Iwe haugoni kuramba, zvisinei, kuti vana vakasiyana. Haisi karapuz yose inonyanya kukonzerwa nokunyengetedza, kushandiswa kunovhiringidza uye dzimwe nzira dzomukadzi. Zvakakosha kwete "kutadza mberi", asi funga nezvezvinhu zvose zvemucheche wako. Nguva inonyanya kukosha pakusungirira kubva pacifier ndiyo nguva yemwana. Iko kunofanira kufungwa nezvazvo, zvisinei kuti kuedza kuchaparara, uye dzimwe nguva unotyisidzira kunyange kuvaka chirwere chemwana wako. Uye izvi hazvisi kuwedzeredza.
Kubva 6months kusvika pagore
Kubva kune rumwe rutivi - ino ndiyo nguva yakanakisisa yekudzidza kubva pacifier. Ndiyo panguva iyi apo kusvimha kunosuruvara kunorwadza uye nekukurumidza. Asi kune rumwe rutivi - mwana anotanga kutema meno ake, anotanga kudyisa, izvo zvinotungamirira kumatambudziko matsva nemukomana, asi kurara uye kurara panguva ino zviri kuchinja. Mafambiro haagoni kudzivirirwa, uye pano ivo vanoedzawo kudzivisa mumwe wavo wavanoda-huru dzavo dzisingagoni kurarama nezvose izvi. Zvechokwadi, kungokanda pacifier kunze kwehwindo, kuona kuti mwana ari kutambura kunze kweiyo haisi yekusarudza. Chii chandinofanira kuita?
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinokurudzira panguva ino kuti dzigadzirire mwana mimwe mitambo inofadza. Kunyanya kunetseka kuenda kunorara. Chirongwa ichi chinotevera: mwana wacho akashambidzwa, akaiswa mumubhedha, akadzima chiedza chepamusoro, achisiya usiku hunodikanwa chiedza, akagara pasi pedyo naye achinyemwerera, akanyatsoputika, akaimba rwiyo. Vose vari voga, asi mune imwechete vana vanofanana - tsika dzinovabatsira. Ichokwadi, hapanofanira kunge kune dummy mune tsika yakadaro. Nditendei, mwana haawandi kuda chikamu chepurasitiki, kusvika paanoda maoko emai vake, kushamwaridzana uye rudo rwake. Kana iwe uchange uine pedo nesu, uye mweya, kana iwe ukasvibisa rugare nerudo - wako muduku achadzikama zvakare ndokurara asingabatsiri.
Vanhu vazhinji vanobatsirwa nekuchinja mumamiriro ezvinhu. Iwe unogona, somuenzaniso, kuenda kune mbuya kwevhiki, uye unobatanidza chete "kukanganwa" kumba. Mune mamiriro matsva, pakati pekusaziva "nzvimbo" iyo mwana kwegore rimwe anokanganwa zvaasingaoni nguva dzose pamberi pake. Gare gare, kufamba kwakadaro hakugone kushanda, asi panguva ino - mutemo "nehasha" inoshanda. Hongu, uyezve: vana vaduku vanonyanya kuwanda kwemvura. Vanhu vashomanana vanoziva, asi vanoita kana nguva inoshanduka yakaoma zvikuru kupfuura vanhu vakuru. Mumazuva ekare vanhu vakachenjera vakati: "Musatanga zvinhu zvinokosha munguva yechando." Nhasi, masayendisiti ave akaratidza kuti akarurama aya mazwi. Panguva ino yegore, vana vakatovhiringidzika nezvinetso - kuderedza chiedza-zuva, kuderedza nhamba ye kufamba, nekudzivirira hutachiona. Usawedzera pane izvozvo, uyewo kusvimha kubva kumucheka. Zvichida kuzviita nokukurumidza, kana kushivirira zvakakosha. Zvichida, panguva iyoyo, danho rinotevera rekutsvaira kwekutsamwa kuchauya. Pano uye mazano achave akasiyana.
Kubvira mugore rimwe kusvika kumakore maviri
Mwana wacho anonzwisisa zvakakwana kuti kune dummy mumba, kuti inofadza, inonyaradza pasi uye inogona kukumbirwa kubva kuna amai chero nguva. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha panguva ino ndechokuudza mwana we pacifier pakarepo, pakarepo paanenge achirova. Edza kusimbisa mimhanzi mune imwe nzira. Zvakanakisisa ndiyo nheyo yekuvhiringidza kana kutarisa. Nyoka panguva yekusagadzikana inopiwa kumwana chete mumamiriro ekuda zvakanyanya - apo pakarepo anotya pane chimwe chinhu, kana asinganzwisisi kana kana akaneta, asi haagoni kurara. Pakarepo mushure mekumisa kuchema kana kuwira vavete, mbiru inofanira kubviswa.
