Vazhinji vedu tinosarudza kuva shamwari nehutano hwakadaro. Zvinotendwa kuti "iwe pachako" iwe chete unogona kunzwisisa, kudya, kutonhora - neshoko, shandura bhokisi roushamwari kana zvichidiwa. Asi nei zvino vakadzi vakawanda vachirota kuva neshamwari yemurume (kureva, shamwari, kwete mudiwa)? Icho ushamwari nemurume huri nani kudarika mukadzi here? Uye hukama hwakadaro huri kuwedzera kune chimwe chinhu here? Nezvakaita sehukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi chaizvoizvo, uye ichakurukurwa pasi apa.
ZVINHU ZVEMUSORO HWAMWARI
Ichokwadi kuti kuva neshamwari yepedyo hakunawo zvakaipa. Kune mumwe munhu angauya otorera mweya wako kuburikidza nekuputira murume wako pane izvo nyika inomirira. Kune mumwe munhu anoenda kunotenga uye kuimba yemitambo (haugoni kuendesa iwe pachako nekakani!) Pane mumwe munhu anofamba nevana kuPaki kana kuvana rekutamba nevana vana. Pakupedzisira, pane mumwe munhu angakurukura kudya kwemafashoni nekunyunyuta kuti zvakare iwe hauna kukodzera mune jean yako yaunoda. Shamwari inodiwa inoteerera, inzwira tsitsi, inotaura nezvezvinetso zvavo zvakafanana. Uye iye achakubatsira iwe mose. Zvingaita sekuti zvinhu zvose zvakanaka, chii chimwe chingadikanwa. Asi, zvinoshanduka, pane zvipfeko muhukama hwevakadzi, uye hazvifadzi.
- Ndinoda shamwari yangu, tiri shamwari naye kubva kuchikoro, - anodaro Marina. - Mumakore ose aya, vakabatsirana kakawanda zvokuti havagoni kuverenga. Takava pedyo, pedyo nekuzvarwa. Asi ndakacherechedza kuti shamwari inofarira kugovana neni kusuruvara kupfuura mufaro. Semuenzaniso, apo ini ndimuudza kuti ndakasimudzirwa uye ndakawedzera mubhadharo wangu kana kuti munhu akanaka anonditevera, anenge achishuva mukati. Uye kunyange akaedza kuratidzira kuti anofara neni, asi ndinonzwa kuti mhete dzenhema dzinomhanya nenzwi rake. Mukupindura mazwi angu, anotanga kunyunyuta kuti hakuna munhu anowedzera mari kwaari, uye varume havana kumutarisa kwenguva refu. Panguva yakadaro, ndinonzwa ndine mhosva, nokuti ini ndakanaka, asi haaiti.
Kushuva uye kukakavadzana pakati pevamwe shamwari zvinowanzoitika. Uye izvi zvakanyanyisa kudzivisa ushamwari, nokuti kuvimba nekutendeseka zvinopera, chimwe chinhu chisina ukama hwehukama hazvibviri. Ndicho chikonzero vakadzi vakawanda, vachitya godo, vanoda kusunga vasikana pane imwe nzvimbo, vasingabvumi kuti vaswedere pedyo nehupenyu hwavo hwega. Uye muhukama hukama hwechokwadi hunotsiviwa neshamwari. Vakawanda vacharamba vachiti havasi vose vakadzi vakaita zvakadaro-kune vamwe vanogona kutsigira mumwe kune zvose mukusuwa uye mumufaro. Zvechokwadi pane. Zvishoma, ivo vashomanana. Saka, kuodzwa mwoyo muhukama hwe "bonde rimwechete", vakadzi vari kuedza kuwana nyaradzo mu "bondexual" - vari kutsvaga shamwari pakati pevarume.
