Nzira yekupona sei kwekutanga mujeri?

Vadikanwi vaverengi, ini ndinonyatsovhiringidza, kana dambudziko iri rakakubata iwe kana shamwari dzako, hama, shamwari. Kana, nechinangwa chakaipa, iwe uri kune rumwe rutivi rwecheni, ndichaedza kukupa mazano anobatsira, tk. iye pachake aive akazvionera panjodzi iyi dambudziko.

Kana dare rakatonga pamusoro pako musungwa, izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe uchapedza mwedzi unotevera kana uri mumutambo mukuru kana kuti mune imwe nzvimbo yevasungwa.

Kutanga, usazviisa mumusoro wako kuti utye, tk. zvinokukuvadza iwe chete. Usafunga kuti iyi ndiyo mugumo woupenyu hwako. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekufunga nezvepfungwa, gadzirirai kuchinja kwezviitiko. Nguva yokutanga izvi zvakaitika, iwe unoda kudzikama, kurasikirwa nemafungiro akapararira uye kuzvibata zvakarurama.

Handizotsananguri kuti kunyunyuta kwakanyorwa sei, nezvimwewo. uye zvakadaro. kuti maitiro anoshanda sei, ini ndichaedza kukuzivisai nguva iyo maitiro ekuzvibata nechocho chiitiko mune izvozvi.

Kana iwe usisiri nyaya yakakosha, iwe haungatongwi uri musungwa uri oga uye iwe unofanirwa kutaurirana nevamwe vatongi. Ndine urombo chinhu chandakavhiringidzika uye handina kutanga kwete. Nokudaro pane zvatakamira, asi tichiyeuka, iwe wakapiwa mutemo pane chiyero chekudzivisa mumamiriro ekupedzisira.

Nzira yokutanga yatinoti nhandare yemugwagwa yako icharara kuburikidza neIVS, semutemo mu IVS, vanhu havagari kwenguva yakareba uye vanoendeswa kuSIZO. Paunounzwa kuVS, chinhu chokutanga chaunosangana nacho ndechokutsvakurudza, kutsvakurudza kwakakwana kuchabviswa pane chinangwa uye kuchaongororwa, zvinyorwa zveminwe zvichabviswawo. Zvadaro vanopa mabhedha uye vanoenda kuchitokisi. Paunomira pamberi pekamera, yeuka nhamba yake, ichauya zvakanaka.

Enda mukamera, iva nechokwadi kuti unoti hello. Iwe unova sei nechokwadi chokuti hapana munhu ari muropa rako apo haane nyota, pane zvose zvakafanana newe kana inenge.

Usatya chero munhu upi zvake uye uzvibata wakadzikama. Nzvimbo yako hauzivi, saka usatya kuva nehanya nezvose zvinokupoteredza, t. kufarira nguva dzose kwakagamuchirwa, zvechokwadi iwe uchaudzwa pamusoro payo ipapo. Asi semurairo paIVS iwe uchachengetwa pamwe chete sezvawakangosvika, iyo inonakidza inotanga gare gare.

Saka mushure mezuva rimwe kana maviri iwe uchaendeswa kuSIZO kutanga kuti iwe uchasangana nenzira yako iyo inonzi "muchengeti wegedhi", imwe nzvimbo inenge mamita mashanu uye pamasvingo e "furzu", imba yekugezera pakona uye mabhenji maviri. Vatariri vemagedhi vari mujeri vakaita sevanhu vanomira kwatiri kana iwe unogona zvakare kutaura kuti zvikwata, pane vanhu vanobva mujeri rose vakamboenda chero kupi, kana kumatare, kuongorora, kusvika kumusasa kumusasa, nezvimwewo. enda kumurindi wegedhi, zvakare, taura hello undiudze zita rako, tsanangura pano kwekutanga.

Kana pane munhu mu gatehouse uyo atojekeswa zvakare, acharamba achitaura newe uye anotsanangura maitiro avanoita kune hutungamiri uye kuti chii chaunenge uchimirira mune ramangwana. Mushure mekuchengetedza gedhi iwe nezvinhu zvichaendeswa pakuongorora, spfigrafiruyut uye kutungamirira kumvura, kana panguva iyo yezhizha, ipapo pamusoro pemvura inopisa iwe unogona kukanganwa iyo imomo muzhizha, uye chimwe chinhu zvakare pamusoro pekuti kana iwe ukageza saga mumweya wako, kwete itya kuti iwe unogona kuitora uye hapana munhu angataura chero chinhu kwauri, chete mazano angu kwauri kugara pasi, kuitira kuti uzvibvise iwe kusekwa kana chimwe chinhu chakadaro.

Pano iwe wakashambidzwa uye iwe wakapa mateti, mhete yevheekesi, mapepa maviri uye pillowcase ikozvino iwe nzvimbo yako yekugara. Kuparadzanisa kunowanzofanana newe, saka enda ushingi uye usatya munhu chero upi zvake Paunouya kukamera, shingairira vanhu, bvunza kuti unogona kuisa zvinhu, iwe unogona kupiwa tei uye zvechokwadi uchataura.

