Kubva pakasikwa kwenyika, vanhu vari kukakavadzana pamusoro pekuti chii chinonyanya kukosha: murume kana mukadzi. Kubva panguva imwe chete, kune kurwisana kusingaonekwi pakati pemukadzi nemurume panzvimbo yakaisvonaka yemutungamiri muhukama.
Pakutanga kuona, kusiyana pakati pemukadzi nemurume kunonzwisisika. Mukadzi kubva kare anonzi anochengetedzwa semuchengeti wemukati uye amai, murume - mutengi uye mudziviriri. Mazuva ano idzi pfungwa dzakashanduka zvishomanana. Zvisinei, musiyano mukuru pakati pepabonde hunowanikwa mumunda wepabonde.
Nevanhu
Haisi chakavanzika chokuti varume vanoda maziso uye vanokwezva nemufananidzo unooneka, uye mukadzi, pane zvinopesana, anenge asina hanya nemufananidzo unooneka, asi anoteerera kunhuwirira kwemurume wake. Kana uchiita zvepabonde, murume anoita sechisimba, uye mukadzi anogadzirira mukuzviisa kwake. Nokudaro, kumunhu kuti asvike pakukwirira kwemufaro, chiito chacho pachacho chinokwana, sezvo ichifadzwa kubva kune rumwe rudzi rwevakadzi vasina kupfeka. Izhinji huzhinji hwevarume hunoona kanagasm pavanotanga kubata zvepabonde, kana vachirasikirwa nemhandara. Zvakaoma zvikuru kuti mukadzi agone kuita sargasm, nekuda kwechikonzero ichi unoda humwe ruzivo, kunyatsoziva muviri wake uye nzvimbo dzake dzisina kukodzera, kudzidza kudzika mupfungwa kuzvisunungura pachake uye kumusunungura maonero ake emirambidzwa akadzidziswa isu kubva pauduku.
Nevakadzi
Mukuenzanisa nemurume, chirume chechikadzi chinowedzera kaviri nesimba uye chinogara kwenguva yakareba, sezvo simba uye hutano hwehupenyu hwemukadzi hunonyanya kuchinjwa nemafungiro emanzwiro. Kana mukadzi asinganzwi ane chivimbo mumurume, muhupo hwake anonzwa kusagadzikana kwepfungwa, achitya kuti mumwe wako anogona kukanda kana kukanganisa, saka hazvigoneki kutora mutsara kunyange nemunhu waunoda.
Sezvo zvitsva zvinotsvaga zvinoratidza, nhamba inotyisa yevakadzi inonyunyuta pamusoro pokushayiwa kwekudziya uye rudo kubva kune vavakaroorana navo. Uye pane zvinopesana, kunyunyuta kwemhando iyi kubva kuvanhu kunouya katatu zvishoma.
Upenyu hwepabonde hwemukadzi hunosimbiswa zvikuru nekuenda kwake kumwedzi. Mhedziso yevakadzi inotarisana nehutoni hwemukadzi, ndicho chikonzero icho dzimwe nguva anotaridzika aine shungu, anotya uye anobata. Mukuwedzera, chido chepabonde chinowedzera kana chichiderera zvichienderana nezuva rekuenda kumwedzi, iyo yakakwirira kupfuura iyo panguva yekuvhuvhuta - iyo nguva inonzi yakasimwa.
Uyewo, nhamba huru yevarume vane mafungiro asina kunaka nekuita bonhora kwevakadzi uye kuratidzwa kwezvaanoita. Vanowanzoona kuburitswa kwechiito ichi sechiratidzo chokunyengera. Mukuwedzera, kune nguva dzakawanda mamiriro ezvinhu apo munhu anotorwa nekutya iye pachake anogona kusvibiswa uye anotanga kuzvifananidza naaimbova shamwari navo mune imwe mamiriro ezvinhu. Zvinosuruvarisa, zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti vanenge 60% vevarume vanokanganisa vakadzi nokuda kwekukundikana kwavo kwepabonde, uye kusviba kwevakadzi nekutonhora kunowanzoonekwa sechikonzero cheizvi, pamwe chete nekuita zvakanyanya.
Kuita bonhora kune mukadzi ndiyo imwe nzira yekudzidza uye kunzwisisa muviri wako, uye kugona kufanana kwepabonde. Varume vazhinji vanoita nevakadzi vachiita bonhora zvakanyanya, nokuti vanotenda kuti munyaya iyi havagutsikane naye. Kunyange zvakadaro, ruzhinji rwevakadziopathologist dzakafanana nemafungiro ekuti vakadzi vanoita bonhora ndivo danho rekutanga kune nzira yekurapa kune iyo inonzi yakadzama.
Kuzadzisa kubatana kwakakwana
Kuchengetedza kuti kusiyana kwepfungwa uye kwepanyama pakati pemukadzi nemurume hakusi chipingamupinyi pakuzadzisa kubatana muukama, munhu anofanira kuedza kunzwisisa mumwe wake uye pfungwa yake yepfungwa. Kuva neruzivo rwemasimboti makuru emufambiro wemudiwa wako, iwe uchaona kana kuti uchakwanisa kutarisira kusanganisa uye zviito zvingakubatsira kuti usaita zvikanganiso muhukama.