Kupandukira mudzimai nemudzimai

Kutuka ... Shoko iri rinotyisa rinotyisa vazhinji vakaroorana. Sezvaunoziva, varume vanochinja kakawanda, vachivanza shure kwe "sarami" yavo-vanoti, yakagamuchirwa nemasikirwo ekuwedzera vanhu. Asi kusengedzwa kwomudzimai wake neanoda wake, nhamba inotyisa yevarume inopesana zvakanyanya kusvika pamutemo usingadzivisiki. Mushure mezvose, mudzimai - iye uye amai vevana, uye muchengeti wemukati, bereginya. Uye kazhinji vachiruramisa zvakakwana "maitiro avo kune rumwe rutivi", pfungwa yokuti "akachinjwa nemudzimai wake" inogona kutungamirira munhu kuti ave nechirwere chinokonzera chisimba. Uye zvakadaro, sevanyori vezvemagariro evanhu vakaratidza, panguva yemazuva ano, kutengeswa kwemudzimai chinhu chinowanzoitika.

Saka chii chiri musiyano pakati pevakadzi nevanhurume kutengesa? Chikonzero nei kuwirirana kwepabonde rakanaka, kururamisa mabhuku ose uye nheyo, vari kuramba vachitsvaka rudo runyararo mumubhedha, kwete nemurume anokodzera, asi neanoda? Ngatiedzei kuongorora. Sezvo mutemo, mukadzi anoshanduka, chaizvoizvo, "nokuda kwerudo". Kusiyana nevarume, umo maitiro ehumurume akasimba, mukadzi mumakore makumi mapfumbamwe kubva pamakumi matatu haataridzi kuwirirana, asi nekuda kwehukama hwehukama, izvo, zvechokwadi, zvinokuvadza kuzvikudza kwemurume wake. "Haasandidi", "mudiwa wake ari nani kupfuura ini", "achandisiya ndoenda kumudiwa wake" - pamusoro pemafungiro akadaro haapi kupa zororo kumurume. Uye tinofanira kubvuma kuti haasi kure nechokwadi.

Shure kwezvose, kana mukadzi akasarudza kutora danho rakadaro, zvinoreva kuti hupenyu hwemhuri yake hahufananidzi naye pane chimwe chinhu - kana kusava nekukurukurirana uye kunzwisisa, kana kugara uye kusava nemafaro, kana kusagutsikana muupenyu hwehukama, kana matambudziko emunhu. Uye zvichida zvose zviri pamusoro apa. Uye ikozvino mutsara wokuti "kutengesa mudzimai nomudzimai" kunorega kuonekwa semusango uye kunyangadza - shure kwezvose, hupenyu humwe! Uye mukadzi akadaro "anoenda kune zvose zvakakomba" - kunyanya kusakwanisa kukurukurirana nevanhu vechirume vakasiyana, vakadzi vakawanda iye zvino havana: vashandi pamwe navo, vashandi vebhizimisi, vadzidzisi, masseurs, vatariri. Vakawanda vavo vanokoshesa chaizvo, kunyanya vashandi vebasa.

Mukuwedzera, vakadzi vanoda kunzwa vakanaka uye vanoda! Uye "murume wemunharaunda", kunze kwebhola neInternet, haaone chinhu, uye anopa maruva chete musi waMarch 8, uye akanganwa pamusoro pemaropafadzo mushure memakore ekutanga emuchato. Nenzira, chikamu chikuru chemukadzi chinokurumidza kuvhiringidzwa nevasanangurwa vatsva, pakutanga avo vanodiwa, uye nemanzwiro ekuzvidemba vanodzokera kuvarume vavo. Asi nguva inoenderera mberi, hapana chinoshanduka, uye vanodzokerazve kutsvaga chinhu chitsva cherudo.

Saka iwe unogona kukurudzirai varume vako kuti vadzivise kutengeswa kwemudzimai wako nemunoda wako? Mazano acho akajeka, asi mukuita, marwadzo! hazviwanzoitwa.
Ikokutanga kunonyanya kukoshesa. Aya ndiwo mazano, uye zvipo "kwete pamusoro", uye kuongororwa kwemupfeko mutsva kana gadziro, uye kufarira mubasa rake nekuzvivaraidza.
Dare repiri rinowedzera rudo. Kubva pane tsika uye tsika - vanozivikanwa kuuraya hukama. Zviitiko zvepikiniki, kuenda kumafirimu, manheru anovhenekera masikati - izvi zvose zvakakosha kumudzimai wese.

Nechepano yechitatu ndeyekusiyana kwehupenyu hwepedyo. Hazvina kudiwa kuti udzoke zvakare Kama Sutra, kudzidza zvitsva, asi kana iwe ukapa mudzimai wako, somuenzaniso, zvishandiso zvitsva kana kupfeka nguo yakashongedzwa, iwe uchashamisika kuti hutano hwake hunowedzera sei. Kana kuti edza zvepabonde munzvimbo isina kujairika (hongu, kuchengeta mitemo yehutano!). Zvinyorwa panyaya iyi zvino yava gungwa - kuedza!

Dare rechina rinosanganiswa. Zvinogona kuva chinhu-kungova pamwe chete. Zvichida mudzimai wako achada hove.
Uye chinhu chikuru ndechokuti uone kuti kana vaviri vakaroorana vane ukama hwakabatana uye kune rudo, saka hakuna munhu achatarisa zviitiko kune rumwe rutivi. Ndezvipi zvazvinenge zvakakodzera, kana pane shamwari yaunofarira nguva dzose yaunofunga, iwe pachayo, iyo iwe inofadza uye yakasununguka?