Akakomborerwa mechimakeriti nokuda kwebasa rakawanda. Asi kunyange chiyero chikuru chebudiriro chemhizha chaive chiyero chemashuwisi aaiva nawo. Ichi chiitiko chekupfekedza chaive chirevo chekuziva uye kukwanisa kwevakomana vacho kuti vagadzirise michato inobatsira uye michato inofadza. Iyo nyanzvi yemitambo yakagadzirisa nguva dzose inozivikanwa pachine nguva pamusoro pevashandi vanogona kunge vakaroorana uye vakaroorana, ukama hwe dowry, hutano hwemhuri, vanhu vemadiki vaduku, chiremerera uye kukanganisa kwemafambiro ehutano uye zvenyama. Kuti vaite izvi, vaifanira kupa chiokomuhomwe vashumiri, varimi vemizambiringa nevamwe vashandi, asi izvi zvikwereti, semurairo, vakazvipa mhosva ivo pakarepo mushure mekupedzisa kwekuroorana kwechikwata.
Mumakore iwayo vanhu vapfumi chete vanogona kutendeukira kumabasa echemikorikidzemakeraker: vatengesi, vanokudzwa. Uye mubereki wose aida kubudirira kumunamatira mwana wake, ava nehukama hwemhuri yaive nehuwandu hwemagariro evanhu kana humwe mari. Muzvizhinji, zvechokwadi, michato iri mukirasi imwechete yaive yakajairika. Chimwe chinhu chakanga chiri, somuenzaniso, muchato wemumwe munhu akakurumbira akaparadzwa akaine musikana akapfuma-mukirasi.
Yange iri nguva yakareba kubva pamazuva ekare, uye mavhisi ekufananidza achiri kudiwa. Zvino mumabasa avo, sapakutanga, kubatana kwemwoyo miviri. Asi vemazuva ano vanokonzera maitiro, zvechokwadi, vakasiyana nevakagara vatangira kare. Misiyano ndeyekuti, zvichida, kunze kwekusavapo kwemitemo yakawanda yemitambo yekufananidza.
Apo iwe unogara uchikomberedzwa nevanhu: kubasa, mumugwagwa, munzvimbo dzekutenga, uye paunodzokera kumusha hapana munhu wokutaura naye, iwe uri kufunga zvakanyanya nezvehupenyu hwemhuri. Kusurukirwa ndiyo dambudziko redu nguva yedu. Heano mavheekiti uye anobatsira vari voga vanhu vanowana mweya wavo.
Zvinotaridzika kuti munyika yemazuva ano yemichina yehutano, kunyange pasina kusiya nzvimbo yakananga, munhu anogona kuziva uye kutsvaga avo vanogona kuroorana navo pachavo. Asi kufambidzana kuburikidza nemamwe mawebsite uye, kunyange zvakanyanya kuwedzera, zviziviso zvepepanhau zvinogona kuva nengozi, kwete kungoparadza nguva uye simba, asi, mumamiriro akaipisisa, kurasika kwemari kana hupenyu. Uye ndeapi vanhu vasingafungiri mumagariro akadaro? Zvino zvakadini kana musikana akanaka uyu ane daisies ari chaizvoizvo muvhimi wevarume ane rombo guru uye kungova mupambi? Basa remakwikwi zvinobva rava kunyanya kukosha. Mune mazano ano mazuva ano emakwikwi anofanirwa kudzidza ruzivo rwomunhu kubva kune dhesi inogona kuwanikwa mushure mekukurukurirana kwevanhu. Mushure mezvose, anokwanisa kuwana mapepa, zvichienderana nemashoko ekutanga aya. Iye zvino havana vatsigiri vadzidzisi sevashumiri. Zvakakosha kuvimba nedunhu rega, nheyo dzeNLP uye psychology uye, hongu, "ziso rako rakadzidziswa" uye ruzivo. Vakuru vechikwereti vemakwikwikwi vapfumi uye vanobudirira varume nevakadzi. Kutsvaga kukura kwebasa nekubudirira, vakanga vasina nguva yakakwana yekutanga hukama hwakakomba uye kugadzira mhuri. Hungu, uye nekuda kwekufambisa bhuku rekutsvaga nzvimbo uye kupedza nguva pavanenge vasina kukodzera a priori, zvakare, rinokosha maminiti ekusiya. Maminitsi akabuda mumazuva, mwedzi, makore. Kune vanhu vapfumi vakaita basa rakanaka, vanobudirira muhutano hwemhizha, nguva yekuumba mhuri yakasimba uye ine ushamwari iri kunyunguduka nguva dzose. Pano mutambi anova mutsigiri anokosha. Kutsvaga vakaroorana vakakodzera, inobva pane zvehupfumi uye zvinhu zvezvinhu zvevashandi vanogona uye vakaroorana. Vagadziri, chaizvoizvo, vane unyanzvi hwepfungwa uye unyanzvi hwakanaka hwekuisa mukana wekuzivikanwa kwemumwe mupfumi ane muchengeti wemari. Kana kuti kurega kuzivikanwa kwevanhu vaviri vasingawirirani muhupenyu kana nzira yehupenyu, uye zvimwe zvakawanda zvinotarisirwa, kunze kwekanako nemari, inofanira kuonekwa nevanosangana ne "procuresses" vane ruzivo.
Kusvikira munhu achiedza kuumba ukama hwemhuri, hutano hwemhizha hwemagetsi hunenge huchida. Mushure mezvose, mugumisiro webasa rake chibvumirano chemufaro wega uye mararamiro emhuri yemumwe mutengi akakumbira rubatsiro.
Ndizvo zvaari, matchmaker; Kufambidzana nevarume vakapfuma, inoronga zvinyararire!