Uye izvi zvinosuruvarisa. Pashure pezvose, pakati pevane tarenda, vakuru uye vakakurumbira, zvakare, hapana vakadzi vashomanana, uye nyika yezvemweya dzimwe nguva yakazara uye yakasiyana zvikuru kupfuura varume. Tinogara tichijeka uye zvinoshamisa, tinogona kuita kuti vanhu vafunge, tinoziva kukunda uye kushamisika. Saka sei chiremerera chedu choga chisinganyatsonzwisiswi, zvichiunza zvimwe zvinhu zvisingagumi.
Kunyanya mabheki kukura kweunhu hwemukadzi mumhuri. Apo zvose zvido zvake zvinomanikidzwa kuenda kumberi, mukufarira zvinodiwa nezvido zvemurume wake nevana. Nokudaro, zvose izvo mukadzi akakwanisa kuzviunganidza mukati make kusvikira panguva yekuroora, hazviwanzowedzerwa zvikuru munguva yehupenyu hwemhuri.
Uye zvingaita sokuti, tiri kuitei zvisakarurama, kuti tinotanga kufamba zvishoma nezvishoma uye nekunyadzisa semunhu mumwe nomumwe?
Chii chinotitadzisa kupfuurira mberi kwekukurira kwedu, kuzviita isu tisingabatsiri, kutadza kufarira munyika, vanhu, zvishoma uye zvisingafadzi?
Tine mhinduro dzemibvunzo iyi. Uye saka, tinoteerera uye tinoyeuka.
Tinodiwa.
Nhanho yekutanga kune kukanganisa semunhu wemudzimai mumhuri ndicho chido chake chekutaura nguva dzose nezvake. Kazhinji kukurukurirana nevanhu vakakomberedzwa, kunyange nevasingazivi, virasira kumabhanari "asi ini", "asi iwe unofunga kubva kwandiri", "iwe iwe, hongu", uye akawanda akawanda akadai "ini", uye kwose kwose muhupenyu hwose . Kazhinji izvi zvinotungamirira kukuti vanhu vose vakakupoteredza vave vachiziva nezvewe, uye zviitiko zvitsva hazvikoshi kana zvichienzaniswa nehuwandu hwehuwandu hwawakapa pamusoro pehupenyu hwako hwose. Kusada kuteerera kwezvinhu zvawaona zvichakurumidza kudzokera kwauri. Munhu nemasikirwo ane udyire, uye anofarira zvikuru kufarira kumunhu wake, Vanhu vanenge vasingachadi kukuteerera kana iwe uchigara uchigadziriswa iwe pachako, kwete kubhadhara zvakanyanya kwavari semamiriro ako ezvinhu. Chigumisiro chacho ndechokusakwanisa kukurukurirana kwakakwana.
Ichokwadi chokuti mukadzi kuwana mhuri, kunyanya kana ari muimba yemumba, anowana shamwari itsva yepamusoro, TV, inewo simba. Zvinyorwa zvitsva, kwete mazano ezvinyorwa, zvisizvo zvakasiyana, uye nyaya pamusoro pehupenyu hwebhizimisi rekugara uye kune dzimwe nyika rinoratidzira-inotsiva zvose zvinonakidzwa zvehupenyu chaihwo, kuverenga mabhuku, zviitiko zvemutambo. Mune ramangwana iwe uchakwanisa kutaura chete pane nyaya dziri pedo newe - purogiramu yeTerecasts, nyeredzi nyeredzi, uye apo, pakupedzisira, Jose anonzwisisa kuti Maria, uyu haasi mwanasikana waRoberto, asi kungova mukoma wechipiri wababamunini vake vakauya pano gore rapfuura kubva pakuora mwoyo, tangotarira mufaro wako.
Zviito zvedu.