ICHINHU CHAKANAKA "CHINONYANYA" KUSARUDZA
Murume haagoni kunge achiuya mupfungwa achigodora mukadzi nekuda kwemhete itsva, fesheni kana imba kana kuti musikana akaremerwa uremu, uye haaiti. Izvi zvinoreva, muhukama "hwakakanganiswa" (ushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi), kunzwa kweruchiva, sekutonga, zvachose kusipo. Uye izvi zvinoita kuti zvive zvakanyanya kunaka kune vakadzi.
Chinhu chechipiri icho ushamwari hwakadaro hwakakosha ndechokuti shamwari yechikomana inogona kugara ichiwana mazano akakodzera uye zvinyatsonzwisisika pamusoro pechiratidzo chisingaoneki chepfungwa dzevarume. "Kana ndichikakavadzana nemurume wangu kana kana ndisingazivi zvimwe zvezviito zvake," Oksana anoti, "chinhu chekutanga chandinoita ndeche Alyoshka, wandinenge ndiine shamwari naye kwemakore mazhinji. Achazonwa ini ne valerian, uye teerera uye tsanangura kuti nei zvakadaro, uye kwete. Iwe haugoni kuwana "ambulensi" yakadaro kubva kune chero shamwari kana mupfungwa yepfungwa. " Nenzira, izvi zvinobatsira zve "bondexual" ushamwari hunokosheswa nevanhu. Vaya avo vane mazamu, vanobvunza nemwoyo wose maonero avo pamusoro pekuti sei mudzimai kana tenzikadzi asina musoro. Uye kazhinji murume anoudza musikana wake zvinhu zvisingatombotendi mudzimai wake.
Pane imwezve zvakare. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinopikisa kuti kuvapo kwevamwe vanhu vevakomana vakasiyana-siyana kunosimbisa psycheche yake. Izvi zvinonyanya kuitika kune vakadzi. Mushure mezvose, tinoda kunzwa semhepo yatinofarira murume wepabonde. Zvakakosha kwatiri kuti hatidikanwi chete nemeso akanaka nemakumbo maduku, asiwo maitiro edzimweya. Zvechokwadi, zvakanaka, izvi zvose zvingava zvinodiwa kugamuchira kubva kumurume wake. Asi, hongu, haasi munhu wese ane rombo rakadai. Asi shamwari-shamwari inokuda nomwoyo wose uye inokukoshesa semunhu. Izvi zvinokurudzira kuvimba mumukadzi, kubvisa matambudziko akawanda. Mukuwedzera, ushamwari nemurume hunobatsira mudzimai, uyo anonzi, kuchengeta inzwi - kutarisa nguo, chimiro nezvimwe zvinhu.
Mune shoko, zvinoreva kuti ushamwari hwakadaro hune chete hupfumi hwakasimba. Asi kana zvose zvaiva nyore! Pano, zvakare, pane nguva dzinotsvedza. Nokuda kweiyo, pfungwa yekufungidzira yehukama hwepedyo neshamwari, husingadi kubvuma ushamwari hwakadaro hwevanhu vakakomberedza uye, pakupedzisira, godo remurume ...
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Mukana wekuti shamwari dzichava vanoda, chaizvoizvo. Dzimwe nguva hukama, hunotaridzika seushamwari pakati pemurume nemukadzi, zvisingaoneki kuti zvose zvikure kuva rudo. Uye dzimwe nguva ivo vanongotungamira pamubhedha. Hongu, pane mukana, asi hauna hanya. Uye ndicho chikonzero. Ichokwadi ndechokuti mukadzi, sekutonga, anotora ukama hwakakomba nemunhu zvakanyanya, achivapa kukosha kukuru. Anoremekedza shamwari yake uye anonzwira tsitsi naye (pasina tsitsi kune ushamwari, hazvina basa kana achida izvi neshamwari kana shamwari). Asi iye anoona kwaari shamwari chete, kwete munhu. Nemhaka yehutano hweshamwari, kwete kugumburwa kwechido chemudiwa. Uye iyo yakareba ushamwari, iyo mikana shomanana yokuti mukadzi achaona murume ari mukomana wake, vanapfungwa dzepfungwa vanoti. Mushure mezvose, hapana chikonzero chechimiro, nekuda kwekuti dzimwe nguva tinoita zviito zvisina maturo, tichimhanyira mumaoko evanhu vasingazivikanwi.
