambo mukuwedzera". Dzimwe nguva chido chekuroorwa nemurume akapfuma zvachose chinotora mweya wemukadzi. Uye pano hazvisi kukwira, rudo uye tsika ...
Cinderella Syndrome
Maererano neSangano reInternational Social Research (ICSI), 65% yevakadzi vechiRussia vanoda kuroora nemurume akapfuma. Ichi chimiro, se "kusagadzikana", chinomira pane chinzvimbo chinokudzwa chechitatu (mushure mekufunga uye mutsa) mune urongwa hwezvinodiwa kune munhu angangodanana naye. 40% evashanyi vose vanoenda kunzvimbo yakakura yekuRussian yekuroorana vanobvumirana pachena kuti havasi kutsvaga shamwari, mudiwa kana murume, iyo inotsigira. Misoro "Ndinoda kuva mukadzi akachengetwa", "Maitiro ekuva mudzimai wemuorivhi" inokurukurwa zvakasimba mumasangano evakadzi. Ari kutaura, handizvo here?
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinodana iyi "Cinderella syndrome" uye inopa vasikana vakadaro kuti vaedze kuzvinzwisisa ivo, nyanzvi dzezvemagariro evanhu dzinotsanangura ichi chiitiko nekunyora kwemazuva anotevera post-perestroika, vanoita zvematongerwo enyika vanosarudza kutsvaga zvinhu zvose zvekuMadokero zvinokuvadza, uye zvisikwa (uye zvisingaiti) zvinoramba zvichigovana kune imwe paIndaneti kurota: "Ndinoda chaizvo kusangana naye - mupfumi uye mukurumbira, chete naIye ndichafara."
Kudzingirira Millionaire
Kusarudza zvakasimba kutora zvinhu zvose kubva muupenyu, vasikana vari mumakwikwi akanaka vanoenda kunodzidzisa kunonyengedza, zvidzidzo zvepfungwa yehuligarchs uye kunyange kupa mari yavo yakaderera ku "vashandisi vezvikwata". Natalia M., akabatanidzwa musangano rehupenyu hwevamwe vevarombo varombo, anozvifungidzira anenge amai vemazuva ano Teresa. "Ndinobatanidza mwoyo yekutambura." Vafumi - ivo vanhuwo, vanongotya kukanganisa, asi ini ndinosarudza vasikana vakanaka. Pakupedzisira munhu wose anowana zvaanoda. " Ndinofanira kutaura kuti, maitiro emusangano wemakwikwi oga anokosha zvikuru-kubva $ 1000, saka vachiri kudikanwa kuunganidzwa.
"Ndinoda kugara semufirimu: enda kumaresitorendi, utenge zvipfeko zvinodhura, famba mumotokari dzakanaka. Ini ini handizozviiti. Amai vangu vakashanda hupenyu hwavo hwose uye havana kukwanisa kuponesa kunyange kwezororo muTurkey. Ndicho chikonzero ndichaisa pasi mapfupa, asi ini ndichatsvaka oligarch. Unoona here kuti makumbo angu akanaka sei? "Anodaro Karina, ane makore 18. "Zvakadini nerudo?" Ndinobvunza. "Iwe unoseka, hongu? Hamudi here kubudirira? "
Mumakwara e "Runako" ...
Kutanga, Anya, vabereki vake vakakwira nenzira yakafanana nevanasikana vose vakanaka venyika yedu - kutamba, mimhanzi yechikoro, mutauro wekunze. Asi rimwe zuva akaona firimu "Pretty Woman" uye ... "Handina kumbobvira ndaita chisarudzo chekuziva: ikozvino, ndicharoorana chaizvo nekuverenga, kwete nekuda kwe rudo. Pandakanga ndiri kuchikoro, pamitambo yekutanga yebazi, handina kufunga nezvekuroora, kuroorana, nezvimwewo - Ndakasangana nevarume, ndakaita zvepabonde, asi handina "kubviswa" sezvavanotaura ikozvino. Ipapo ndakasangana naVadim - akanga akanaka, ane hanya, asi kwete zvachose akachinjwa muupenyu. Pamwechete, ndakasangana naMitya - akanga akwegura kupfuura ini, kwete sekunakidza seVadim, asi akachengetedzwa. Uye akabva akakoka kuti ndinoroora. Akandiudza kuti: "Unofanira kundiroora, nokuti Vadim munhu asina simba uye haagoni kukupa zvaunofanirwa."
