Godo.
Zvichida, avo vanotaura kuti havana kumboshuva chero munhu muhupenyu hwavo vane mano. Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, shanje inotitambudza isu uye haakurumidzi kurega kuenda. Muvakidzani ane chimiro chakanaka, icho chaakagara nhaka, uye iwe hauna kusiya gymini yegore. Waunoshanda naye akava mukuru wegore mushure mokunge apedza kudzidza kubva yunivhesiti, iwe wakagara panzvimbo imwe chete kwemakore 5. Mumwe munhu ane murume, uye hauna kunyange imbwa. Mumwe munhu ane motokari huru, uye iwe une bhasikoro pabhangi. Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekugodora, kungomupa kuda kwake, sezvaanotyisidzira kuderedza musoro wake.
Kushuva kunokonzera kutya kwedu, kuzvidemba pamusoro pemikana isina kukanganisa, zvinetso nekufungidzira. Muvakidzani anogona kunge ari mukadzi ane mafuta anongopfeka zvigadzirwa zvepurasitiki zvausingafungi. Mumwe waaishanda naye akava mutungamiriri wepamusoro, nokuti aifanira kuva maikadzi wekare uye akaipa Chief Boss. Murume wemumwe munhu anoshandura mumwe munhu, motokari yebasa uye mvere dzemawere. Asi iwe hauzivi pamusoro peizvi uye iwe unoramba uine godo.
Zvichida, kunzwa uku kunofanira kukandwa kunze.
The great ego.
Mumwe nomumwe wedu anozviona ari oga uye ane kodzero yekuzviita. Kana iwe uchigutsikana zvakasimba kuti hapana munhu ari nani pane iwe uye haagoni kuva, kana iwe uchifunga kuti munhu wose anofanira kukuda nekuda kwekuti iwe uri, pasinei nemafungiro ako, izvi zvatova matambudziko. Pakupedzisira, iwe unogona kufungidzirwa kuti uri munhu asina kugadzirisa unhu uye unoramba uchizvikudza.
Bvisa mararamiro ako makuru, ayo akakurambidza kwenguva refu kubva kurarama, kubata kumativi ose akakomba uye kukuvadza vamwe. Iwe pakarepo unonzwa uzonunurwa uye usatye kuramba uine chirwere chekucherechedza megalomania.
Zvose-kuziva.
Hauna kuona here kuti pane chimwe chiitiko chakanaka uye chisina kunaka unotanga kudzidzisa vamwe hupenyu? Uri kugovera mazano kune kurudyi uye kuruboshwe, kunyange kana iwe usina kubvunzwa? Kana iwe usingabvumiri hama kuti dzigadzirise zvinetso zvako pachako, kana iwe ukasangana nekuisa pfungwa yako, inguva yekumira. Funga, iwe mafungiro ako ndeechokwadi chete here, uye iwe unogona kukanganisa? Mira uye kubvisa nzira yekudzidzisa munhu wose uye wese uye iwe uchaona kuti kune zvinhu zvakawanda zvinonakidza munyika iyo kunyange iwe usingazivi.
Rudo rwekushaya simba.
Vamwe vanhu havavanze kukanganisa kwavo, vanovada, vanokoshesa uye vanokoshesa. Vanoziva zvose zviripo zvekureva nhema, nemakumbo akaputsika, uye kunyorera, uye kusuruvara, asi ... havakurumidze kuibvisa. Kana iwe uchifunga kuti nyaya inofadza kukurukurirana ndeyekukurukurirana kwekukanganisa kwako pachako, saka iwe unofanira kunge wakacherechedza kuti hauna shamwari dzakawanda, asi munhu wese anoda kuti muchengeti ave nyore kusvika kumurwere pachake.
Bvisa urombo uye utange kubvisa zvikonzero nei uchida kuzvidzora iwe pachako.
Kutsiva.
Zvechokwadi, dzimwe nguva kunyange vanhu vanovhara vanoita zvinhu zvakashata zvakadaro, izvo zvisingagoni kupindurwa. Asi kana iwe ukatsiva kuvanhu nokuda kwezvikonzero zvose-uye nekusundirwa kupinda mumugwagwa uye nekuda kwekudziviswa mubairo, zvakakosha kuti uone kuti chii chakashata newe. Mune mamwe matambudziko, iwe unogona kuva nemhosva kune iwe pachako, kwete kune vamwe. Usapa mhosva mafudzi avo. Kanganwira vanhu vakakanganisa kana vakakurumidza kukugumburai, edza kukanganwa zvikwanganiso izvi uye vatsiva kutsiva. Edza kurarama zvakasiyana, kuti uve wakanaka zvikuru. Iwe uchakurumidza kunzwa manzwiro ehupenyu huri nyore nyore pasina ruvengo rwakamanikidza.
Tose tine zvikanganiso. Mumwe munhu anofarira kuita zvivimbiso uye haasati avazadzikisa. Mumwe munhu anonyengera pamusoro pechiitiko chipi nechipi, mumwe munhu avete pane imwe nguva, mumwe munhu haagoni kutaura pamusoro pezvimwe zvinhu kunze kwezvavo ivo. Hatisi nguva dzose tichicherechedza kukanganisa uku matiri, asi tinowanzoona mune vamwe. Zvichida nguva dzose kuchenesa kunogona kuva nzira yakanakisisa yekubvisa mutoro wezviitiko zvisingafadzi. Munzvimbo yavo vanogona kuuya kune dzimwe, izvo zvichaita kuti iwe uve nani.