Asi varume vakarongeka nenzira yakasiyana. Kunyange kana vari shamwari nesikana kupfuura gore rimwe chete, vachiri kuona mukati maro mukadzi. Kunyange kana kona yeziso. Izvi hazvirevi kuti ivo vakarara uye vanoona kuti vangamudhonza sei kurara. Kwete, hongu. Asi usaramba kuti mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, kuita zvepabonde neusikana kunokwanisika. Kugumburwa nekuda kweizvi pamusoro pevarume mapenzi-saka vakarongwa, chii chaungaita. Zvinongova zvakakodzera kubvuma izvi sezvipo uye kuedza kuti urege kupa shamwari yako chikonzero chiduku chekusimudzirwa, sekutaura, chechimiro chake chekutanga. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, usafamba naye oga mua sauna, usasungira zvishongo zvake zvitsva zvitsva pamberi pemhino dzake, nezvimwewo. Pashure pezvose, mashomanana mashoma matanho pane iwe, uye angafunga kuti iwe haufaniri kufunga kuti ukama hwako hwakanga husiri chete platononic. Uye, maererano nenyanzvi, kana izvi zvikaitika, shamwari dzinowanzozvidemba. Nokuti hazvisi zvisizvo kuti hukama hwekare hudzoke shure kweizvi, uye zvakaoma kuvaka zvitsva. Saka, madzimai, chenjererai!
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Uku ndiko huchenjeri hwevanhu. Izvi zvinoreva kuti zvechokwadi kune imwe nyaya iyo ichacherechedza ushamwari hwako nekunyunyuta. Iva akagadzirira izvi. Iva wakagadzirirawo zvekuti, uchibuda kunze kwemukova neshamwari yako, unoisa panjodzi kunzwa shure kwevavakidzani kunyeveka kwevavakidzani: "Zvakanaka, iwe unofanira, apo murume ari kubasa, ari kuwana nguva yakanaka." Iwe unofanirwa kubvuma kutambudzwa kwakadaro uye edza kusabhadhara kune avo. Iwe haugoni kuudza mutauriri wese mutauriri kuti atsanangure uye aratidze kuti iwe uri shamwari chete, uye hapana chimwezve. Zvimwe zvinonyadzisa, uye zvakadaro havangatendi. Uye kana usinganzwisisi nechekuedza, edza kusavapa chikonzero - sangana neshamwari pane imwe nzvimbo pane zvematongerwe enyika, kure nemanzwiro ezvakanaka zvemuvakidzani wemuvakidzani. Zano rimwechete richave rinobatsira kune avo vanaamai vane varume vane shungu kwazvo neshamwari dzavo dzevarume uye munzira dzose dzinodzivisa ushamwari hwavo.
MUDZIDZIDZO WAKANAKA - NDIANI?
Kazhinji kacho mukadzi anokodzera ane godo nekuda kwekuti haanzwisisi kuti hafu yake inogona kuwirirana ne "mamwe marudzi emhando". Saka, varume vanodiwa, izvi hazvisi zvepabonde zvachose, asi zvakasiyana zvachose.