Muzera rino, mwana haazovaka maketani akareba kwenguva refu. Haazokwanisa kuyeuka kupindwa muropa kwake nemuchere kana asingamuoni nguva dzose pamberi pemaziso. Iyo Kid ichadzidza zvishoma nezvishoma kuti inakidzwe nezvimwe zvinhu-kutaurirana naamai, mitambo, kushamwaridzana kwemaoko nematayipi akaderera. Iyo yekupedzisira, nenzira, ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuyamwisa mwana kubva kumuchiri asati avata. Imwe shamwari inoshamwaridzana iri pedyo neni mumubhedha hainzwisisi ini zvakanyanya kupfuura kunwisa pacifier. Vana vanoda kudururira, nasknuvshis mumhino mumunda wakaoma teddy bear kana kitini. Zvine ngozi kuisa mwana nenzira yakadaro, asi munguva ino - nguva dzose fadza.
Pashure pemakore maviri
Muzera rino mwana anenge atoziva tsika yacho uye mumamu anoedza kuedza "kutamba". Iko pasina nzira yokuviga dummy yemwana - mwana anoziva kuti anodiwa "sauce" pane imwe nzvimbo, kuti haadi chido kana cheki, asi ndiye. Amai vanofanira kuitei? Udza mwana wacho nhau yenyasha yemunhu anonyadzisa, uyo iye zvino anodawo pacifier, sezvazvaidiwa kwaari paakanga achiri muduku zvikuru. Uye uwane dummy dummy zvachose pasina, anodanidzira, ane shungu uye akaipa. Vana vane mutsa nekuzvarwa, tsitsi dzinokwanisa kugadzirisa dambudziko rose kwauri.
Unoda kukurumidzira kusvimha misodzi? Ita izvi sezvinonyatsoita. Edza ku "kurasikirwa" nekudzikama kumba, tarisa zvichazoitika. Kana mwana wacho atanga kunyengedza kwechokwadi - pakarepo "ona" kurasikirwa. Zvechokwadi gumbo rine chido chaunokwanisa kuita.
Ita kuti awane izvo Wizard inoda, izvo zvichaita kuti kurota kwake kuzadziswe mukudzorera kwe pacifier. Zvichida mwana wacho achava akanyara zvokuti achakanganwa pamusoro pembiru pazuva rimwe chete. Iwe unogona kuedza uye imwe nzira yakaoma-yekucheka pacifier nemakumbo (kwete chete pameso ekutsemuka). Mukuita kudaro, tsanangurai kumwana kuti zvinhu zvose zvekare zvinotapudzwa munguva pfupi kana gare gare, pavanenge vachirega kudiwa. Iti: "Iwe wakakura kare, mbiru haisisina kukosha kwauri - hezvino," akadaro. Kana mwana asingazivi kuti iwe unogona kutenga imwe itsva, nokukurumidza achakurumidza kurasikirwa neshamwari mu dummy.
Heano imwe nzira: iwe unogona "kukuvadza" dummy zvishoma nezvishoma, kubvisa kubva kwaari zvishoma zvishoma zuva rose, kusvikira paine ringlet chete yakasara. Kune mibvunzo yese yemimhanzi, mhinduro yokuti imwe mhuka-amai vaida papira kuvana vavo vaduku, saka akazvuzvurudza mbambo yake zvidimbu.
Zvichida zvakaputika pane imwe nguva iyo ringori inotakura nayo, kunyange kurara nayo, asi zvishoma nezvishoma tsika yacho ichakanganwika. Kana mhuri ine mwana muduku, saka iwe unofanira kubvunza mukuru kuti ape rukoche kumucheche. Taura kuti kamuko kadiki kakangoerekana kasisina, uye iye akakura zvokuti haagoni kurarama pasina iyo. Isa kusimbisa pamusoro peizvi "iwe watova mukuru," asi taura chete nekuzvikudza, nenzira yekurumbidza, uye kwete nenzira yekunyadziswa: "Ehta, yakakura kwazvo, uye ukumbire kunyamwa."
Zvakakosha kubvisa kubviswa kwemwana, maererano nezera rake. Uyu ndiwo mutemo mukuru. Pamwe nevana vaduku vegore, kusimbiswa kunofanira kunge kune mafungiro ake uye zvido zvepanyama, kusvika kumakore maviri-kuti ave akanyengedzwa kunyengera, mushure meviri - kuedza kutaurirana. Uye zvinokosha kunzwisisa kuti vana vose vakasiyana zvachose. Usaenderera mberi pamusoro pemafungiro anowanzogamuchirwa, mamwe maitiro nemirau inowanikwa. Teerera mwoyo wemwana wako - haunganyengeri uye haungakundi