Usaedza kutaurira ani nezvemhosva yako, hurukuro. Nokuti iyo nhamba huru kwazvo ye "hens", i.e. varidzi vemhere-mhere vanonyanya kuiswa mumasero kune avo vakangopinda muchengeti wejeri. Kurukura navose vakanyarara uye vane chivimbo, asi pasina mhaka musanyengera munhu, zvingava nani kusiya mhinduro, kushandura nyaya yacho. Kunyanya kufarira mune zvose zvinokupoteredza. kufarira kunogamuchirwa, handigoni kutaura nechivimbo kuti iwe uchakwanisa kutsanangurira zvinhu kune umwe neumwe uko, asi mune imwe sero ipapo zvose zvichave zvataurwa.

Quarantine. Zvarinoreva ndezvekuparadzanisa kuwanda kwemazana uye kutora ropa kuHIV, kuita chiitiko chekuongorora, nezvimwewo. pachedu, ndakanga ndiri mugave kwevhiki mbiri.

Mushure mokunge tsanangudzo dzose dzakagadzirirwa, iwe uchaendeswa ku "imba huru" kureva. ikozvino muchitokisi umo jeri rinogara hupenyu hwayo hwechokwadi. Kubva ipapo zvose zvinotanga. Zvakare, kana iwe uchiuya kumera, taura hello, uye bvunza "Hut vanhu?" Ichi chikuru chikuru kwauri, nokuti kune masero evanhu pane zvikwangwani ipapo, sekutonga, vanogara kana vakagumburwa, kana avo avo vakaputsika kubva mumba vachiita zviito zvisingagamuchiri.

Kana iwe uchiudzwa kuti imba yacho ndeyevanhu, iwe unogona kuve wakanyarara uye kunyatsoteerera kune zvauchaudzwa uye izvo zvaunokumbira. Hapana munhu achakurovai, uye hakuna munhu anotya kukutukai. Iwe uchataurirana naye saka tinoti "kutarisa" kwekhamera. Chinangwa chekukurukurirana ndechokuwana kuti rudzi rwevanhu rwakasvika kwavari uye kana pane zviito zvisingaregereki munguva yakapfuura iye.

Ndinonyatsovimba kuti uri munhu ane rukudzo rusingatambudzi, kana zvakadaro, saka iwe hauna chinhu chekutya, kupindura nokutendeseka. Mushure mokukurukurirana iwe uchapiwa tei kana chifir, usaramba kunyange kana iwe ukasanwa, kana iwe uchigona, asi ini handikupi zano. Mushure mokutaura, mazuva matatu evashanyi anopiwa, panguva iyo iwe unofarira pane zvaunogona kuita uye haugone kuzviita, funga mumamiriro ezvinhu ehupenyu uye iwe uchanzwisisa kuti jeri riri kure nezvakaratidzwa nemashoko kana mafirimu.

Manheru okutanga iwe paunopinda muchitokisi pamusoro pako ivo vachanyora izvo zvinonzi madyava, kuti zvakadai uye zvakadai zvasvika, pane vamwe vari mutirongo vanokuziva iwe kana kuti vamwe vanhu vomunyika. Aya mazuva matatu evaridzi, pedza nehuwandu hwekubatsira iwe pachako, zviongorore iwe zvawakanzwisisa mumazuva matatu aya, ona kuti nzira iyi ndeyi uye chii uye ndeyei uye nei vanhu vachida kufarira mumba kana kwete.

Mushure mokukurukurirana kwekutanga iwe uchaudzwa kuti mumazuva matatu vachazotaurirana newe zvakare mushure mokukurukurirana kwechipiri iwe uchatora icho kana imwe sero revanhu. Usashandise mapepa mumutauro, pakutanga haisi yakanaka, uye ikoko kune ngozi zvikuru, nokuti pamashoko ose aunofanira kupindura, saka teererazve, iwe uchati gare gare nguva dzose))).

Ini ndichakuudza zvishoma nezvenzira dzekukurukurirana mujeri kana kuti tsika ndeipi kumudana iye Majesty Road. Mugwagwa unogona kuva wemarudzi akawanda, mu cabrio, i.e. bhodzi murusvingo nekubatsirwa kwezvipfeko zvinotamirwa kune chimwe chinhu zvichienderana nehupamhi hwomukova, kunewo nzira mumhepo-nekubatsirwa kwezvimedu zvese zvinotamirwa chete kuburikidza nehwindo uye kune nzira inoenda muimba yekugezera inotumirwa kuburikidza nechinhu chipi nechipi. Zvose izvi nguva ichakuudzwa iwe panzvimbo, nokuti iri mujeri rimwe nerimwe rayo.

Usaedza kuzviparadzanisa iwe pachako, zvisinei kuti zvakaoma sei, taura nevanhu, taura, tora iwe, uverenge mabhuku, kana iwe ukarega, enda kufamba. Funga nezvehutano hwako, nguva dzose unoshamba iyo inokosha zvikuru mumamiriro ezvinhu aya.

Mushure mechinguva iwe uchararama uye uchinzwe usisina chivimbo, asi ikozvino ruzivo urwu rwakakwana kuti urege zvinetso zvisina kufanira nezvinetso.

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