Saka, kutakura tsika ndeye chinhu chakaoma kwazvo muupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva. Asi, pasina kubhadhara kune izvi, isu tichiri kuedza kukuudza pamusoro pekuti vanhu vakadzidza zvakadini vanoita nenzira dzekutakura vanhu.
A bit about etiquette
Sezvo zvisinganzwisisiki zvinoshamisa, asi nekuda kwehutano hwemunhu wemunhu asina kunaka kwete chete panzvimbo yevanhu, asiwo pakutakura, zvinogona kuparadza nyore mafungiro kusvikira pakuguma kwezuva. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, kuti uwane zvakanaka uye mafungiro akanaka uye kuti udzivise kusazvidzora kusingadi, unofanirwa kuyeuka mitemo yakawanda yekufambisa yatakagadzirirwa munharaunda dzekutakura.
1) Kana iwe uchidya mumotokari yemugwagwa, yeuka kuti iwe haufaniri kutendesa shure kwako shure kwechitima, chiri panopindwa nemotokari. Kana iwe ukaita izvi, iwe ucharondedzera munhu akagara shure, pane kuti atadze kunyanya kwake. Heino chikonzero chekusawirirana kusingadiwi iwe waunoda kudzivisa.
2) Kana munhu akagara pedyo newe, pakutakura, kuverenga chimwe chinhu: pepanhau, bhuku, kana kunyange tsamba, usaedza kutarisa muzvinyorwa zvayo zvekuverenga, edza kuverenga chimwe chinhu ipapo. Uye kunyanya zvakadaro tsvakai mubhuku iri iwe pachako. Pano hazvizovi panzvimbo yekuyeuchidza kuti uri pakutakura kwevanhu vose, mumwe nomumwe wevatakuri vayo ane zvakakwana kune "nzvimbo yavo". Mune mamwe mazwi, "nzvimbo yakasarudzwa" ndiyo nzvimbo yepakati pakati pevatakuri, iyo inofanira kuva, kwete, kwete, 25-50 masentimita. Kuputsa nzvimbo ino, kwete kuverenga saroni yakazara munguva yekukwira, haina kukurudzirwa zvachose.
3) Kana iwe ukapiwa nzvimbo, haufaniri kuzvipa. Ingotora nzvimbo ino uye usakanganwa kuonga munhu akakupa iwe. Yeuka kuti nokurega iwe, iwe unogona kuisa mutakuri uye munhu akadzidza kwenguva yakareba mune chinonyadzisa chinzvimbo chake.
4) Uyewo, kana uchida kuzvibata nenzira yakatakura, yeuka kuti unofanira kusiya nzvimbo iwe pachako. Kunyanya kunobata vanhu vakwegura, vanhu vakaremara, vakadzi vane pamuviri, vakadzi vane vana kana vana vaduku. Ipa nzira, usakanganwa kutaura mazwi akadai seokuti: "Gara pasi, tapota." Kana iwe ukangomuka wakanyarara kubva panzvimbo iyo usingatauri mazwi aya kune imwe nzvimbo inoshandiswa, iwe unogona kungoita mamiriro ezvinhu apo nzvimbo yawakangobva kubva inogona kugara neumwe munhu asingazivi nzira yekuzvibata zvakanaka mumamiriro akadaro. Iyi ndiyo muenzaniso wakawanda wekuita kwako ruremekedzo kunogona kuitwa pasina.
5) Kana iwe uchidya mubhasi rakazara kana tekisi. Uye, panguva imwe chete, iwe uri kure nechokubuda. Saka, iyo inoswedera pedyo nemirairo yaunoda, edza kugadzirira kubva mberi, kuitira kuti usanyanya kukurumidza kufambira mberi mu saloni kuburikidza nevanhu vose zvakananga pamakumbo avo pamwe ne "misoro" yavo.
"Rega yako ipeni? "
Mukuwedzera, mararamiro aunoita zvakanaka kutakura iwe pachako kune vamwe vatasvi, iwe unodawo kuziva nguva inotenderwa yekuita kwekadzi. Semuenzaniso, kubuda kwomukadzi kubva muimba yekateksi yemugwagwa, bhazi nezvimwe zvakadaro. Pakutanga, zvinhu zvose zviri nyore: murume anogara achienda kutanga uye anopa ruoko rwake kumukadzi kuitira kuti ave nechimwe chinhu chokuvimba nacho, uye kwete kugumburwa kana kuti haasi kurasikirwa naye. Uye hazvirevi kuti kana soro riri kupera kana kwete. Kana, kunyanya kubva pamhando yemukadzi kana murume. Zvinosuruvarisa, mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, vashomanana vanhu vanoziva kuzviita zvakanaka. Vamwe vakadzi, nekukurumidzira uye nyore "vypargivaet" kubva mu saloni yekutakura kwakasiyana-siyana, kuti havana kana nguva yekubata ruoko rwemumiriri. Asi mubasa iri chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuita kuti zvive nyore uye zvigadzikane, uye kuti chinhu chakakosha panguva ino ndechokubata ruoko rwemurume. Kana zvisina kudaro, inotyisidzira kuti munhu angafunga kuti basa rake harina kukoshesa chiremerera zvakakwana. Zvechokwadi, muchiitiko chaunonyatsoda kutsigirwa, iwe unogona uye unowedzera simba, zvirokwazvo mukati mekufunga, kuvimba ne "chinotsigira" chinorongwa. Asi kuvimba nezvose zvinorema, zvisati zvisingakoshi. Nenzira, kubva kunze iyo ichatarisa zvikuru kwete yepamusoro, uye kunyange murume pachake, zvichida kunge asina kugadzirira kuratidzwa kwakadaro kwesimba rako remuviri.
Kazhinji kazhinji, unogona kuona kuti murume anobva kutakura anotambanudza ruoko rwake zvishoma nezvishoma kumusikana akatakura zvikwereti zvinorema. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya zvichange zviri nani uye zvakanyanya kururamisa kutarisa kana murume wacho pachake akatora masaga emadzimai uye, achienda kutanga, anovaisa pasi, ozoisa maoko ake. Asi izvi, zvechokwadi, zvinowanzoitika mumamiriro ezvinhu, kana murume uyu ari shamwari yako yakananga. Mune mamwe mazwi, vatendi vakadaro vanogona kuonekwa zvishoma nezvishoma mumigwagwa yenyika yedu.
Saka takaongorora pamwe chete newe zvidzidzo zvidzidzo zvepamusoro, izvo zvinotiudza kuti zvinokurudzirwa kuti zviite sei pakutakura vanhu.
Uye semhedziso ndinoda kuwedzera kuti nguva dzose edza kuzvibata zvakanyanyisa uye zvakanaka. Wakaisa pasi petsoka yevatasvi vamire - kukumbira ruregerero, iwe wakapa kana munhu asingazivi paakabuda akapa ruoko rwake - nguva dzose usakanganwa kutenda, pfuurira mari yekubhadhara kune mutyairi - iende nayo nemashiripiti "ndapota! ". Uye pakupedzisira, kana iwe ukaona maitiro asina kuchena uye asina kuumbwa akataurirwa kune mumwe wevatakuri - usambomupindura nenzira imwecheteyo. Zvimwe nguva dzimwe nguva ramba wakanyarara, nokudaro uchiratidza tsika yako uye tsika dzakanaka uye kudzivisa mamiriro ekurwisana. Uye kuburikidza nokusateerera kwake kusina kunaka kune maitiro ake, iwe unongotamira kumwero wemunhu uyu. Kubudirira kwauri uye mafaro anofadza!