Ushamwari hwevakadzi hunofungidzirwa kuti hwakasimba uye husingaiti. Asi inogona kukurumidza kana kuti kupera. Inguva imwe chete, iwe uri kufunga "Ndinoda hukama huno here? Chii chinondipa ini? "Ipapo unotanga kuyeuka zvose zvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka zvehukama hwako. Kuti iwe usambofa wakarasikirwa neshamwari yepedyo, iwe unoda kuziva kuti ushamwari chii kwauri, zvaunoda kuita kuti uchengetedze.
Ini ndichaedza kukubatsira neizvi. Kutanga, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti muushamwari vanhu vaviri uye vazhinji vakaenzana. Inofungidzirwa kuti shamwari yako nemoto nemvura, uye shati yekupedzisira ichapa, uye inopisa upenyu hwake. Izvo zvose zvinonzwika zvakanaka, asi chaizvoizvo shamwari isina chikwereti kwauri. Anokwanisa zvose mumoto nemvura, asi chete pane zvaanoda, uye kuona kuti zviito zvake zvakakosha nekutenda, uye kwete sezviri pachena.
Uyewo, pawakabatsira shamwari, usamirira kana kukumbira kuonga kubva kwaari. Izvo, uye zvakaitwa zvakanaka. Kanganwa. Iwe wakasarudza kuzviita iwe pachako. Zvechokwadi zvakaoma, nokuti munhu wose ari kumirira kurumbidzwa nekuda kwezviito zvavo. Asi kana iwe uchikoshesa ushamwari, usatarisira kuonga kwechiito chawakaita muzita rehukama.
Nguva dzose ruremekedza kusarudzwa kweshamwari, kunyange iwe uri 100% usabvumirana naye. Iwe hausi iwe mimhanzi yako shamwari yako inoteerera, basa raanosarudza? Ramba uchifunga iwe pachako. Ane kodzero yekurarama hupenyu hwake sezvaanoona zvakakodzera. Iwe unongoda kumutsigira, uye pamwe chete naye achazvibata iye oga.
Ushamwari hahubvumiri kutengesa chero ipi zvayo. Kunyange kana munhu wose achipesana neshamwari yako, iwe unofanira kugara uri parutivi rwake. Uye kana iye asina kunaka, usati uchitaura izvi pamberi pevanhu vose, vaudze izvi izvi pachako. Ipapo iwe, sezvavanotaura, usasvibisa mvura.
Chii chaunofanira kuita kana zvakafanana ushamwari hwako hwave huchizadzika? Zvakakosha kumuponesa. Iko kune nzira dzakare dzegungwa, zvose zvinoenderana newe uye mafungiro ako. Kana iri ukama hweshamwari, unogona kutengesa zvishongo nemazita ako, unouya nechifananidzo chitsva, wozoseka pamwe chete, enda kunotamba kana kuti aerobics pamwechete. Zvinowanzodiwa zvinowedzera kuhurukuro.
Kana iyi ishamwari yehukama, unogona kuenda kunobata hove, enda kubhola kana kuti sarudza zuva raunopedza mu suto rekambani yevarume.
Kana kuri hwehukama hwevakadzi, zvinhu zvose zvishoma zvakaoma pano. Inogona kupedza nguva yehupenyu uye inogona kubhururuka iri mukati mutsva wechipiri. Kuti uite ushamwari hwako hwakasimba gore negore, heino mazano gumi:
Usabvumirana apo shamwari yako inokuudza kuti yakazvibata zvisina kururama kana kuti yakaita zvakaipa. Kunyange kana akarurama, ndiye anongotaura izvi chete kuitira kuti apindure kuburikidza nekudzoka kwako kutsigira. Kuti unzwe mazwi "Zvose zvakanaka, usazvidya mwoyo"
Kana iwe wakaenda kune imwe nzvimbo pamwe chete, saka pasinei nemamiriro ezvinhu usarega shamwari. Kunyange kana iwe ukasangana nemurume wezviroto zvako.
Paunenge uine shamwari pamutambo, ziva chiyero, usaramba uchinonoka. Uye shure kwokuenda kumusha haufaniri kumhanyira foni kuti utaure naye. Ushamwari, zvakare, hunoda kuzorora.
Usamboshandisa shamwari yako nekuda kwekuzvifarira. Iwe haugoni kuva neshamwari nemunhu bedzi nokuti anokwanisa kukwereta ibhesi kana kugara pa cafe pamari yake.
Kazhinji haasi kunyunyuta pamusoro pematambudziko ake, dzimwe nguva inoda kutaura kunze.
Kana musikana ane ushamwari nemumwe munhu kunze kwako, usagumburwa naye. Izvi hazvirevi kuti anokubata zvakanyanya, zvinoreva kuti ane mweya wakakura uye une mutsa. Uye pane nzvimbo yakakwana yevose.
Kushuva - ndizvo zvinogona kuuraya ushamwari hwako. Nokudaro, munhu haafaniri kunge ane godo nezvekubudirira kwake, hukama hwake nevanhu vake vari pedyo.
Usabvunza kuti akuudze zvose. Anogona kunge ane zviduku zvake zviduku. Asi kana yakazarurirwa iwe, usamboiti, uye kwete uyo, usingaiti chakavanzika chayo.
Usamutsoropodza uye hupenyu hwake, asi panguva imwechete edza kumhanya uye kumutsigira, zvisinei pasarudzo yaakaita.
Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, usakanganwa chete kana iwe uchida chimwe chinhu kubva pazviri. Nyatsoteerera iye nematambudziko ake.
Muchikamu chino, ndakaedza kukubatsira kuti unzwisise iwe nehukama hwako neshamwari, uchipa mazano gumi ekuchengetedza ushamwari. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti kana uine shamwari dzechokwadi uye dzakavimbika, saka dzinofanira kudzivirirwa. Mushure mezvose, ushamwari chaihwo, muupenyu hwedu, zvinosuruvarisa, ihwo huwandu hwakawanda. Uye kana iwe uine mukana wekuzviwana, usagumbusa, usachibatanidza uye usarasikirwa nacho. Shamwari chaiye inotsvaga kwenguva yakareba, yakaoma kuwana uye yakaoma kuchengeta. Ndinoda kuti iwe ugare ushamwari hwehupenyu.