Vanhu vakawanda vemazuva ano vanoyeuka kuti muhuduku hwavo zvinhu zvose "zvakafanana." Nguo, mabhuku, zvokudya, vatarisiri, mitambo, anecdotes, basa rechikoro. Kuchikoro, munhu wacho akaedza kuvanza fomu. Muchikwata chechikwata - kunyange mapoka emasikana akanga asina kusiyana zvakanyanya nemapato emasikana. Hazvirevi kutaurirana.
Vakuruwo vanoyeuka zvakare zvikamu zvatakasvika pakuwanda kwemazuva ano nekusiyana. Manzwiro ekugadzirana anowirirana nezvikumbiro zvekuda-mumwe mwana anogona uye anoda foni, "sa Masha", zvisinei, nyaya yeimwe ruvara, nezvimwewo. Kunyange nokusingaperi maitiro akafanana iye zvino haadi kufanana.
Vana vanoda kutarisirwa kune ivo pachavo. Kwete sechinhu chero chipi zvacho, vhudzi, uye kunyange kudzidzira mumwe nomumwe. Mutaundi rangu, vabereki vane kodzero yokubhadhara kubva pamadhora zana pamwedzi kuti dzidzo yemwana inorongedzerwa nenhepfenyuro uye makuhwa, kukurukurirana pachavo nevadzidzisi vemwana weramangwana, vanotsvaka uye ... vanouya kune dzidzo yega.
Nei zvakadaro? Zvinonzwisisika kuti zvinokurudzirwa nechido chokukudziridza humwe mano akasiyana-siyana omwana uye kwete kusazvidza chimwe chazvo. Asi munyaya iyi, kushamwaridzana kwemwana pamwe nevevanhu kwakarasika. Kukurukurirana hakuiti "pachako". Usawana unyanzvi hwakadzidza maitiro ekuzvibata muboka revamwe vana kana vanhu vakuru. Vakawanda vari kutamba mitambo yemapoka uyewo haasvikiki kumwana nemumwe munhu kudzidziswa. Somugumisiro, mazuva ano vana pedagogy uye psychology vanobvumirana kuti kana vabereki vachida kuti mwana akwanise kukurukurirana zvakanaka nevamwe vanhu, anofanira kutanga kudzidzisa izvi nekukurumidza uye pamapoka. Mubvunzo "sei?"
Chikumbiro chekugara kwevanhu vanogona kusvika pakurera kwevana kakatangwa. Hurumende, nokuda kwechikamu chayo, inodawo kuona hutsika uye hutano huwandu hwevanhu, uyezve, hurumende inoda kuzadza iyo "inofungidzirwa" yenyika. Kuzadzisa zvinangwa izvi, hurongwa hwezvidzidzo hunoda nzira itsva, inofambira mberi kune dzidzo yevana vepakutanga nevana vechikoro.
Zvakajeka kuti havasi vana vose vane zvipo zvakakwana kuti vatsvake kudzidziswa kwega.
Zvisinei, sangano iripo rekudzidzisa kazhinji haritenderi zvipo zvekuzviratidza pakutanga kwekudzidzira uye zvinokwanisa kubatsira kubatsiridza humwe unhu "husina kujairika" hwemwana, hunoda kuwedzera kunyanya kune chikamu chemudzidzisi kana mudzidzisi.
Tingaita sei kuti tive nechokwadi chekuti munhu mumwe nomumwe anosvika pakudzidziswa kwevanhu vashoma uye vagari venguva yemberi uye panguva imwechete kushamwaridzana naye?
Chimwe chezvinhu zvinogona kusarudzwa - kuparadzanisa dzidzo yevana pamusana pepabonde, kukurumidza kwedambudziko uye kuve pachena kune pachena. Vakomana vacho vakasiyana. Vasikana vacho vakaparadzana. Kwete itsva. Asi, sezvatinoyeuka, zvinhu zvitsva zviri kutoitika kune imwe nzvimbo nemunhu.
Pakutanga kwekutanga kwezana remakore rapfuura, vadzidzi vekunyora gymnasium uye vasikana vegurogiramu vakapindira kunze kwemasvingo emasangano edzidzo. MuEurope neAmerica, kurovedzwa kwakadaro kwakapararira uye kuchiri kunzi nhasi.
Mukati rose remakore ekupedzisira, dzidzo yedu yakaedza kudzidzisa munhu wese pamwe chete, pasina kufunga nezvekuti vasikana nevakomana vane kusiyana kwakakura pamwero wepfungwa, maonero, neurophysiology, physiology. Muvarume nevakadzi pane imwe nguva, kukwanisa kuyeuka, kushanda, nzira dzekufunga ivo dzakasiyana zvakasiyana-siyana zvokuti dzinoda nzira dzakasiyana zvachose dzekukura kwavo, iyi ndeimwe yezviratidzo zvehutano hwakasiyana hwevakomana nevasikana. Vasikana nevakomana vanoda mabasa akasiyana, nhetembo dzakasiyana, maitiro akasiyana uye nzira dzakasiyana zvakasiyana dzekupa ruzivo. Uyewo, nzira dzekukurudzira vanhu muboka revarume nevasikana vanofanira kusiyanisa. Zvishoma zvishoma izvo zvinokuvadza mwana wepfungwa dzepfungwa zvichave apo kudzidzisa mune boka rinoparadzaniswa nehutano.
Pasina mubvunzo, mudzidzisi achawana chikwata chakakwirira nekushoma kwezvidzidzo muzvidzidzo zve "vana" zvakafanana.
Kana kufanana kwepfungwa mupfungwa kunowanikwa muboka revana, kubudirira kwe nzira dzinoshandiswa nevadzidzisi kuchawedzera.
Zvinosuruvarisa, zvidzidzo zvehutano hwakasiyana hwevakomana nevanasikana dzakabvunzwa muzana remakore rapfuura sezviratidzo zveve chauvinism kana zvevakadzi kwenguva refu. Kunyange mumasangano aya edzidziso apo mavambo ezvigadzirwa zvemitambo vakabvumira kuiswa kwezvedzidzo zvakasiyana kune vakomana nevanasikana - nzira yehutano uye yezvidzidzo yakasimba uye inobva kune dzimwe nyika.
Nzira yeRussia yekuparadzanisa dzidzo mune zvekudzidzisa yakaumbwa mumazuva eRussia yekare-yekutanga. Zvidzidzo zvevepfungwa dzepfungwa zvinoratidza kuti nzira dzehutano hwepfungwa, pamwe chete nezvinetso zvepfungwa zvevanhu pachavo, zvakashandura makore anopfuura zana muchiyero chakakwana kuti zvinyatsooneka zvezviitiro ivo pachavo. Saizvozvowo, kurovedzwa pamigwagwa yakadaro yekare haigone kuitika muzana remakore rechi21.
Nokudaro, avo vana variko zvino vari kutora dzidzo yakasiyana-siyana vanoda hutano hwakakosha hwevadzidzisi nevana vepfungwa dzepfungwa kuti vaone kubudirira kwenzira yacho nenzira dzakasiyana uye nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana kunyanya.
MuEurope, panguva ino, kupatsanurana kwevakadzi pakati pezvedzidzo kunowedzera huwandu hwavo zuva rimwe nerimwe, sezvo nzira iyi inogamuchirwa senzira huru yekuvandudza kushandiswa kwemhando yedzidzo. Iye zvino unoziva zvose pamusoro pekukurumidzira kwedambudziko redzidziso yakasiyana yevakomana nevanasikana uye sarudza nzira yakanakisisa yevana vako.