Mitya aifunga kuti ndiri runako uye aifarira chaizvo kuuya neni kumapato apo shamwari dzake nevamwe vaaishanda navo vaiva. Ndakatarisirwa kugara ndakanyarara uye kunyemwerera-uye ndakanga ndinyerere uye ndichimwemwe, ndichiyeuka kuti taitenga iyo jasi mubhatique ine mari inonyanya kukosha manheru ano. "
Anna haana kuzvivanzira kubva iye pachake kuti Mitya akanga achifambisa, zvikurukuru sezvo mudzimai wake wamangwana akangobva kumunyevera achiti: "Kana iwe uchibvumirana kuva mukadzi wangu, tichaisa chibvumirano chechato, uye kana mushure mekurambana, hamusi kuzosiyiwa pasina penny." Maererano naAna, Mitya akaedza chaizvo kuva munhu wake wepedyo, asi hukama hwepabonde pakati pavo hwakasimuka. Zvisinei, haafaniri kunetseka: "Kazhinji, sezvinonzi psychologists vanoti, libido inodzvinyirirwa, ini, kunze kwekukwikwidza kwenguva pfupi neVadim, kugadzirisa matambudziko aya. Muchibvumirano chairehwa kuti upombwe hunoreva kusununguka nekukurumidza nekurasikirwa kwepfuma. Asi nekuda kwekuti Mitya akanga ari mumba, zvakangoerekana zvajeka kuti chikamu chebvumirano chaiva "chimwe-chimiro". Asi handina kukanganiswa pamusoro peizvi: Handidi kuenda chero kupi zvako. Heino imba yangu, munda wangu, kicheni yangu, mwana wangu. "
Mwana wacho akazova chinhu chinokosha chebvumirano yemuchato. Pakusimbisa kwaMitya, zvakanyatsotaurwa mumagwaro kuti baba vaizotakura zvose zvekuchengetedza kwaKolya, asi kuti kana muvambi wekurambana aiva Ana kana chikonzero chake chaizotengesa, mwana aizoramba ari nababa vake. "Maererano nomutemo, amai ndivo vanowanzochengetedza vana panguva yekurambana," Ana akatsanangurira gweta, "uye kana pakapesana pakati pegvumirano uye Family Code, iyo yekupedzisira inoshandiswa." "Asi ndakasarudza kusatora chero mikana," anodaro Anna. - Mitya munhu ane ruzivo uye ane simba, kumusunga - zvechokwadi kuti arasike uye abve muruvanze nekunyadziswa kwechidhakwa kana zvimwe zvidzidzo zvine ngozi munzanga. Kwete, chaizvoizvo. Zviri nani kuti ndiite zvose zvaakatema.
Mimwe michato uye imwe yemariro
Imwe nzira kana imwe, asi muhupenyu yevose iwe unofanira kuripa. Hasi Cinderella yose inogona kugara pachitsika kwenguva yakareba. Zvinosuruvarisa, nhau yenyaya ye "Beauty" ine imwe mugumo. Hazvisi ngozi kuti munyika yedu pane zvakawanda "zvekare vaRublyov vakadzi". Mushure mezvose, kuva mudzimai wemamiriyoni kune basa rakaoma. "Ndakanga ndisina kodzero yekuona yakaipa, kukuvadza, kupora. Oleg zuva rega rega andiisa pachikero uye ndakatarisa kuona kana ndaiva nemafuta, uye kana mutambi wacho akaratidza kupfuura 48 kg, ndaifanira kufa nenzara kwevhiki rose. Handikwanisi kusarudza mbatya dzangu kana shamwari dzangu. Zvinhu zvose zvinofanira kunge zvakagamuchirwa nemurume wangu. Asi hachiri chinhu: Shamwari yaOleg somuenzaniso, yakamanikidza musikana wake kuti agare achidzorera iyo hymen. "Zvakanaka kwazvo!" -iye akatenda, "- akagovana zvakare murombo, asi musikana wakasununguka weChiedza.
Mamiriyoni ane zvinyorwa zvavo uye tsika, uye "hupenyu hwakanaka" hune rumwe rutivi rwakasiyana. Zvinogona kuitika zvakanaka kuti inofanira kuiripa nerudo, shamwari, vana uye kunyange hutano (shure kwezvose, kwete ose oligarchs ari kutungamirira "bhizimisi-rinoramba" bhizinesi).
Natasha aiva mudzimai wechina waBoris, asi izvi hazvina kumuvhiringidza. "Zvaiita sokuti ndaigona kuva iye shamwari yangu yakatendeka kwehupenyu hwangu hwose. Icho chaisava chichato chekusununguka, kana kuti, kwete chete mumashoko ekuverenga. Pakutanga, ndakanzwa mamwe manzwiro pamusoro pake, asi kusatendeseka nguva dzose ndakaita. Pandakangomwanana naye, akamira achiedza kunditengesa, ndangova simba, chikamu chemukati, asi kwete mukadzi. Hazvishamisi kuti ndaiva neshamwari nomudzidzisi wangu wokudhara. Kwemwedzi miviri ndakanga ndanyatsofara. Zvisinei, chakavanzika chose chinova pachena. Mumwe munhu kubva kune vanodhairi vakatitaurira Bora, uye ini, sezvavanotaura, vachiridza muridzi kubva kuimba yakafuma. Takarambana panguva iyoyo, uye ndakasara mumugwagwa mune imwe jasi. Chinhu chinotyisa zvikuru ndechekuti Max - mudikanwi wangu - akanga apfuura. Handizivi chakaitika kwaari: hapana anoti chero chinhu, masuo ose akavharwa kwandiri. " ... Mumwe munhu achati: ndiye ane mhosva, mumwe munhu achazvidemba ... Imwe nzira kana imwe, asi nyaya yeCinderella ichiri nyaya yorudo. Uye rudo-pfungwa yehukama nehukama hwepedyo, pfungwa yekubatana kwechokwadi - haingatsiviwa nemari yekuverenga, kana chido chekunyengera. Akacherechedza uye akaratidzwa nemarudzi akawanda evakadzi vakanga vachifara muwanano. Kumbira bhana amai vako.
