Kurota kwakavanzika kwomukadzi akakura .
Maererano nekuongorora kwevanhu, vazhinji vevakadzi vane makore makumi matatu nemashanu vangada kuva neukama nemukomana muduku. Saka, kubva kune zviuru zvitatu vakabvunzurudzwa madzimai ezvipakati, makumi mashanu neatatu kubva muzana havavanze zvinyorwa zvavo zvevaduku vasati vadarika gumi kana makumi maviri emakore. Asi makumi matatu nechinomwe kubva muzana yevakadzi vakawana zvakaoma kupa mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu, uye vakasara muzana yevakabvunzwa vakabvuma kuti vanotungamirira varume vaduku mukurota kwavo, asi muhupenyu chaihwo havangambobvumirani ukama hwakadaro. Maererano nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, chikonzero chezvakaitika kare zvevakadzi kune varume vaduku kupfuura ivo pachavo zvinogona kutumidzwa zvakasimba kuda kwevakadzi vakakura, kuti vararame "wechipiri wechidiki" pedyo nemukomana wechidiki.
Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, ukama hwakadaro nemurume muduku kudarika iye pachako hunoita kuti mukadzi ataure semunhu, awane hukama naye pachake uye aratidze kuti iye anofadza uye anofadza munhu akadaro. Zvinosuruvarisa, mazvikokota ezvepfungwa nemubvunzo uyu vakakwanisa kubvunzurudza vakadzi vashomanana muboka rezera iri, chaizvoizvo, vakadzi vakadaro vanodhakwa nevakomana vaduku uye vanoda kuona pamwe navo mukomana akadaro zvakanyanya.
Kuvhiringidza kwevakadzi kune vechidiki uye runyerekupe .
Mukushamwaridzana kwehukama pakati pevanhu ndeye runyararo kwenguva refu. Mushure mezvose, ukama hwakadaro hwakagara "hunomhanya" muziso revanhu. Vakawanda vavo vanopomera, uye vazhinji vanotsigira. Muzhinji, vangani vanhu, vakawanda maonero pamusoro pechinhu ichi. Nenzira, chinhu chinonakidza ndechekuti kusaenzana kwehukama, apo murume mukuru kupfuura sangano ravakadzi vanobata, zvakashata, asi hukama huripo huri hukuru - hutengo huve huchikonzera kukakavara uye nedomekov. Kazhinji kacho, hukama hwakadaro hunogona kutongwa kwete neshamwari chete chete, asiwo nehama. Ndicho chikonzero ichi, vaviri vakadaro vanofanira kutarisana nematambudziko aya uye nguva dzose kwete kungozvidzivirira ivo pachavo kufara, asiwo kuratidza kune vamwe rudo rwavo uye kodzero yacho. Nenzira, ukama hwakadaro hunogona kunzi hubu kubudirira uye hubudirire, hunoita kuti uwanane. Izvo hazvisi vanhu vose varipo vanotenda mukuguma kwakadaro, kusimbisa zvinangwa zvemunhu uye zvido zvemukadzi akakura uye murume wechidiki.
Chinangwa chekusaenzana kwehukama .
Kazhinji vakadzi vanocherechedza varume vaduku, kana vasina hanya nehupfumi hwehukama hwakadaro. Vakadzi vakadaro, sekutonga, kwenguva yakareba vakatozviziva ivo pachavo muupenyu uye vakaitika semunhu. Vakadzi ava vanotowana nzvimbo yakanaka yekubhadhara, imba yavo uye havadi chinhu kunze kwerudo uye rudo. Ndicho chikonzero, kumirira mumwe munhu muduku kudarika iye pachake, rubatsiro rwemari, mudzimai ari muzera haadi. Chokutanga pane zvose, muhukama hwakadaro, hunogona kusanganisira hupombwe nemukomana. Izvi zvinonyanya kukonzerwa nekuti vakadzi havana kutarisirwa zvakakwana kubva kune varume vezera rimwe chete, uye anoda chimwe chinhu chakakosha uye zvemuviri: husiku hunozadzwa nechishuwo, izvo zvichamubatsira kuti anzwe kwete chete zvinoda, asi zvakare achiri muduku. Uye shure kwezvose, varume makumi mana makumi mana vakaoma kupa mukadzi chido chaicho, pamusoro pekuti anogona kupa mukomana wechidiki. Icho chinonyanya kuziva ndeyekuti makore makumi matatu apfuura, vakadzi vanoona hurombo hwekuita zvepabonde, asi mumarume, kunyatsopesana, inoderedza.
Mukuwedzera kune pamusoro apa, ukama hwakadaro hwakapiwa nekuchengetedzwa kwakakwana uye kudzivirirwa. Kune varume vechidiki, mukadzi akadaro anogona nyore nyore kutora amai, ave mutungamiri uye mutungamiri muhupenyu, mubatsire kuti azviongorore pachake uye awane ruzivo rwake munzanga. Rudzi urwu rwekuchengetedzwa nevakadzi kunogara ruchikosheswa uye rusingatorwa nevakadzi.
Nzira yekuchengetedza sei ukama hwakadaro mukuwirirana uye kunzwisisa ?
Chokutanga pane zvose, mukadzi ane utera hwevarume vaduku kupfuura iye pachake anofanira kukwanisa kutarisa kuti atarise nguva dzose pedyo nomurume akadaro akakodzera uye kunyange muduku kudarika makore ake. Anodawo izvi zvose kuitira kuti awane kukwikwidzana nevasikana vaduku. Asi pfungwa yakadai seshungu yevakadzi, zvinosuruvarisa, inokosha chikamu chehukama hwakadaro. Ndicho chikonzero mukadzi anofanira kuva nemakadhi ese ehwamanda kuitira kuti achengete jaya iri pedyo naye.
Pakati pezvinhu, mukomana muduku haafaniri kuiswa pamwero we "mwana". Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti vanhu vose (kunyange pazera remakore makumi maviri) vanozvipira kune hutungamiri mune zvose zvachose. Ndokusaka murume achida kukurudzira kufungidzira uku uye kuti asataure nekushaya hupenyu hwehupenyu.
Mumwe haafaniri kutonganisa ukama hwakadaro nemari. Kana mukadzi wacho ari akapfuma uye achiyeuchidza mukomana uyu, sekunge achizvitenga, achida panzvimbo yake chete bonde rakanaka uye kushushikana, jaya rinogona kungoita sokuti riri kushandisa naro. Ndokusaka hupenyu hwakanaka hwuri pano husingafaniri kutamba chero basa, asi kutaurirana pamwe nekusununguka ndicho chinangwa chikuru chehukama hwakasiyana pakati pemukadzi akwegura kupfuura murume.
Mukudanana kwakadaro, usanonoka kunyange mushure mokuroorana. Usamanikidzira mukomana uyu, mhaka uye uve negodo re hysterical dicks, kana akasarudza mukadzi akwegura kupfuura iyeye, iye, uyewo, anofanira kuzvikudza!
Uye semhedziso yekugumisa hurukuro yedu, ndinoda kutaura kuti chido chevakadzi kune varume vaduku pane ivo pachavo chakakosha uye hukama hwakadaro hunoita kuti vanhu vakawanda vafare. Ndicho chikonzero, iwe haufaniri kutya vanhu makuhwa uye makuhwa anonyatsoenderana neukama hwakadaro. Saka, kana imi mose mune chido chekuve pamwe chete, iva nechokwadi chekuisa pachikonzero chehukama hwakadaro. Mushure mezvose, kusiyana kwemakore hakuna kumboita basa rinokosha, chinhu chikuru pano apa manzwiro!