Saizvozvowo, kukurudzirwa kwehupenyu hwevakadzi mumhuri, kuchave nehutano hwakakanganiswa nemaitiro ake ezuva nezuva. Kune vamwe vakadzi, zuva rakarongedzwa maminitsi ose, uye purogiramu yacho nguva dzose yakangofanana, nekugadzirisa zuva racho uye richibva. Ichokwadi kuti izvi hazvisi kungofanana nemukadzi, pane dzimwe nguva mamiriro ezvinhu anotsanangurirwa nemitoro yake kumhuri, vakuru, hama uye humwe hukama. Uye panguva imwecheteyo, vakadzi vazhinji vanogutsikana nekugadzirisa uku, uye havaedzi kunyange kuchinja chimwe chinhu, kuti vataure kuti kune imwe nzira yekuzvidzivirira, iyo inoita kuti vangave mubereki akanaka kana mushandi, asi kwete munhu anofarira uye akakwana. Dzimwe nguva mukusaita kwakadaro mamiriro emari ndeaakapa mhosva. Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma, saka mukadzi kazhinji anozviponesa mukufarira mhuri, kana zvimwewo, kuponesa kunongova kungochengetedza pane imwe nguva inokosha. Uye sezvo nyaya yakadai nokuda kwebasa risingaperi risingaiti, mari inoenda pane zvinodiwa, kwete zvaunoda. Saka zvinosvika, apo shamwari dzichizvirumbidza pamusoro pekuenda kunzvimbo yakashanyira, rwendo rwako rwakare kure kwegore rose, rwakanga rwuri kunyika shure kwemazamu, kana kunyange zvishoma.
Uye zvakadaro, iwe wakapedzisira rini kuona avo vakafanana neshamwari? Uye iwe hauna nguva iyoyo, zvino unoshuva, asi iwe hausi kunyange kukokwa neshamwari dzako, uchiziva kuti iwe uchange uchinge uchiwana-mberi kusingazovi. Uye shure kwaizvozvo iwe unoda kuzviti iwe unofadza uye wakagadzirwa unhu?
Saizvozvowo, kana iwe usingaendi chero kupi zvako, saka iwe hauna vatsva vanoziva, kufananidzwa kunonakidza kwauri. Hongu, uye iwe unogutsikana neboka duku rehama dzako, uyo, zvichiitika, kana iwe usina kukanganwa, haachazokudana.
Maonero edu.
Zvechokwadi, zviito zvedu zvinonyanya kusarudza pfungwa dzedu. Mafungiro atinoita anokonzerwa nemitemo yedu, mazano, tsika dzetsika. Uye kana tikasarudza kusashandura, saka kusasiyana kwehupenyu hwedu hakuna kuiswawo. Sei, chimwe chinhu chitsva, kana pane zera rakaratidza. Usarega nyika yekunze ichikurudzira iwe. Ipa zvose izvo zvange zvisati zvisiri chikamu chenyika yako, iyo iwe iwe pachako wakasika.
Nenzira, nguva yekupedzisira iwe wakatarisa chitarisiko chako chii? Zvichida, nzira yako kuenda kunzvimbo yakanaka yakagadzirwa nehuni yakakura kwete chete neuswa, asi nemiti. Asi, chokwadi chokuti kutaridzika kumunhu hakuna hanya uye nyika yepamukati inonyanya kukosha haisi chokwadi zvachose, uye iwe watozviona iwe pachako kwenguva yakareba. Unhu hwomunhu hunozviratidza kwete mukukwanisa kwake kutaura, mano uye ruzivo, asiwo mune kuratidzwa kwekunze kweunhu hwake. Zvinonzwisisika kuti mumba haifaniri kupfeka mbatya kubva kune yakadhura fashion designer, uye chic hairstyle, asi maonero edu pachedu, kukwanisa kuratidza rubatsiro mukuumbwa kwehupenyu hwedu.
Saka, vadiwa madzimai, zviongororei. Kuroorana haisi kuguma kwenyika, uye kwete chikonzero chokukanganwa nezvako. Ida iwe pachako, uise zvakasiyana-siyana muupenyu hwako, taurirana uye munyaya iyi, mubvunzo wako semunhu mumhuri, hauzombosiki. Mushure mezvose, kuti uri unhu hunopenya, munhu wose achaziva zvose.