Pfungwa yepfungwa
Denis LUKYANOV, nyanzvi pamhuri uye nyaya dzekuroorana
Zvinowanzofungidzirwa kuti munhu anofanira kuroora kana kuroorwa chete nekuda kwerudo, uye kuroorana kwekushandira a priori inoonekwa sechinhu chinonyadzisa uye chisina maturo, sezvo inogara ichifungidzirwa maererano nechepakutanga "kurara nemari". Zvisinei, izvi hazvisizvo uye kwete nguva dzose. Imba inowanzoonekwa seyo yakasimba uye yakasimba. Vanhu vanoita zvipo zvavo kumubatanidzwa wavo. Pakutanga kwaive
kalym uye dowry, ikozvino-runako, dzidzo, kufambidzana, kukwanisa kupa mhuri, kupa pfungwa yekuchengeteka. Asi imwe yakaipa. Semuenzaniso, mumwe we heroines wechinyorwa, Anna, anobvuma kuti haana chaanokoshesa murume wake, kana chido chekuvaka chavo (kwete mhuri!) Upenyu. Mune ramangwana, ukama hwakadaro hwakazara neuroses pane zvevakadzi uye kusagutsikana kwezvose. Mudzimai angave pane imwe nguva kuputsika, kuenda "mune zvose zvakakomba", achibhadhara hupenyu pasina rudo, pasina kugutsikana zvepabonde. Mukuwedzera, kunetseka asi zvisingaiti zvishoma zvinosuruvarisa zvinogoneka-kuora mwoyo, iyo "golden cell syndrome," apo mukadzi ane zvinhu zvose mupfungwa, asi upenyu hunoita sokuti hahuna maturo kwaari, nokuti haagoni kuzviita kuzvisarudzira uye kuzviisa pangozi.
Mercantile kune chinyorwa.
Kana iwe uchiri kurota kuroora murume mupfumi uye uchifunga kuti kuroorana chete neine mupfumi ane ruzivo kuchabatsira kugadzirisa matambudziko ose, saka iwe unofanira ...
1. Kufunga kuti, semurairo, uyo anokwereta, uye uye anorayira mimhanzi. Kana mumwe wevadzidzi achiunza mumba mari yakawanda kupfuura imwe, saka ane danda rekutonga muZOO "Mhuri" uye nechisarudzo chekuita mune zvose. Saka kukanganwa kuti iwe uchapedza mari yako mune zvaunofarira.
2. Kuve wakagadzirira kuti iwe unofanirwa kuratidza kune wako wakasarudzwa zuva rimwe nerimwe kuti iwe hauna kuzvisarudzira nekuda kwehutanda hwehwende rako, asi (hongu) nekuda kwekusanganiswa kweunhu hwepamusoro hwausingadi kurwisa. Hazvikwanisi zana rezana rehupfumi, uye kunyanya varume vakapfuma vanobatwa nehutsika hwehutsika hwakanyanya.
3. Usashamisika apo, nekuda kwekutambudzika nguva dzose, mutambo usingaperi, iwe uchaona kuputika kwekutsamwa kana kusava nehanya, kuparara kwekutya uye kuora mwoyo. Kune zvose zvakakosha kubhadhara - kunze kwekuti izvi zvisingarevi pfungwa "nekuverenga"? Iwe unofanirwa kubhadhara nemapuropa ako.
4. Usachema apo mupfumi wako anokurumidza kukukandira iwe, unozoputsa kana (Mwari achiramba) achafa. Kuzvidziviriro zvakadaro kunofanirwa kugadzirira mberi, kuitira kuti usaramba uri pachitsiko chakakoromoka. Mareji anotipa zano rokuti tigumise chibvumirano chechato (uye tinyatsoverenga tisati tasaina). Zvakakosha kubatanidzwa mukupararira kwemari yemhuri, kuwana bhangi yako yebhangi, mutsara wekukwereta wakasiyana uye kugara uchidzorera "stash" yako pachako. Uye bvunza gweta kwete chete pfuma inofambiswa uye isingatauki yewawakaroorana naye, asiwo mafekitari uye zvikepe zvake (izvo zvinoreva, firms uye firmochkas) kuitira kuti zvirege kuitika kuti iwe hauna kungogara mu "shati imwe chete" pakuparadzanisa, asi iwe kamwe kamwe wakawana uye mamiriyoni emadhora ewaimbova wawakaroorana naye.