Mune dzimwe nguva, vakadzi vanosarudza kuva shamwari dzevaimbova vaanodzidza navo kana vekirasi kubva kuchikoro. Izvi zvinonzwisisika, nokuti vane zvizhinji zvizhinji! Zviyeuchidzo zvekuchikoro makore, ekoroji "mbatatisi", pamwe chete marwendo, mafirofi, nezvimwe. - ndiko kunzwisisika kwehuduku nekuyaruka. Zvese izvi zvinomutsa zvakasimba "kubhabhatidza" ushamwari. "Nikolai neni tiri shamwari dzekirasi yokutanga," anodaro Olga. - Pane imwe nguva akanga ane rudo rwevechiduku kwandiri, asi akazopfuura, uye ushamwari huripo. Isu tose tinokurukurirana. Ndakatanga kumuudza murume wangu weramangwana, uye iye kwandiri - nemudzimai wake wemunguva yemberi. Takakurukura pfungwa dzomumwe nomumwe kuti dzisarudze, uye saka takasarudza kuronga "kutarisa" tisati tava kumhanya mumhuri. Nhengo dzedu pakutanga dzakanga dzine godo nesu, asi dzakanyarara, tichiziva kuti hapana zvepabonde muukama hwedu uye hakunhuhwi. "
Shamwari dzinogona kuva shamwari dzakanaka. Vanowanzogovana zvidikanwi zvakafanana, kusanganisira unyanzvi.
Ushamwari hwakasimba dzimwe nguva hunokonzerwa ne "rudo" rwevanhu kare. Somuenzaniso, vaimbova vanodiwa kana vakaroorana (kana, zvechokwadi, vakaparadzana vasina kutukwa uye kunyadziswa, asi vakanyatsobudirira). Mumakaro maviri akadaro murazvo womoto wakabuda, chido chakapfuura, asi mumweya maiva neukama hwakanaka kune mumwe nemumwe. Inowanzova pamazimbe aya ayo ushamwari hwakasimba hunosikwa. Uye kunyange kana vanhu vachidzoka zvakare, vanowanzochengetedza ushamwari nevakwegura navo. Uye zvinoitika kuti ivo shamwari dzemhuri.
Zvechokwadi, kubva pakuona kwemurume wake, nzira chete inobvumirwa yehukama-mukomana weshamwari ndeye kana shamwari yemudzimai ichinyunyuta. Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanowanzova shamwari dzakanaka kumukadzi: dambudziko rekurara pabonde rinonyangarika, uye zvose zvinobatsira zvehukama hwakasanganiswa huripo. Asi mushure mokunge uchinyanya kushamwaridzana zvachose iwe haugoni kunetseka, varume vane tsika dzetsika zvisinei zvakadaro ndezve (neropafadzo yevakadzi!). Nokudaro, murume akakodzera achafananidza uye pakupedzisira anonzwisisa kuti murume nemudzimai vanogona kusanganiswa kwete nechishuwo chepabonde chete. Panewo ushamwari, uye hwakatambanudzwa, sezvatakawana, zvachose kune zvimwe zvinhu.
HARE YAHUSBAND
Kana mumwe wako ane godo newe kune shamwari yehama, shandisa mazano evanodzidza nezvepfungwa:
• Kazhinji rumbidza murume wako, uchimuudza kuti akanaka sei, akachenjera, shamwari uye nezvimwe zvakadaro. Mushure mezvose, godo rinowanzomuka kubva kune unhu hwakashata. Uye zviri musimba rako kukurudzira mumwe wako kuti iye munhu akasiyana zvachose uye iwe haufaniri kufunga mumafungiro ako kuti mumwe munhu angave ari panzvimbo yake;
♦ Usambofa uchinge uchinge wataura murume wako neshamwari yako: "O, iwe haunzwisisi ini! Zvakanaka, ipapo ndichaenda kuPasha. Anondida chaizvo! "Nezviito zvakadaro, iwe unongomutsamwisa zvikuru, uye achaita zvose zvinogona kuparadza ushamwari hwako;
• Edza kupararira muhupo hwemurume wako zvishoma pamusoro pehumwe shamwari yakanaka iwe uye kuti anokunzwisisa sei. Varume havadi apo mudzimai wavo anorumbidza vamwe varume;
• Usawana shamwari yako kuva shamwari yemhuri. Muzviitiko zvakawanda izvi hazvibviri. Zvakakwana kuti murume azive kuti iwe une shamwari yemurume uye iwe nguva nenguva unopedza nguva naye.